Alcohol Kills.. (Page 5): Thanks Larry... I'm Totally Out of Gas Tonight, Didn't Sleep At All Last Night, Couldn't Shut My Head Up, Maybe Tonight, Now... Don D.

Don G. Dinsdale Loc: El Cajon, CA (San Diego County)

Thanks Larry... I'm Totally Out of Gas Tonight, Didn't Sleep At All Last Night, Couldn't Shut My Head Up, Maybe Tonight, Now... Don D.

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Larry the Legend wrote:

Oh, man, that's awful. I can't imagine the pain and grief of burying my own son like that. What a crying shame. I too teetered on the edge of alcoholism for several years. Thank the Lord I never fell in, but came close on many occasions. I wish you well, Don. Cherish his memory while you live, and know that one day you will both walk the Streets of Glory, together again. God bless.

oldroy Loc: Western Kansas (No longer in hiding)

Don G. Dinsdale wrote:

Thanks Larry... I'm Totally Out of Gas Tonight, Didn't Sleep At All Last Night, Couldn't Shut My Head Up, Maybe Tonight, Now... Don D.

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Don, nearly 15 years ago my dad really suffered from the death of my brother who was taken by cancer. Nothing like your son's but my dad just couldn't understand why his children were going before him. I don't know what he would have done if I had passed from my heart attack but nobody ever told him about that or my bypass surgery. The old man passed, himself, at 97 two months after I had my problem. The EMT who rode in the ambulance with me was sure I had passed on while we were enroute. Maybe that is the reason I didn't go all the way.

Anyway, let me tell you I am sure it will ease up for you and sooner than you may believe. Please don't let it get you completely down.

thinksense

Don G. Dinsdale wrote:

My 53 Year Old Son Died Last Night In His Sleep, P... (show quote)

Right now it is terrible fro you, but you are a tough sensible guy, as I can tell from your writings here. Grit your teeth and hang in there. It WILL get better.

You got a lot of people bucking for you.

jSmitty45 Loc: Fl born, lived in Texas 30 yrs, now Louisiana

Don, so sorry for your loss. I had 4 brothers, no sisters. 2 of them died at a young age too. Alcohol related as well
Bad for the heart.
I hope you find peace and comfort.

Don G. Dinsdale Loc: El Cajon, CA (San Diego County)

Thanks My Friend... Don D.

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oldroy wrote:

Don, nearly 15 years ago my dad really suffered fr... (show quote)

Don G. Dinsdale Loc: El Cajon, CA (San Diego County)

I Thank You For Your Kind Thoughts... Don D.

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thinksense wrote:

Right now it is terrible fro you, but you are a tough sensible guy, as I can tell from your writings here. Grit your teeth and hang in there. It WILL get better.

You got a lot of people bucking for you.

Don G. Dinsdale Loc: El Cajon, CA (San Diego County)

Thank You, He Has Found Those Things Now And I'll Trust This Power Who Has Guided Me For These Past 75 Years, Last 39 Sober... Don D.

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jSmitty45 wrote:

Don, so sorry for your loss. I had 4 brothers, no sisters. 2 of them died at a young age too. Alcohol related as well
Bad for the heart.
I hope you find peace and comfort.

no propaganda please Loc: moon orbiting the third rock from the sun

Don G. Dinsdale wrote:

Thank You, He Has Found Those Things Now And I'll Trust This Power Who Has Guided Me For These Past 75 Years, Last 39 Sober... Don D.

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When I was a young teenager I spent a lot of time smoking dope and drinking beer. It would not have been difficult to end up as an alcoholic. The day I graduated from high school I left home, gave up beer and grass, and never looked back, best decision I ever made Or rather the second best after marring SWMBO. I can understand why many people can't give up the booze, there are still times when I think about having another glass of wine or another beer and decide one of either no more than two times a week has worked well, and I have no craving for anything more. I have been so blessed with God's gifts including friends like you on OPP. You are in our prayers and I know that you are strong and will get through this with the love of friends and the strength that comes from God's love.

Don G. Dinsdale Loc: El Cajon, CA (San Diego County)

Thanks My Friend, Once I Get His Ashes To Fort Rosecrans In San Diego (Point Looma) It'll Be Easier For All, Also Sleep Helps, Rest Heals... Don D.

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no propaganda please wrote:

When I was a young teenager I spent a lot of time ... (show quote)

Michael Rich Loc: Lapine Oregon

Don G. Dinsdale wrote:

My 53 Year Old Son Died Last Night In His Sleep, P... (show quote)

I'm very sorry to hear of your grief...I personally don't know you but know by what you post, your heart is in the right place, my sincere condolences..

slatten49 Loc: Lake Whitney, Texas

Don G. Dinsdale wrote:

My 53 Year Old Son Died Last Night In His Sleep, P... (show quote)

Words cannot express my sadness from such a loss as that of your son. You have my most profound condolences.

Peace be with you.

Don G. Dinsdale Loc: El Cajon, CA (San Diego County)

That's The Thing I Love About The Internet, We Meet Friends From Everywhere, And If You Read My Post You Know Me, Thank You For Your Kinds Words... Don D.

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byronglimish wrote:

I'm very sorry to hear of your grief...I personally don't know you but know by what you post, your heart is in the right place, my sincere condolences..

Don G. Dinsdale Loc: El Cajon, CA (San Diego County)

Thanks My Friend, Much Needed Love... Don D.

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slatten49 wrote:

Words cannot express my sadness from such a loss as that of your son. You have my most profound condolences.

Peace be with you.

bahmer

Don G. Dinsdale wrote:

Thanks My Friend, Much Needed Love... Don D.

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Don I lost my son of nineteen years to a hit and run driver and I can tell you no mater what the cause losing a child is never easy. Take your time for grieving and healing and it will take time. Also don't blame yourself either these are all easier said than done. I know my late wife said I was a literal zombie for six months before I finally started coming out of my stupor. Just give yourself time Don and take care we are all praying for you and your family.

Don G. Dinsdale Loc: El Cajon, CA (San Diego County)

Thanks, I Haven't Love Many People, Don E. Was With Me From His 14 Year B'Day, After Divorce, He Saw Me And Many, Many Others Get And Stay Sober, I Loved That Guy, He Was a Brave Courageous Man While Serving Has a Chest Full of Medals, But Alcohol Kicked His Ass, But I Still Love Him... Don D.

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bahmer wrote:

Don I lost my son of nineteen years to a hit and run driver and I can tell you no mater what the cause losing a child is never easy. Take your time for grieving and healing and it will take time. Also don't blame yourself either these are all easier said than done. I know my late wife said I was a literal zombie for six months before I finally started coming out of my stupor. Just give yourself time Don and take care we are all praying for you and your family.