Pennylynn wrote:
Or, look at the question this way: Is it possible that there are no coincidences?"
I guess each of us have to answer, what kind of person are we... do we see signs or just luck!
Again, an excellent response!
If I were betting a great topic, well the results would be coincidental!
This is a good question. Let me get back to you.
I'm back.
Is it possible that there are no coincidences?
I say that this is good question because its a leading question. Lets be purely pedantic for a moment, the answer is no. More stories. Its my birthday, my plan is to take my wife for her birthday, and we do it every year. I get home from work, I brush my hair, clean my teeth and I wait: for her. We arrive at our favorite restaurant, and waiting for us is a surprise birthday party-I think to myself for one moment, what a coincidence. Was it a coincidence, no of course not, we are: if nothing else, predictable.
When I was stationed in Orlando Florida, in the Navy, a friend of mine was from Bradenton, Florida had friends that used to get us employee tickets from Busch Gardens, which they could give away to friends. We decided that drinking Budweiser for free all day sounded pretty good.
When we arrived at the front gate a family that I had gone to high school with was at the entrance-thats a coincidence. We spoke and caught up for a moment, and it always made me think of the odds. Lets break it down.
On any given day, in Florida, there are numerous public attractions to visit Busch Gardens, Epcot, Walt Disney World, Universal, and a zillion putt golf courses, water parks, baseball camp; use your imagination.
It was a Saturday
It was a pleasant day, thus any indoor attractions such the Salvador Dali Museum in St. Pete would be the least likely destination for the day or just sitting around a restaurant.
As unapproachable as the odds are it was really not a coincidence, but a very lucky event. I could have stayed home that day, but like the lottery I planned, I increased the odds of winning by being at a location that improves my odds. No matter how random it appears there is a hypothetical approach or likely outcome. There are events that create opportunity. If it were impossible it wouldnt have happened, so there are coincidences in that I believe even the highly improbable can happen.
I mentioned that your question was a leading question. I think you know that, in that, how is a miracle, different from a coincidence? I think that is the question. I think that is what you want me to ask myself. Its all semantics. Whats the difference between a pen and pencil? One is permanent and one is fleeting, one allows you to change your mind. Fundamentally, both allow the user to communicate in a variety of ways, both could be a shim to stop a table from tipping, both could even be a bearing surface, a weapon (the pen is mightier than sword, funny), so many uses.
Which gets me back to my point. Miracles cannot be verified through a conventional filter, coincidences however improbable; possess a probability. Coincidences disguise themselves as miracles. They make us cringe, smile; but a coincidence is inherently driven by an explanation.
Fun talking to you, let me know what you think.