EmilyD wrote:
I'm not interested in getting into a "you're wrong because of this" discussion.
I guess we're looking for different things then. I always like a good debate.
EmilyD wrote:
You put so nicely that you "offer another perspective" on things when it is more than just another perspective, it is you looking down your nose at me because my perspective does not align with yours...let me see if I can make this clearer:
You really don't need to make it any clearer - it's clear enough. I get it. You think I'm being a snob. I think maybe I remind you of someone or maybe it's a prejudice; I don't know but there's nothing in my post that would suggest I am.
Keep reading, I'll show you...
EmilyD wrote:
You said:"As for myself and the people I know who agree with me, we are not hearing the "or you're going to die" part.
That's a complete sentence and a statement on its own that has nothing to do with you. I am speaking for myself and the people that I know agree with me [because they told me they do]. I already know there is only a slight chance C****-** could k**l me, so why would the whole "or you're going to die" thing make any sense to me?
EmilyD wrote:
You said:
"I think that's coming from the dramarama of right-wing resistance"
I'll stop before the conjunction to say that I am once again qualifying this as my *perspective*... that's what the two words at the start of the sentence means.
EmilyD wrote:
You said:
"...and I guess that makes sense because "self-interest" is the engine of right-wing thinking. On the left side, there is more inclination to put community first and so the concern for others comes into view."
Ah... THIS is the part that got ya, huh? Yeah... that was a connect there. Look, again - it's my perspective - my opinion, as I had clearly stated. It's honestly my own personal best guess on why people on the right appear to be making p******c-related decisions based on whether or not it's a threat to them personally.
EmilyD wrote:
Calling what I said "dramarama" and "self-interest right-wing thinking", and that the left is so much better with their community first wonderfulness and the right is selfish is a condescending remark to those who disagree with you (the right).
Where did I say the left is "better"? Where did I say that Emily? Are you assuming that I think community-first is better? What if I told you that isn't what I think at all?
Just so you know, I think everything is relative and the universe is dynamic so for me self-interest vs community depends on the situation. The point wasn't to say my view is "better". The point was to suggest the focus on self-interest may explain a person's reaction to the efforts to contain C****-**.
EmilyD wrote:
Responding to my post with "Emily, people HAVE died from C****-**." is also condescending. Of course people have died from it. And people have recovered from it - to the tune of 97.8%. Your comment merely minimizes mine, where both have valid points. Again...condescension.
Again you accuse me of something I am not guilty of. Context was set by the preceding sentence. Here it is in context...
"On the left side, there is more inclination to put community first and so the concern for others comes into view.
Emily, people HAVE died from C****-**."I'm not suggesting you don't know that. I'm validating the concern we have for others.
EmilyD wrote:
And your comment: "People who seem more aligned with the left tend to follow guidelines out of a concern for others and for the American community as a whole, while people, who tend to be aligned with the right are all pissed off that they have to wear a mask, insisting that they should have the right to take responsibility for their own health." Again is just an opinion of yours, but it is very condescending...even disrespectful....to those who disagree with you.
OK, look... First of all, yes - an opinion but one that is based on observation and i'll admit that I characterized the right in a somewhat insulting way, but let me point out the context that I feel you aren't getting here.
For those of us who believe what Dr F***i and company are telling us, people who refuse and resist the guidelines are effectively k*****g people. I know that's steep. But think about it... there is a race between the p******c and the v*****es. While pharmaceuticals are delivering v*****es as fast as they can, the government is trying to get the people to slow down the spread by handing out guidelines. If corruption and deceit did not exist, this is exactly the way it would work.
When people ignore the guidelines because they're willing to take the odds at 97% that it won't k**l them personally, they are inadvertently allowing the p******c to spread. And for every new infection the dice is rolled again.
So imagine from my perspective, being lectured on manners by someone who appears to be an accomplice to what I consider an unintentional genocide. Considering this, I think I've been rather polite.
EmilyD wrote:
The left is correct and pleasantly so, following guidelines out of concern for all of America... while the right is pissed off and resentful.
You got most of it right. I never said the left is correct though, or pleasant for that matter. ;) But yes, following guidelines out of a concern for all of America... absolutely! ...At least, *I* am... along with the the people who I know agree with me.
And is the right pissed off? HELL YES! I've had two social pods during this p******c, my family (liberals) and my band (conservatives) who ARE pissed off and resentful. I know because I'm constantly telling the bass player to "shut up and play his guitar". ;)
EmilyD wrote:
I don't think I need to go on with that. It serves no purpose for me, and putting any more time and effort into this just isn't worth it to me.
Well, it served a purpose for me because whether or not you even read it, I was able to demonstrate that your offense really wasn't called for. So thanks for that.
EmilyD wrote:
You obviously think the left is wonderful, concerned, caring thoughtful people, and the right is full of angry, disgruntled uncaring people. I get it.
No, you really don't. I think the left puts more focus on the community and the right puts more focus on the individual, so the concern and the caring is just directed differently. After all, self-interest *IS* a form of concern and caring.
EmilyD wrote:
The research regarding the pros and cons about the v***s and the v*****e are all out there. You can find out information regarding any of it without me doing the research for you.
I know I can. And I have.