maydaybaby wrote:
I worked with a young (about 25) black girl whose mother had raised her in the welfare system all their lives. She was without doubt the laziest person I knew. We could hardly keep her at her desk, she was out socializing. She had a collection of excuses for not coming to work, much more than car trouble, sleeping late, family sickness, you name it. She knew how to work any system and con anybody she could. For a long time, it actually turned me against black people.
I find it very difficult to understand how it would be even possible to turn you or anyone against an entire race of people because you observed one behaving inappropriately. I am reasonably sure you didn't mean that.