American Vet wrote:
And "fair" and "equal" often DO NOT coincide. And therein lies the problem: Someone gets to decide 'what is fair'.
Do you want to be treated equally? Or fairly (keeping in mind that someone else decides 'what is fair')?
To answer your question directly, I'd rather be treated fairly, even if other people decide what's fair, but not if only one or a few people decide what's fair for all. In an active democracy, a common idea of fairness emerges, and that's a good thing, even though it's likely to be fuzzy around the edges. In an active democracy, I can contribute to the general formulation of fairness. I am doing so, for example by occasionally writing to my congressional representative, and by v****g; almost everything has some element of fairness or unfairness in it.
A draft definition of fairness appears below, within this post. "Equal" is also treated below, in a parenthetical comment.
Whether "fairly" coincides with "equally" depends on the situation.
An example where fair and equal do NOT coincide is when, through some decision or overly risky behavior, one individual or a small group causes a big disaster which affects a very large group of people. A lot about that is equal because (a) any of us could, if determined, cause a big disaster for a large group (roughly equal opportunity); and (b) many big disasters affect, roughly, _all_ of us (e.g., a bad economy, a p******c, or pollution). But it is unfair to all except the one or few who caused it and may deserve the consequences of their own action.
Equal opportunity also exists between the two Parties in Congress. Either Party could do some dastardly deed that would disgust the Founders. There's no way the Founders could have prevented all such wrongs by writing laws about them all. Without a concept of fairness, and an attempt at fair behavior, and holding people accountable for being reasonably fair, Congress would be just a race to the bottom. So would the presidency, the rest of government, and the rest of society and humanity. Yeah there's some subjectivity involved, but that's generally true of human existence, since we're not just robots.
Neither "fair" nor "equal" will be perfect! (People will never be exactly equal to each other, each person has a different collection of aspects, so they will not all be affected exactly equally by a thing.) I think this is the foundation where you and I diverge: you discard the attempt to be fair, because it's partly subjective (or, imperfect), while I say be as fair as we can and keep improving that if we can.
Do you need an explanation of fairness -- is it just undefined for you? If necessary, I would make a first draft definition of fairness as follows: To be fair is to be consistent with rules, logic, AND ethics. To be ethical is to sincerely try to avoid unnecessary harm to others, and to behave in a way that one could accept as reasonable if in the other person's position.
Like most things, my definition's almost surely _imperfect_, but it's a lot better than giving up on fairness altogether. Such concepts can be refined as needed, with experience, but only if you start trying or allow others to start the trying.