[quote=Geezer1948]I've only been here awhile, and I really hate long posts, but this issue of being politically correct is driving me nuts. Here's my story...Please tell me if you think I am/was off-base.
Ill tell you my personal story, and journey, with [PC} political correctness. It will take a few minutes to read, but if you ride along, I think you will see how screwed-up we have become.
My career spanned nearly 40 years in Human Resources, Including being VP of HR for 15 of those years. I prided myself in my knowledge of and expertise in Labor and Employment law. As part of my responsibilities at several companies, I conducted Sexual Harassment training for all employees
supervisors and their staff, alike, although I dug a little deeper with the supervisors, dos and donts and what and when to report, etc.) . I made my presentation to literally thousands of employees over that time. I always tried to introduce my presentation with a little levity. Since I did this across 7 or 8 states with many employees Id never seen or met before, I never really expected a hostile crowd, was typically warmly received and only one time did I encounter problem.
I would open with some general comments about who I was and why I was there, and that, although I planned to inject some humor into the presentation, no one should interpret that as me taking the topic lightly or anything less than deadly serious. I went on to say that as I was packing to catch my flight, my wife said; What are you going to do, today? I said, Im going to stand up in front of a bunch of people who are mostly strangers
and talk about sex. And she said: Oh, Honey, youre good at talking about it. The typical response to that was widespread applause and laughter
exactly what I had hoped for.
I thought that line was clever, self-deprecating, and didnt see how anyone could possibly be offended by it. I was wrong
Having given the same opening to no fewer than 3,000 employees, I finally got one (1) negative feedback, not directly, but via our IT director, who happened to be female, and had exposed me to some of the raunchiest internet humor I had seen, up to that point: lots of Viagra humor, the Piano man video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wP9-nThLbgg WARNING
IT IS NSFW!!!; and a little squeeze doll with a grass skirt who popped a woody when you squeezed him. (Havent been able to find a link, for that one.)
I am not saying this to say she was a bad person, or morally bankrupt, but upon receiving the complaint, rather that tell me--a peer staff member about it (and the one to whom allegations like this were supposed to be reported)--she went to our boss
the President
and it became a part of my permanent record! He had heard it, and thought it was funny too, by the way.
And had she come to me, she and I both know that I would have immediately reported it to my boss, as well. But because it involved Sexual harassment, however remotely, HE was duty bound to report it to corporate.
My earliest Sexual harassment investigation was in 1976, before they even had a name for it, and I continued to investigate, adjudicate, and frequently dispense discipline over the course of my career, without censure, and often with comments like Im glad somebody had enough b@lls to do something about that. I had employees quit, violent physical threats, and more, but I always tried to tread the straight and narrow, in my opinion.
Oh, and the punch-line is, out of 3,000+ employees, the one and only complainant was
a severely overweight LBGQT employee, (I will not reveal gender or preference) who somehow found my opening comments offensive.
Thats my story on Political Correctness, and Im sticking to it.
If I may, Ill paraphrase old honest Abe as follows:
You can offend all the people, some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but if you offend one of the people, even one time, you are screwed.[/quote]
Your story is not surprising. I am not usually politically correct, but attempt to be civil. sometimes that is hard. one of the posters here, named Rod riddle, who claimed to be a transgender member of NAMBLA finally caused me to loose it in his discussion og how the boys at NAMBLA meetings really enjoyed the sex they had with adult men. We finally got rid of the bastard, although I am not sure he is not back under another name.