rumitoid wrote:
You have absolutely no clue as to what it means to be poor. If you a have criterion of giving that some will become dependent, you are sick and not Christian. Give freely and let God decide--and not your limited earthly understanding--what is best. Such evaluations are not only beyond you but condemned by the Bible: "Judge not." You are thoroughly incapable of such an assessment. Being kind and generous may enable an addiction, and free a person. YOU DO NOT KNOW. Just love as God commanded, and trust him for the outcome.
You have absolutely no clue as to what it means to... (
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I do.I was raised by a drug addict and I'm caring for her now.
I grew up a drug addict and everyone I knew was a drug addict or alcoholic (same...exact...thing...BTW).
I committed my first FELONY when I was in elementary school and it only got better.
I beat my dad to prison by one year. He was 21. I was 20.
I've been to jail more times than I can remember.
I lived in my car and slept on the streets.
I shoplifted to eat.
I put all that behind me and changed my life got married and lived happily until we learned my wife had inflammatory breast cancer as she was nursing my newborn daughter.
For 6 years she fought a form of cancer that k**ls many within 10 months and I watched her lose little bits of herself...
Parts of her body...
The ability to do things she loved, like ride horses. We had three once...
Losing other things, maybe even more personal and vital...
And then I lost her...
And then I went back to what I knew to hide...
And then I ended up in prison again...
And then I went to the Salvation Army, which you ignorantly and unfairly disparaged...
And then I got my daughter back at 11. We lived in an apartment and I worked in a hardware store and went to college full time at 40...
And then she went to college and I went to Dutch Harbor and worked 12 hours a day, 7 days a week for 4 months straight with a bunch of youngsters and kicked ass for 4 1/2 years...
I'm a LOT more practice and a lot less theory than you're used to.