ghostgotcha wrote:
I my be opening a Pandora box of conflict with this thread, but what the heck -- Here goes and I have many points to make in order to allow a conclusion by anyone who wants to participate. Note: the topic of this thread has little to do with politics, rather the root causes of the antics being displayed on the news every day of late.
Many news stories and political diatribes are on the topic of man making unwanted advances towards women. The most recent started with the Washington Post attack on Roy More down in Alabama in a purely political move. Now the news stories are expanding onto other men.
Many women are appearing on the national news media demanding their rights and privileges be protected from these mean men. As well they might.
In laying a foundation for this thread I will tell you a little true story about one of my experiences and let's see if you can connect the dots.
Some time ago (as a young and naive man) I was working for Uncle Sam just outside of Washington D.C. Most every morning I would walk in the front door, move quickly over to the coffee counter, greeting many of the girls working the front desks and engage in chit-chat. Then once my coffee was safely in my hands I would move on to my work area in another room. This one morning the girls were chattering about their cosmetic choices in detail and the costs of the better brands. I (being a stupid man) piped up and asked "Why do you girls do all this?" One girl piped up and sent me back on my heels. She said "We do it for you guys of course!"
Can you see where I am going with thisQuestions:
1. Unless you are a unnatural, unhinged, queer, can you understand the natural attraction men have to women and women to men. It is a natural triggering device to procreate and populated the earth with more little boys and girls - so they can do the same?
2. Can you understand the mental drive in most men to "conquer" the opposite sex and spread their seed?
3. Is there a natural drive in girls to attract men to their womb so they too can be more fulfilled in life's story?
It is true I am not a girl and cannot fully understand their motives and methods so give me a little slack as I try my best. 4. If we are going to demand men stifle their natural desires should we then require women to contribute their share. Things like ending their use of lipstick, mascara, two piece and bikini swimsuits, revealing dresses... etc. etc. etc. to attract the opposite sex.
So, what do you think?
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Sexual attraction between the sexes is as old as Adam and Eve.. It’s a born in appreciation triggered by hormones of both sexes.. Nothing unnatural about it at all..
Everything is sex anymore.. Look at the commercials anymore or the scantly clad commercial pictures used to capture the interest of the viewer etc...
Men are attracted to women and women to men..Women do use their natural senses to attract a certain man and if she denies it she is lying.. The difference between it all is what is being sought?? For some in the workforce they dress to appease, to be recognized or just fit in.. They use their sex more often than not because they lack self confidence and don’t believe they can stand on their own merit.. Truly sad because most could very well achieve their career path without resorting to sex to achieve it..
But they know no different or are just doing what everyone else is doing~~ innocent enough, yes, No!!
Societal moral change is also at hand.. We do not value a person based on objectives but rather subjective nuances we believe further our self worth ..
A woman certainly knows how to bring it or leave it and from what I see in my daily outings women have brought too much Promiscuity to the workforce itself.. It’s all good while just playful banter then it changes and now she is offended.. She’ll stand there and join in the not so appropriate jokes or touch a man’s shoulder etc never seeing she is leading him on or perhaps trying to entice him..Then when she tires of trying to attract him and not getting her way she rebukes suddenly his playful banter and is now offended..
Men likewise have that conquest mentality and will always try to impress or work his way into your life for the ultimate conquest.. Not at all unnatural..He is highly motivated in his job and those aggressive hormones take over knowing he’s got to have his game in order and execute achievement.. That doesn’t turn off when in the presence of women if anything it is amplified, and a woman knows When attraction is present.. if she is not interested she need only shut it down before it gets started..period..
It is the responsibility of both to act appropriately in the work environment and many employers have a no fraternization policy in effect and do so to cover them from sexual discrimation actions..
The old adage you play you pay is valid.. Women need to understand they are qualified for their job based on their qualifications and not what they bring in addition to those qualifications.. At the very least it creates confusion.. if she seeks out someone she’s attracted to and it doesn’t work out well, she knew that risk going in and should not later out of revenge try to then hurt the man by claiming unwanted actions on his part..
Women have become instrumental in the work force and they make good employees just like men~, its the fact they don’t feel that way and naturally blame the man for their own shortcomings..for being held back or not promoted etc.. Feel that way then address it right then.. They don’t because they don’t want to loose their job?? Are they not compromising themself in that decision or is it that they really aren’t all that offended doing what comes natural between the sexes???
And sorry but I do not believe these women coming out of the woodwork all of a sudden with allegations from years before that she now needs to deal with... BS if it wasn’t enough of a issue to bring it when it allegedly occurred then she need not bring it now!! Sorry ladies but to wait 10, 20 yrs to make your claim known it obviously did not bother you that much..
Relative to questions 3 and 4 yes!!
A lady can engage in the workforce with respect and dignity her frontline game and soon enough she sees she is respected and worthy even if she is sexy herself or expounds that air of self confidence.. No man can hold you down if you believe in yourself first and treat them with the same level of self respect you hold yourself accountable for.. I am as good as I am because I studied, learned and loved..
it is not the man that dictates my future it is I whom knows what I want and how to get it through hard work and first and foremost my self respect...
I truly feel sorry for men anymore.. They simply do not know what is acceptable or tolerated anymore and they don’t because neither does the women!!