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Jan 15, 2024 11:03:01   #
American Vet
 
straightUp wrote:
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Jan 15, 2024 11:08:03   #
straightUp Loc: California
 
WEBCO wrote:
We aren't asking for the government "do parenting" for us

Yes, you are... Parenting means talking to your children to find out how they feel about things. YOU are asking the schools to do the talking.

WEBCO wrote:

we are asking the government to STOP doing the parenting for us.

No, demanding that schools report sexual dysphoria is asking for the school to get involved. That's the opposite of what you are saying.

Why is this so hard for you understand? Good parents talk to their children to see what's going on and they foster the trust a child need to feel to be honest with the conversations. If parents are depending on schools to report on their child's inner feelings it means they suck as parents.

WEBCO wrote:

I'm open and honest with my children and love them unconditionally. I don't want my 7 year old exposed to mentally disturbed people though.

Oh, I see... so you think a child with sexual dysphoria is mentally disturbed. Do you think women who brew ginko tea are witches too?

What's going to happen when your child eventually DOES see a "mentally disturbed" person? Will he wonder why you never told them about it? Are you also going to refuse to teach your child how to do CPR or how to fight, since pr********n for the world is off limits?

WEBCO wrote:

It's not the governments job to parent or keep information from parents. It's disturbing that so many people are OK with this.

Oh, but it's the governments job to report what a child is too scared to to tell his crappy parents about. Keep in mind it's not the liberals that are asking the schools to do anything... It's the conservatives making all the demands here.

WEBCO wrote:

Did you expose your minor (5-10) children to pornography? If not stop demanding that mine are.

Stop being an i***t. Just because a school respects a students privacy doesn't mean they are exposing the child to pornography. What a drama queen.

And to answer your question, no, we did not expose our children to pornography... but we did expose them to anatomy and sex education and we knew they would eventually discover pornography on their own as everyone does.

Dang you people are so uncomfortable with your sexuality. It's like you're all paranoid closet cases or something.

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Jan 15, 2024 13:43:08   #
WEBCO
 
straightUp wrote:
See my last post where I mentioned the difference between France and the U.S. in terms of family values. I don't think either side of the culture war intends to remove parents from their children but that DOES appears to be the effect of conservative culture.


G****r dysphoria is a psychological issue. If a child is struggling with anything, be it school work or mental health problems, the schools should be required to tell the parents. The school has NO right to keep this from the parents, IF they believe harm might come to the child they can report it to CPS. The fact that you believe a child's delusion is ok doesn't negate the parents rights.

They are children, you or the state have NO right to impose your beliefs on someone else's child. Do you?

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Jan 15, 2024 13:58:40   #
WEBCO
 
straightUp wrote:
Stop being an i***t. Just because a school respects a students privacy doesn't mean they are exposing the child to pornography. What a drama queen.

And to answer your question, no, we did not expose our children to pornography... but we did expose them to anatomy and sex education and we knew they would eventually discover pornography on their own as everyone does.

Dang you people are so uncomfortable with your sexuality. It's like you're all paranoid closet cases or something.


It's very simple...if a child has an issue at school, any issue, it is imperative that the parents are informed. It has always been this way, until now. Why is that?

Yes, g****r dysphoria IS a psychological disorder. Don't try to force me to play along with someone else's delusions. I won't.

It's you who is the i***t if you think 3rd graders aren't encouraged to read "g****r affirming" books at school. These books describe felatio and anal sex, so yes it is pornography.

Get between myself and MY children and you will regret it. I'm sure almost all parents feel this way.

Raise your children how you want to, and let others raise theirs how they want. Do you cheer on alcoholics? Or do you try to help them? If you try to help them, then please do the same for sick children.

Personal freedom and a right to privacy start at 18 years old, not 18 months old.

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Jan 15, 2024 17:44:14   #
straightUp Loc: California
 
WEBCO wrote:
G****r dysphoria is a psychological issue.

Only as much as being a Republican. People make choices about who they want to be and that's all g****r dysphoria is about.

WEBCO wrote:

If a child is struggling with anything, be it school work or mental health problems, the schools should be required to tell the parents.

That's incredibly short-sighted. If anything, the school should talk to the student first. If the student doesn't want his or her parents to know then the school should respect that student's privacy because it may actually be a matter of his or her safety. I've mentioned this three times now and either it just flies over your head or you really don't give a crap about children and their safety.

I once had to protect a child from his parents when I was a hockey coach. The kid didn't want to go home after practice and when my wife and I talked to him he said his dad beats him. So I called his dad and explained the situation. I already knew him to be an abrasive, right-wing macho-man who I thought might have a drinking problem. I told him his son was safe at our house. He immediately went ballistic, which only convinced us more that the kid was being t***hful. In the end, we called the police so THEY could deal with the situation.

So, I have first hand experience with bad parents. That's why I will always fight against any attempt by parents to demand that schools report their child's inner feelings when the child clearly doesn't want his parents to know.

WEBCO wrote:

The school has NO right to keep this from the parents.

Yes they do.

WEBCO wrote:

IF they believe harm might come to the child they can report it to CPS.

That would probably be a good idea, along with protecting the child's privacy. I know this violates conservative principals but parents don't OWN their children. You can raise them, feed and protect them but you don't OWN them.

WEBCO wrote:

The fact that you believe a child's delusion is ok doesn't negate the parents rights.

The fact that you think a parent's delusion is ok, doesn't negate the child's right to privacy.

WEBCO wrote:

They are children, you or the state have NO right to impose your beliefs on someone else's child. Do you?

And yet that's exactly what the church does... Your hypocrisy is really boiling over here. Besides, I never said anything about imposing ANY beliefs on children. I think your emotional boil is mixing all the issues up in your head. This issue is specifically about parents in California demanding that schools report sexual dysphoria to the parents. Deciding NOT to report a child's dysphoria to the parents doesn't mean the school is "g***ming" children to be porn stars and d**g q***ns.

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Jan 15, 2024 18:00:06   #
American Vet
 
[quote=straightUp]
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If the student doesn't want his or her parents to know then the school should respect that student's privacy because it may actually be a matter of his or her safety. I've mentioned this three times now and either it just flies over your head or you really don't give a crap about children and their safety.


Wrong. The parents must be notified of ANYTHING unusual about a child. A child has no right to privacy - especially in issues regarding their health. If anyone is concerned about their safety, the there are avenues for that. But teachers ARE NOT to make that decision arbitrarily.

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Jan 15, 2024 18:15:36   #
straightUp Loc: California
 
WEBCO wrote:
It's very simple...if a child has an issue at school, any issue, it is imperative that the parents are informed.

Only if the issue hinders their education or presents potential harm to themselves or others. Sexual dysphoria doesn't do any of those things.

WEBCO wrote:

It has always been this way, until now. Why is that?

Reporting a child's sexual dysphoria is not something schools have always done. The only reason why this is an issue now is because only recently have conservatives started to push for NEW policies to FORCE schools to report sexual dysphoria.

WEBCO wrote:

Yes, g****r dysphoria IS a psychological disorder. Don't try to force me to play along with someone else's delusions. I won't.

That's fine,you are welcome to your own delusions. Just know that of your delusions threaten harm to children, even your own. I will be standing in your way.

WEBCO wrote:

It's you who is the i***t if you think 3rd graders aren't encouraged to read "g****r affirming" books at school. These books describe felatio and anal sex, so yes it is pornography.

LOL - That's hilarious! Schools teaching 3rd graders about blow jobs and sodomy. That's right up there with Pizza Gate. What about Jews and space lasers? Do you believe that too? Jesus, how did conservatives get to be so gullible?

WEBCO wrote:

Get between myself and MY children and you will regret it.

I don't think so. I've done it before... I'll do it again.

WEBCO wrote:

I'm sure almost all parents feel this way.

I'm sure most of them do.

WEBCO wrote:

Raise your children how you want to, and let others raise theirs how they want.

That generally what I do. Until the moment a parent beats the s**t out of their kid, then I'm coming in.

WEBCO wrote:

Do you cheer on alcoholics? Or do you try to help them?

I certainly don't sheet them on. I try yo help them if I can.

WEBCO wrote:

If you try to help them, then please do the same for sick children.

I do... but sexual dysphoria isn't a sickness like alcoholism is. It's a personality.

WEBCO wrote:

Personal freedom and a right to privacy start at 18 years old, not 18 months old.

So then you're saying a 16 year old girl has no right to tell her dad to get out of the bathroom when she's naked. Is that because her dad owns her? Is that how your f.cked up culture works?

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Jan 15, 2024 18:32:44   #
straightUp Loc: California
 
American Vet wrote:
Wrong. The parents must be notified of ANYTHING unusual about a child.

Not if such notification poses a danger to the child. Seriously what part of this do you NOT understand?

American Vet wrote:

A child has no right to privacy - especially in issues regarding their health.

Yes, they absolutely have a right to privacy. They are human beings not possessions. So, get over it.

American Vet wrote:

If anyone is concerned about their safety, the there are avenues for that. But teachers ARE NOT to make that decision arbitrarily.

And yet that is EXACTLY what these conservatives are demanding... the teachers make the arbitrary decision to report to the parents.

Look, there ARE avenues as you've said and of course they should be pursued if deemed necessary but this is done on a basis of trust where these other avenues are qualified professionals with proven reputations. Parents don't come with such credentials. So how is a school going to trust a parent - especially if the child is scared of them?

c'mon dude... use your head.

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Jan 15, 2024 18:50:25   #
American Vet
 
[quote=straightUp][quote/]
Not if such notification poses a danger to the child. Seriously what part of this do you NOT understand?
It is not for the teacher to determine if the reporting is a danger to the child. If a teacher thinks the child is 'in danger', there are avenues that require it to be reported. A teacher is obligated by law to report the 'danger' to (typically) local children's services. What part of that do YOU NOT UNDERSTAND?

Yes, they absolutely have a right to privacy. They are human beings not possessions. So, get over it.
They are children - not adults. Not all 'human beings' have a right to privacy.

And yet that is EXACTLY what these conservatives want. They are demanding the teachers make the decision to report to the parents. Man, you can't even see your own hypocrisy, can you?
No hypocrisy there. I am simply pointing out what a teacher IS REQUIRED BY LAW to report. If there is 'no danger', then absolutely the teacher needs to let the parents know there is a problem.

So how is a school going to trust a parent - especially if the child is scared of them?
Again - it is not the teacher (or schools) job to evaluate the parents. If there is a danger - report it. If not - the parents have the legal and ethical right to know if a child is having a problem.

Pretty straightforward and clear - even you should be able to understand it. .

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Jan 15, 2024 19:40:28   #
Bruce123
 
[quote=American Vet]
straightUp wrote:
[quote/]
Not if such notification poses a danger to the child. Seriously what part of this do you NOT understand?
It is not for the teacher to determine if the reporting is a danger to the child. If a teacher thinks the child is 'in danger', there are avenues that require it to be reported. A teacher is obligated by law to report the 'danger' to (typically) local children's services. What part of that do YOU NOT UNDERSTAND?

Yes, they absolutely have a right to privacy. They are human beings not possessions. So, get over it.
They are children - not adults. Not all 'human beings' have a right to privacy.

And yet that is EXACTLY what these conservatives want. They are demanding the teachers make the decision to report to the parents. Man, you can't even see your own hypocrisy, can you?
No hypocrisy there. I am simply pointing out what a teacher IS REQUIRED BY LAW to report. If there is 'no danger', then absolutely the teacher needs to let the parents know there is a problem.

So how is a school going to trust a parent - especially if the child is scared of them?
Again - it is not the teacher (or schools) job to evaluate the parents. If there is a danger - report it. If not - the parents have the legal and ethical right to know if a child is having a problem.

Pretty straightforward and clear - even you should be able to understand it. .
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Let me speculate on this guy who you and others have been talking to.
Someone who posts intellectual content while engaging in debates with conservative individuals like you and gives the impression of being a government shill might be referred to as a "pseudo-intellectual operative" or an "astroturfer." The term "astroturfer" suggests that their actions could be part of an orchestrated campaign to shape public opinion, resembling grassroots efforts but actually backed by an organization or government.

I promise you that these people exist and work tirelessly to persuade people to a far left way of thinking .
He covertly attacks mainstream Christianity conservative values and when needed attacks aggressively to appear intellectually superior..

Casting pearls before swine is never a good idea.’

One last thing.
Look at his screen name Straightup.
It’s their way of mocking you and others.
Anything but Straight up.

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Jan 15, 2024 22:00:10   #
WEBCO
 
straightUp wrote:
And yet that's exactly what the church does... Your hypocrisy is really boiling over here. Besides, I never said anything about imposing ANY beliefs on children. I think your emotional boil is mixing all the issues up in your head. This issue is specifically about parents in California demanding that schools report sexual dysphoria to the parents. Deciding NOT to report a child's dysphoria to the parents doesn't mean the school is "g***ming" children to be porn stars and d**g q***ns.
And yet that's exactly what the church does... You... (show quote)


We will never agree on this. You apparently dont grasp the notion of age appropriate

You proved my point...you reported suspected abuse to the proper authorities, apparently that's to much to ask of a school.

My children, until age 18, actually do belong to me. They can not do anything without my consent or permission. The absolute arrogance of yourself, your teachers, and administrators to believe that you know what is best for someone else's children is utterly appalling and disturbing.

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Jan 15, 2024 22:46:50   #
American Vet
 
WEBCO wrote:
We will never agree on this. You apparently dont grasp the notion of age appropriate

You proved my point...you reported suspected abuse to the proper authorities, apparently that's to much to ask of a school.

My children, until age 18, actually do belong to me. They can not do anything without my consent or permission. The absolute arrogance of yourself, your teachers, and administrators to believe that you know what is best for someone else's children is utterly appalling and disturbing.
We will never agree on this. You apparently dont g... (show quote)


The absolute arrogance of yourself, your teachers, and administrators to believe that you know what is best for someone else's children is utterly appalling and disturbing.
and this is a common belief with the left. I agree - very, very disturbing.

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Jan 16, 2024 00:02:01   #
CounterRevolutionary
 
American Vet wrote:
The absolute arrogance of yourself, your teachers, and administrators to believe that you know what is best for someone else's children is utterly appalling and disturbing.
and this is a common belief with the left. I agree - very, very disturbing.


I agree with you 100%

Straightup's chosen alias here on OPP is a rather peculiar namesake in this debate. It is rather indicative.

He previously wrote:

"Deciding NOT to report a child's [[sexual]] dysphoria to the parents doesn't mean the school is "g***ming" children to be porn stars and d**g q***ns."

The government is g***ming children for RAPE. The government has no right to secretly castrate little boys and drug little girls with puberty blocking poisons. The public schools are Pizzagate on steroids.

There is no such thing as "sexual dysphoria" amongst children. That's because they are children.
Their brains are not fully developed to reason, their bodies are not fully developed to have sex.

The time has come to homeschool our children or offer vouchers to parents for school choice.

These damnable arrogant teachers and politicians should be castrated and incarcerated for life.

God, save our children.

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Jan 16, 2024 00:19:41   #
AuntiE Loc: 45th Least Free State
 
straightUp wrote:
I'm so sick and tired of the conservative jihad forcing schools to report the sexual dysphoria that some students are experiencing to their parents. Good parents don't need schools to inform them about such personal issues because good parents will get that information from the children directly. This is because good parents take the time and effort to understand their children AND foster communication and trust.

If a student is keeping his dysphoria secret from his parents it means his parents are either too aloof to notice it themselves and/or they failed to create that sense of trust. In other words, they are sh!tty parents. It happens sometimes and so do the beatings that children get from bad parents for not conforming. All the more reason why schools should NOT report such issues to parents and instead offer the trust that some students don't have with parents who happen to be dicks.
I'm so sick and tired of the conservative jihad fo... (show quote)


Obviously, we were unfortunate to see you return. It was so delightful from December until now.

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Jan 16, 2024 21:53:51   #
BIRDMAN
 
AuntiE wrote:
Obviously, we were unfortunate to see you return. It was so delightful from December until now.


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