AuntiE wrote:
Basically, you now want Aunti to have to wear trekking shoes inside of nice flats to galavant the mall from place to place. 8-) :lol: :roll: As it is you making the request, I will do as you ask.
I am sorry for the loss of your many friends. It leaves a hole in us.
Thank you, and I will say a tefilah for you.
AuntiE
Loc: 45th Least Free State
Old_Gringo wrote:
Thank you, and I will say a tefilah for you.
Your prayer is most welcome by me.
Please mention James Michael Greenwell. He came home, put passed away later of Lymphoma due to Agent Orange exposure.
What a wonderful and nobel thing your doing auntiE. Thank you from my heart.
AuntiE
Loc: 45th Least Free State
rhomin57 wrote:
Please mention James Michael Greenwell. He came home, put passed away later of Lymphoma due to Agent Orange exposure.
What a wonderful and nobel thing your doing auntiE. Thank you from my heart.
If you give me the year he served, I will place a flower with his name at the base of the section for that year.
It is my honor to make this small gesture.
Two tours, '68-'69. Thank you. I will be saying a Big prayer on behalf of all, at my home. I've only seen the wall on television, so my heart will really be with you.
AuntiE wrote:
If you give me the year he served, I will place a flower with his name at the base of the section for that year.
It is my honor to make this small gesture.
AuntiE wrote:
On Memorial Day, I will be at the wall. If any of you have a section you wish a flower to be placed at the base, please let me know which section. I will be purchasing flowers on Saturday. If there is a particular name you wish to honor, I will attach a tag to the flower naming that individual for you.
James Killeran, a grade school friend. Frank Gaffney, who made it home and killed himself; his name is not there. Victor Plumb the same. For vets, you need to read between the lines. Survival in the jungle, is not survival in civilization. The count of war dead is far higher. The booby trap, mine, or sniper that missed kills many months or years later in inexplicable ways, yet far more deadly and accurate. Place a dozen roses in the blank between names, AuntiE, and that may honor a tenth of those who died in that space or in other ways gave their life for their country.
I am conflicted over this. Vietnam for me was like a Club-Med vacation. I still feel guilty claiming to be a veteran of foreign wars, so I don't. God bless you for making the trip to honor real heroes. Their numbers go well-beyond injured, missing, and dead.
rumitoid wrote:
James Killeran, a grade school friend. Frank Gaffney, who made it home and killed himself; his name is not there. Victor Plumb the same. For vets, you need to read between the lines. Survival in the jungle, is not survival in civilization. The count of war dead is far higher. The booby trap, mine, or sniper that missed kills many months or years later in inexplicable ways, yet far more deadly and accurate. Place a dozen roses in the blank between names, AuntiE, and that may honor a tenth of those who died in that space or in other ways gave their life for their country.
I am conflicted over this. Vietnam for me was like a Club-Med vacation. I still feel guilty claiming to be a veteran of foreign wars, so I don't. God bless you for making the trip to honor real heroes. Their numbers go well-beyond injured, missing, and dead.
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Rumi, I say again: If you served during that period of our history, you answered the call when others did not. Few were/are allowed the luxury of picking the terms of their service, but did/do as told. Victims of 'survivor's guilt' belong on any list of casualties from war.
Be at peace, Brother(s).
AuntiE wrote:
On Memorial Day, I will be at the wall. If any of you have a section you wish a flower to be placed at the base, please let me know which section. I will be purchasing flowers on Saturday. If there is a particular name you wish to honor, I will attach a tag to the flower naming that individual for you.
Thank you AuntiE. You will be blessed for this kindness.
As I have stated before my husband died as a result of Agent Orange. My husband never felt his country appreciated his service. I wish he could have known you.
AuntiE
Loc: 45th Least Free State
She Wolf wrote:
Thank you AuntiE. You will be blessed for this kindness.
As I have stated before my husband died as a result of Agent Orange. My husband never felt his country appreciated his service. I wish he could have known you.
If you provide me the year he served, I will place a rose at that year in his memory for you.
slatten49 wrote:
Rumi, I say again: If you served during that period of our history, you answered the call when others did not. Few were/are allowed the luxury of picking the terms of their service, but did/do as told. Victims of 'survivor's guilt' belong on any list of casualties from war.
Be at peace, Brother(s).
I had not considered, at least for a while, how many casualties never got on the wall because of a delayed reaction. I knew my cousins weren't unique, but it seems there were more than I realized.
Loki wrote:
I had not considered, at least for a while, how many casualties never got on the wall because of a delayed reaction. I knew my cousins weren't unique, but it seems there were more than I realized.
Some very good men I knew from that War ended up, years later, committing suicide...unable to live with the memories or nightmares that followed them, for some, decades. These were not weak men, either, nor always unsuccessful with their lives after the War.
A sign familiar to those who have visited the VA for counseling reads, "Not all wounds are visible." Damage to the psyche can be interminable.
You know that our own government "fumbles" mean turn overs to death for many. War over: "Sorry, who are you?" But complaint is not going to change much.
My local VFW is getting pro-active. F*** the administration, whomever it is; our boys need help now! Getting a support network of vets with time and various skills to directly help in volunteer status or find others willing to do the same in their trade or profession. I feel that my good friend was saved from suicide by this effort.
rumitoid wrote:
You know that our own government "fumbles" mean turn overs to death for many. War over: "Sorry, who are you?" But complaint is not going to change much.
My local VFW is getting pro-active. F*** the administration, whomever it is; our boys need help now! Getting a support network of vets with time and various skills to directly help in volunteer status or find others willing to do the same in their trade or profession. I feel that my good friend was saved from suicide by this effort.
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Right now, today, Congress could authorize the VA to issue vouchers to allow Vets to get the help they need at private hospitals, until this is sorted out. But Harry Reid thinks that a debate about the Washington fucking Redskins name being offensive is more important; after which our hardworking Congressmen will take yet another taxpayer funded vacation. They aren't much different from Michelle Obama, are they?
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