TheChardo wrote:
Dave wrote:
What I'm saying is that the single biggest problem with child abuse, other than p********a, is dysfunctional families -{ We're OK up to this point...from here on you loose me....}
and further I'm saying that the single biggest cause of dysfunctional families is the explosion of single mothers, and the single biggest cause of single motherhood is the government becoming a part of the family in many ways - not the least of which is providing a financial baseline that enables it (and some would argue encourages it - like the infamous Obama commercial on cradle to grave government support).
You make a couple of bizarre assumptions here:
1. single mothers = dysfunctional family
2. Government programs cause single parenthood....you strike me as very strange
3. You also seem to be unable to get past the idea that all dysfunctional families are poor and dependent on gov. services. There re plenty of well off two parent families that are horrible parents, and plenty of poor single parents who are great parents.
As to making life harder, I would suggest that by holding people to standards in order for them to maintain government support would not make it harder for them, quite the contrary it would make them more likely to help themselves and less likely to harm others.
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1.What is bizarre is a professional social worker who is surprised that overwhelmingly children of single mothers have problems with drugs, education, crime and their own single parenthood in number far in excess of two parent families.
2. You have to also have carefully avoided sources other than left wing publications to find it surprising that government programs enable single parenting. I'm guessing you are totally unfamiliar with social scientists like Walter E Williams and Thomas Sowell, but do a bit of checking out the studies conducted by a person I'm sure you heard of - Daniel Patrick Moynihan. He conducted studies and wrote extensively on the subject as far back as the '70's.
3. No where did I state that all dysfunction families are poor, not did I state that all children of single mothers are troubled - and I know you are intelligent and literate enough to know that. Your statement in this regards is clearly a straw man, meant to argue against a position that no one took.
I see now that you see this discussion as some kind of contest, that I used your words "against" you - and you even suggested you needed to discontinue discussion because of my attack. Notice, however, that I take no issue with you suggesting I am bizarre - and other personal shots - I don't take such issue because I can deal with simple facts and I respond to what you say, not what I wish you said, like you did with this and other straw men.
Recognizing that you and I have significantly different experiences, that provides the basis for discussion - not contest. I don't assume my experiences are somehow more noble than yours, nor do I assume I'm somehow more moral than anyone else.
I say what I think, I explain why I think it, and while my experiences may be different - they provide no less a base of knowledge than others.
I've learned a lot about the experiences of those in both education and social work by listening to what they say and trying to understand the dynamics of the world they live in - I'd suggest you don't even make such an effort on your own life experiences - certainly if you are truly surprised to hear that single motherhood is strongly associated with poverty and child rearing difficulties.
And, I have no problem with you avoiding further discussion with me - that is one of the many rights you have.