Bad Bob wrote:
EC, what are your "Family Values"?
Both Parents take care of their children, blended families (and extended family members) treat all children as natural children, loving them, being good role models for them and having structure in the family's daily expectations of each member of the family. Children are taught responsibility and respect for all individuals by the example parents set. Children are taught life sk**ls such as cooking, cleaning, home & clothing maintenance--learning by doing these activities With their parents. Parents don't expect children to be a 'parent', maid, housekeeper, child minder, grounds keeper, etc. That's part of parenting; however, children need to be taught these things by example and inclusion with parental joint efforts. Children mimic what they see and hear, so parents must set good examples such as attending church, giving to charities (time, work effort, money), being honest in word and deed (in private and in public), helping individuals whenever possible (doesn't have to cost money), working to provide necessities, providing positive role models for the children, setting doable goals for daily, weekly, monthly living.
Yes, I'm a Christian, I strongly believe that attending church strengthens faith and helps one to grow in Christian values such as "do unto others as you would have them do unto you,"
"even as you have done this to the least of my children, you have done it unto me," "he that knows to do good and does it not hath sinned," and we must never deny God the Father, Son, and the Holy Spirit. These values are part of my family and religious values and have me looking for the good in others and actively looking to serve Him in my daily life by being a positive role model. A preacher once said something along the lines of "our lives might be the closest that someone gets to reading the word of God. So ...what are they reading about Him in your life? That being said, God is the potter, I am the clay...He's not done with me yet!