ginnyt wrote:
Oh but I understand, you are a forgiving kind gentle loving person who has found it better to forgive, but never let anyone put the past where it belongs. A person not wanting pity may relay their story once, but they do not keep repeating it embellishing it more and more. People that forgive, remembers the past but only to use as a guidelines or a useful tool so they can see their future. A bitter person, keeps the anger, the hate, the exact words that were said so alive it is like reliving it everyday. They know the smallest details because they hate and no one will take that hate and anger from them because that is all they have. And it shows. The selection of words, their need to argue a point until their opponent gives up. They crave pity, but they do not want anyone to say it out loud, they want an apology, but have no idea of how to accept one, they simply want revenge but do not know how to exact a justified action, so they complain how awful the white man is/was/and ever shall be, they go into graphic detail of the sins and wrongs that another committed, and then the put the cherry on top by saying "you don't understand." god forbid that someone bring up any bad decisions of your tribe, or race, because then that person has to be a racist. Never mind that you have just gone on and on of how awful white men are. That is not racist.
So, I say to you that I was wrong in trying to befriend or encourage you. You are a hostile person and your intent is not discussion but to vent your hatred. I will not be a party to feeding your anger. Good Luck!
Oh but I understand, you are a forgiving kind gent... (
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Well stated.