Ephesians 6: 1-9 Children and Parents
1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 "Honor your father and mother"--which is the first commandment with a promise-- 3 "that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth." 4 Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.
S***es and Masters
5 S***es, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear, and with sincerity of heart, just as you would obey Christ. 6 Obey them not only to win their favor when their eye is on you, but like s***es of Christ, doing the will of God from your heart. 7 Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not men, 8 because you know that the Lord will reward everyone for wh**ever good he does, whether he is s***e or free. 9 And masters, treat your s***es in the same way. Do not threaten them, since you know that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and there is no favoritism with him.
The first four verses of this chapter may be much harder to work with than the last five verses simply because of the age we are living in. Children obey your parents in the Lord. It is obvious that this is right, but how much family devastation have we seen over the years? I grew up with my grandparents, but I also had time with parents and an orphanage. With my grandparents, if I knew I had done something wrong, I went and got my own willow switch and told on myself. Heaven help me if my grandparents found out about it via the grapevine!
With my my father used a belt and he put us in an orphanage when he and my mother broke up and left all of us: my mother, sadly, there are no good words to describe living with my mother, although I did live about 4 yrs with her. If you're lucky, you have great parents and good memories, but that isnt always how it happens today.
In fact, I think until the 1950s when television started to get into full swing, we had a world that had greater stability than after the growth of TV took hold. But that is only my summation. It may have been different for many of you.
This is not to blame TV, but look at what the inventions of TV and now I-Phones have done. Children are completely wrapped up in them for hours in a day. We see violence real and imaginary from all over the world. Our cartoons also contain more violence now than they did then.
With the advent of TV, suddenly we were introduced into things we had never seen before. And in the beginning it was quite tame. We have Romper Room; Howdy Doody, Kookla, Fran and Ollie; Twilight Zone, Lassie, Mickey Mouse Club, The Lone Ranger, Space Patrol, You Asked for It, and on and on.
In fact, I tend to think until the 1950s when television started to get into full swing, we had a world that had greater stability than after the growth of TV took hold.
Then, suddenly we were introduced to things we had never seen before. I remember one segment of Twilight Zone where it showed a woman staring at a blank screen - a screen that looked like our computer screens today. It seemed silly at the time, and yet today we have computers which show us a blank screen on which we can write, draw, post, communicate, send and see pictures and hear the news. The world is no longer thousands of miles away; it is in our living rooms and dens and even in our schools!
We see violence real and imaginary from all over the world. Our cartoons contain more violence now than was portrayed in the younger years of TV. It seemed silly at the time, and yet today we have computers which offer us a blank screen on which we can write, draw, post, communicate, send pictures and hear the news. The world is no longer thousands of miles away; it is in our living rooms and dens and even in our schools now!
Nor do the shows typically portray or promote solutions, much less making up, apologizing, or obeying ones parents. A few might promote harmony, but overall, they pit one side against the other - and for what purpose? Peace? Harmony? Doesn't sound like it, does it? Rather it is for the excitement; the suspense; the surprise!
And in these verses it says Honor your father and mother which is the first commandment with promise. Does anyone know what that promise is now? So we see this happening in our neighborhoods, our schools?
How about the next scripture: Fathers, do not exasperate your children? Do they even bother to be there, much less helping with the training and instruction of the Lord in their childrens' lives? Do they demonstrate solutions, making up, apologizing, or obeying ones parents? What about Honor your father and mother which is the first commandment with promise. (Does anyone know what that promise is?)
Was it ever the role of the mother to raise the children in instruction in the Lord? What does Psalm say about the role of the mother?
And next we have the commands regarding s***es and masters. In America we dont deal with this as we did in years gone by, but what about hired help? What about migrant workers? Are they where s***ery is common? And what if one has a heavy-handed master? How does that apply today?
I remember when we were sent to Saudi we were instructed quite adamantly to make sure our children were always WITH somebody because it was quite common for a child to disappear as a result of being abducted and sold into s***ery. Our girls, in particular, were told to make sure they were never caught alone anywhere, because it was an open invitation to rape. You see, over there, a woman alone is specifically asking to be raped. And if I had been in a car with someone other than my husband we would both have been tried 'and beheaded' for adultery. It wouldnt matter if the other person was best friend with the mate we were not married, therefor; adultery had occurred whether the either person touched the other or not!
And are not those who employ us masters over us? How do we serve whole-heartedly? Ever had a bad day at work, or a conflict with the boss? How does one handle that situation in a godly manner?
Now we can't suddenly change the world, but isn't Ephesians all about the individual? And if we change ourselves according to God's word; what happens to the observers?
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