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Oct 25, 2016 13:40:20   #
Richard94611
 
What Drives Donald Trump? Fear of Losing Status, Tapes Show
The Run-Up
Michael Barbaro
THE RUN-UP OCT. 25, 2016

Recordings of Donald J. Trump reveal a man who is fixated on his own celebrity, anxious about losing his status and contemptuous of those who fall from grace. Credit Damon Winter/The New York Times
By any measure, Arsenio Hall was a Hollywood success: He had starred in popular films, packed houses as a stand-up comic and hosted a hit late-night television show bearing his name.

Donald J. Trump saw it differently by the mid-2000s. In his eyes, Mr. Hall was nothing.

“Dead as a doornail,” was his assessment of Mr. Hall in a previously unreleased interview from two years ago. “Dead as dog meat.”

Why such a harsh judgment? Because in Mr. Trump’s eyes, Mr. Hall had suffered the most grievous form of public humiliation: His celebrity had waned. His star had dimmed.

It was, in short, Mr. Trump’s worst nightmare.

“Couldn’t get on television,” Mr. Trump said with disgust. “They wouldn’t even take his phone call.”

The intense ambitions and undisciplined behaviors of Mr. Trump have confounded even those close to him, especially as his presidential campaign comes to a tumultuous end, and he confronts the possibility of the most stinging defeat of his life. But in the more than five hours of conversations — the last extensive biographical interviews Mr. Trump granted before running for president — a powerful driving force emerges: his deep-seated fear of public embarrassment.

The recordings reveal a man who is fixated on his own celebrity, anxious about losing his status and contemptuous of those who fall from grace. They capture the visceral pleasure he derives from fighting, his willful lack of interest in history, his reluctance to reflect on his life and his belief that most people do not deserve his respect.

In the interviews, Mr. Trump makes clear just how difficult it is for him to imagine — let alone accept — defeat.

“I never had a failure,” Mr. Trump said in one of the interviews, despite his repeated corporate bankruptcies and business setbacks, “because I always turned a failure into a success.”

The interviews were conducted in 2014 by Michael D’Antonio, a Pulitzer Prize-winning reporter who later wrote a biography of Mr. Trump called “The Truth About Trump.”

Mr. D’Antonio now disapproves of Mr. Trump’s candidacy and gave transcripts of the interviews to Hillary Clinton’s campaign this year. After a brief meeting with a few Clinton aides, he said, he never heard back from Mrs. Clinton’s staff.

Over the past few weeks, Mr. D’Antonio gave The New York Times access to the original audio as well as transcripts of his interviews with Mr. Trump, Mr. Trump’s first wife, Ivana, and his three oldest children. The Times is using them as the basis for this article and a two-part episode of its election podcast, “The Run-Up.”

Mr. Trump, in a statement on Monday night, called the recordings “Pretty old and pretty boring stuff. Hope people enjoy it.”

In the interviews, which occurred in Mr. Trump’s office and apartment in Trump Tower in Manhattan, he is by turns animated and bored, boastful and stubborn when prodded toward soul-searching. “No, I don’t want to think about it,” he said when Mr. D’Antonio asked him to contemplate the meaning of his life. “I don’t like to analyze myself because I might not like what I see.”

Despite his reluctance, Mr. Trump reveals himself over and over, in the stories he tells, in his wide-ranging answers to questions and at times in casual, seemingly throwaway lines.

Who does he look up to? “I don’t have heroes,” Mr. Trump said.

Does he examine history to better understand the present? “I don’t like talking about the past,” he said, later adding, “It’s all about the present and the future.”

Who earns his respect? “For the most part,” he said, “you can’t respect people because most people aren’t worthy of respect.”

His lavish lifestyle? “I could be very happy in a one-bedroom,” he said, motioning at his vast penthouse apartment. “I don’t need this — three floors.”

His struggle to balance work and love? “It’s very hard for somebody to be married to me,” he said.

But he always seems to return, in one form or another, to the theme of humiliation.

He reserves special scorn for people who embarrass themselves in front of their peers. He tells the story of an unnamed bank president who became inebriated during an award dinner at the Waldorf Astoria hotel in Manhattan, a ritual of New York society. By the end of the night, he recalls, the man was incapable of walking and had to be carried out, to Mr. Trump’s disapproval.

DONALD TRUMP: … We all had a leg, an arm, a back, and we carried him out of the room that night, right after he made the worst speech you’ve ever heard. And I never looked at him the same way after that. ...

I’ll never forget that in front of a room of the most important people, we had to carry him out of the room. And so things like that had an impact on me.

There is little trace of sympathy or understanding. When people lose face, Mr. Trump’s reaction is swift and unforgiving.

And when Mr. Trump feels he has been made a fool of, his response can be volcanic. Ivana Trump told Mr. D’Antonio about a Colorado ski vacation she took with Mr. Trump soon after they began dating. The future Mrs. Trump had not told her boyfriend that she was an accomplished skier. As she recalls it, Mr. Trump went down the hill first and waited for her at the bottom:

IVANA TRUMP: So he goes and stops, and he says, “Come on, baby. Come on, baby.” I went up. I went two flips up in the air, two flips in front of him. I disappeared. Donald was so angry, he took off his skis, his ski boots, and walked up to the restaurant. ... He could not take it. He could not take it.

He had been bested in public. As he stormed off the slope, leaving behind a trail of equipment, she recalled, Mr. Trump could not contain his embarrassment.

“I’m not going to do this,” she recalled him saying, “for anybody, including Ivana.”


On the tapes, Mr. Trump describes a passionate enjoyment of fighting, which started during his adolescence in Queens. It did not matter, he said, whether an altercation was verbal or physical. He loved it all the same.

MR. TRUMP: I was a very rebellious kind of person. I don’t like to talk about it, actually. But I was a very rebellious person and very set in my ways.

INTERVIEWER: In eighth grade?

MR. TRUMP: I loved to fight. I always loved to fight.

INTERVIEWER: Physical fights?

MR. TRUMP: Yeah, all kinds of fights, physical ...

INTERVIEWER: Arguments?

MR. TRUMP: All types of fights. Any kind of fight, I loved it, including physical. ...

His behavior was so belligerent that his parents sent him off around age 13 to the all-boys New York Military Academy, a highly regimented school about an hour north of Manhattan. He seemed to revel in the masculine culture of confrontation there. In the interview, he sounds nostalgic for the time when roughness and physical conflict were more acceptable:

MR. TRUMP: I’m standing there at the military academy and this guy comes out, he’s like a bulldog, too, rough guy. He was a drill sergeant. Now they call him “Major Dobias,” but he was a sergeant. When I first knew him, he was “Sergeant Dobias,” right out of the Army.

And he was a rough guy, physically rough and mentally rough. He was also my baseball coach. He said things like, “Stand up!” and I went, “Give me a [expletive] break.” And this guy came at me, you would never believe it. I mean, it was really fantastic.

INTERVIEWER: Did he rough you up?

MR. TRUMP: Oh yeah, absolutely.

INTERVIEWER: Grabbed you by the shirt ...

MR. TRUMP: It doesn’t matter, it was not like what happens today. And you had to learn to survive. It was tough. It wasn’t today. Those were rougher times. … These guys, you go back to some of those old drill sergeants, they can’t even understand what’s going on with this country.

He still seems to long for those older, tougher times as a presidential candidate. At a Las Vegas rally in February, as Mr. Trump scolded a protester who tried to interrupt his speech, he used strikingly similar language.

“I love the old days,” Mr. Trump told the crowd to loud cheers.

“You know what they used to do to guys like that when they were in a place like this? They’d be carried out on a stretcher, folks.”

Obsession With Media

He is intoxicated by the glow of his name in the news media, a subject he brings up repeatedly in the interviews.

He can still recall the thrill of a newspaper mentioning his name for the first time, as a high school baseball player whose performance had clinched his team’s victory.

MR. TRUMP: And I said, “I love it.” I loved it. It was the first time I was ever in a newspaper. I was a young kid, right? I was probably a sophomore in high school. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. I thought it was amazing. … It felt good.

He was hooked. But it was not enough for Mr. Trump to become an object of media fascination. He took pleasure in knowing that such coverage was denied to almost everybody else.

When Mr. D’Antonio said that it was exciting for anybody to be mentioned in a newspaper, a seemingly wounded Mr. Trump interrupted to explain why his experience was special.

“Well, most people aren’t in print, though. Don’t forget. How many people are in print?” he asked. “Nobody’s in print.”

Mr. Trump refused to let the subject go, emphasizing over and over how unique it was that he had been mentioned in the newspaper.

By the time he was an established businessman, Mr. Trump hired a service to compile the swelling number of references to him in the media, which he then reviewed. “There are thousands of them a day,” he told Mr. D’Antonio. “Thousands, thousands a day.”

He quickly figured out that media attention was free advertising for his new hotels and golf courses, a fact that led him to frequently participate in newspaper interviews and television shows.

MR. TRUMP: I could say, “No,” and then I could advertise a project that I’m doing, like Doral or something, and spend a half a million dollars on it or a million dollars, or I can do the show and spend nothing and be on for a lot longer. Do you understand what I meant? So I’ve always felt it was a positive thing.

No matter the newspaper, magazine or show, Mr. Trump was always keeping score — of how positive the coverage was and how often he was featured, just as he does today.

He recounted his experience as a guest on Barbara Walters’s ABC special “10 Most Fascinating People,” boasting that he was on the show twice.

Just one other person had earned that distinction, Mr. Trump grudgingly acknowledged: Hillary Clinton. (In fact, Mrs. Clinton had made the list four times.)

After the first mention of his name in a newspaper, as a high schooler, Mr. Trump became hooked on seeing his name in the news media. Credit Damon Winter/The New York Times
Fear of Being Forgotten

Ultimately, Mr. Trump fears — more than anything else — being ignored, overlooked or irrelevant.

That’s how he saw Arsenio Hall in the 2000s, as forgotten and ungrateful for his time on “The Celebrity Apprentice,” Mr. Trump’s reality television competition, which Mr. Hall won in 2012.

During his final interview with Mr. D’Antonio, as their relationship had warmed and deepened, Mr. Trump turned philosophical. He recalled a favorite song, performed by Peggy Lee, “Is That All There Is?” — a poignant ballad about unfulfilled dreams and dissatisfaction with life.

MR. TRUMP: It’s a great song because I’ve had these tremendous successes and then I’m off to the next one. Because, it’s like, “Oh, is that all there is?” That’s a great song actually, that’s a very interesting song, especially sung by her, because she had such a troubled life.

But he quickly retreats from the moment, declining Mr. D’Antonio’s invitation to further explain how the song makes him feel about himself, saying he might not like what he discovers.

Of this, however, Mr. Trump is certain: He needs the world’s attention and its embrace, a life force that has sustained him for decades.

He recalled the feeling of walking into a giant room and watching as the crowd surrounded him, as if he were a magnet attracting everything around him.

Mr. D’Antonio asked him when that first started. “Long time ago,” Mr. Trump replied. “It’s always been that way.”

Did it ever unnerve him, the author wondered.

“No,” Mr. Trump said. “I think what would unnerve me is if it didn’t happen.”

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Oct 25, 2016 13:46:21   #
Big Bass
 
And, of course, you are perfect.

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Oct 25, 2016 13:54:09   #
Richard94611
 
Far from it, Big Bass. But I am not running for President of the United States. Your comment is totally irrelevant. But the article I posted is not. This is a look into the mind of the man you want to have leading the free world. One has to question your judgement.

I guess you came here today to argue, not to consider politicial facts.


Big Bass wrote:
And, of course, you are perfect.
And, of course, you are perfect. img src="https:/... (show quote)

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Oct 25, 2016 13:59:10   #
Big Bass
 
Richard94611 wrote:
Far from it, Big Bass. But I am not running for President of the United States. Your comment is totally irrelevant. But the article I posted is not. This is a look into the mind of the man you want to have leading the free world. One has to question your judgement.

I guess you came here today to argue, not to consider politicial facts.


But hellary IS perfect to you. (A perfect disgrace to America to normal people.)

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Oct 25, 2016 14:19:11   #
Richard94611
 
Once again, Big Bass, you are wrong. Nobody thinks Hillary is perfect. I certainly don't. But given the choice between Hillary or Trump, I choose Hillary. I just had the pleasure of mailing my absentee ballot for her a few minutes ago.

You are scoring a 100% wrong score this morning. Keep it up !


Big Bass wrote:
But hellary IS perfect to you. (A perfect disgrace to America to normal people.)

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Oct 25, 2016 14:40:55   #
Docadhoc Loc: Elsewhere
 
You are hilarious.

Hillary has killed people, is a pathological liar unparralled, and an egotist beyond description. ...... and it bothers you that Trump doesn't like to lose.

Now that is rich.

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Oct 25, 2016 14:44:14   #
Docadhoc Loc: Elsewhere
 
Richard94611 wrote:
Far from it, Big Bass. But I am not running for President of the United States. Your comment is totally irrelevant. But the article I posted is not. This is a look into the mind of the man you want to have leading the free world. One has to question your judgement.

I guess you came here today to argue, not to consider politicial facts.


Political fact: Trump could live 200 more years and still never come close to Hillary's crimes and egregious actions.

He is much better for America that your entire post is irrelevant.

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Oct 25, 2016 14:55:21   #
Docadhoc Loc: Elsewhere
 
Richard94611 wrote:
Once again, Big Bass, you are wrong. Nobody thinks Hillary is perfect. I certainly don't. But given the choice between Hillary or Trump, I choose Hillary. I just had the pleasure of mailing my absentee ballot for her a few minutes ago.

You are scoring a 100% wrong score this morning. Keep it up !


No one elected you score keeper so your scoring is laughable.

Perfect? I'm not sure Hillary is even human. Humans have feelings that generate sympathy. The only feelings she has is anger and rage. And she is your pick.

I guess you would rather see America over run with murdering Islamists or go to war, than elect someone who you think is a narcissist.

You really have your priorities screwed up. And you better mail in a few thousand more ballots because the early reports show you are behind already. Apparently you thought, as Hillary did, that all blacks and Hispanics are stupid. I guess she couldn't convince them everything is going along well, when they have no job.

It is amazing how you people convince each other daily but consistently forget to check on the rest of the country..

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Oct 25, 2016 15:07:37   #
Big Bass
 
Richard94611 wrote:
Once again, Big Bass, you are wrong. Nobody thinks Hillary is perfect. I certainly don't. But given the choice between Hillary or Trump, I choose Hillary. I just had the pleasure of mailing my absentee ballot for her a few minutes ago.

You are scoring a 100% wrong score this morning. Keep it up !

I wish I was wrong, but a bunch of loony-libturds prove me right time and again.

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Oct 25, 2016 15:19:43   #
Richard94611
 
The way things appear to be going, I think you will have your wish about being incontrovertably wrong on the day after the elections.

Big Bass wrote:
I wish I was wrong, but a bunch of loony-libturds prove me right time and again.

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Oct 25, 2016 15:21:39   #
Big Bass
 
Richard94611 wrote:
The way things appear to be going, I think you will have your wish about being incontrovertably wrong on the day after the elections.


Only in your dreams.

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Oct 25, 2016 15:22:51   #
reconreb Loc: America / Inglis Fla.
 
Richard94611 wrote:
What Drives Donald Trump? Fear of Losing Status, Tapes Show
The Run-Up
Michael Barbaro
THE RUN-UP OCT. 25, 2016

Recordings of Donald J. Trump reveal a man who is fixated on his own celebrity, anxious about losing his status and contemptuous of those who fall from grace. Credit Damon Winter/The New York Times
By any measure, Arsenio Hall was a Hollywood success: He had starred in popular films, packed houses as a stand-up comic and hosted a hit late-night television show bearing his name.

Donald J. Trump saw it differently by the mid-2000s. In his eyes, Mr. Hall was nothing.

“Dead as a doornail,” was his assessment of Mr. Hall in a previously unreleased interview from two years ago. “Dead as dog meat.”

Why such a harsh judgment? Because in Mr. Trump’s eyes, Mr. Hall had suffered the most grievous form of public humiliation: His celebrity had waned. His star had dimmed.

It was, in short, Mr. Trump’s worst nightmare.

“Couldn’t get on television,” Mr. Trump said with disgust. “They wouldn’t even take his phone call.”

The intense ambitions and undisciplined behaviors of Mr. Trump have confounded even those close to him, especially as his presidential campaign comes to a tumultuous end, and he confronts the possibility of the most stinging defeat of his life. But in the more than five hours of conversations — the last extensive biographical interviews Mr. Trump granted before running for president — a powerful driving force emerges: his deep-seated fear of public embarrassment.

The recordings reveal a man who is fixated on his own celebrity, anxious about losing his status and contemptuous of those who fall from grace. They capture the visceral pleasure he derives from fighting, his willful lack of interest in history, his reluctance to reflect on his life and his belief that most people do not deserve his respect.

In the interviews, Mr. Trump makes clear just how difficult it is for him to imagine — let alone accept — defeat.

“I never had a failure,” Mr. Trump said in one of the interviews, despite his repeated corporate bankruptcies and business setbacks, “because I always turned a failure into a success.”

The interviews were conducted in 2014 by Michael D’Antonio, a Pulitzer Prize-winning reporter who later wrote a biography of Mr. Trump called “The Truth About Trump.”

Mr. D’Antonio now disapproves of Mr. Trump’s candidacy and gave transcripts of the interviews to Hillary Clinton’s campaign this year. After a brief meeting with a few Clinton aides, he said, he never heard back from Mrs. Clinton’s staff.

Over the past few weeks, Mr. D’Antonio gave The New York Times access to the original audio as well as transcripts of his interviews with Mr. Trump, Mr. Trump’s first wife, Ivana, and his three oldest children. The Times is using them as the basis for this article and a two-part episode of its election podcast, “The Run-Up.”

Mr. Trump, in a statement on Monday night, called the recordings “Pretty old and pretty boring stuff. Hope people enjoy it.”

In the interviews, which occurred in Mr. Trump’s office and apartment in Trump Tower in Manhattan, he is by turns animated and bored, boastful and stubborn when prodded toward soul-searching. “No, I don’t want to think about it,” he said when Mr. D’Antonio asked him to contemplate the meaning of his life. “I don’t like to analyze myself because I might not like what I see.”

Despite his reluctance, Mr. Trump reveals himself over and over, in the stories he tells, in his wide-ranging answers to questions and at times in casual, seemingly throwaway lines.

Who does he look up to? “I don’t have heroes,” Mr. Trump said.

Does he examine history to better understand the present? “I don’t like talking about the past,” he said, later adding, “It’s all about the present and the future.”

Who earns his respect? “For the most part,” he said, “you can’t respect people because most people aren’t worthy of respect.”

His lavish lifestyle? “I could be very happy in a one-bedroom,” he said, motioning at his vast penthouse apartment. “I don’t need this — three floors.”

His struggle to balance work and love? “It’s very hard for somebody to be married to me,” he said.

But he always seems to return, in one form or another, to the theme of humiliation.

He reserves special scorn for people who embarrass themselves in front of their peers. He tells the story of an unnamed bank president who became inebriated during an award dinner at the Waldorf Astoria hotel in Manhattan, a ritual of New York society. By the end of the night, he recalls, the man was incapable of walking and had to be carried out, to Mr. Trump’s disapproval.

DONALD TRUMP: … We all had a leg, an arm, a back, and we carried him out of the room that night, right after he made the worst speech you’ve ever heard. And I never looked at him the same way after that. ...

I’ll never forget that in front of a room of the most important people, we had to carry him out of the room. And so things like that had an impact on me.

There is little trace of sympathy or understanding. When people lose face, Mr. Trump’s reaction is swift and unforgiving.

And when Mr. Trump feels he has been made a fool of, his response can be volcanic. Ivana Trump told Mr. D’Antonio about a Colorado ski vacation she took with Mr. Trump soon after they began dating. The future Mrs. Trump had not told her boyfriend that she was an accomplished skier. As she recalls it, Mr. Trump went down the hill first and waited for her at the bottom:

IVANA TRUMP: So he goes and stops, and he says, “Come on, baby. Come on, baby.” I went up. I went two flips up in the air, two flips in front of him. I disappeared. Donald was so angry, he took off his skis, his ski boots, and walked up to the restaurant. ... He could not take it. He could not take it.

He had been bested in public. As he stormed off the slope, leaving behind a trail of equipment, she recalled, Mr. Trump could not contain his embarrassment.

“I’m not going to do this,” she recalled him saying, “for anybody, including Ivana.”


On the tapes, Mr. Trump describes a passionate enjoyment of fighting, which started during his adolescence in Queens. It did not matter, he said, whether an altercation was verbal or physical. He loved it all the same.

MR. TRUMP: I was a very rebellious kind of person. I don’t like to talk about it, actually. But I was a very rebellious person and very set in my ways.

INTERVIEWER: In eighth grade?

MR. TRUMP: I loved to fight. I always loved to fight.

INTERVIEWER: Physical fights?

MR. TRUMP: Yeah, all kinds of fights, physical ...

INTERVIEWER: Arguments?

MR. TRUMP: All types of fights. Any kind of fight, I loved it, including physical. ...

His behavior was so belligerent that his parents sent him off around age 13 to the all-boys New York Military Academy, a highly regimented school about an hour north of Manhattan. He seemed to revel in the masculine culture of confrontation there. In the interview, he sounds nostalgic for the time when roughness and physical conflict were more acceptable:

MR. TRUMP: I’m standing there at the military academy and this guy comes out, he’s like a bulldog, too, rough guy. He was a drill sergeant. Now they call him “Major Dobias,” but he was a sergeant. When I first knew him, he was “Sergeant Dobias,” right out of the Army.

And he was a rough guy, physically rough and mentally rough. He was also my baseball coach. He said things like, “Stand up!” and I went, “Give me a [expletive] break.” And this guy came at me, you would never believe it. I mean, it was really fantastic.

INTERVIEWER: Did he rough you up?

MR. TRUMP: Oh yeah, absolutely.

INTERVIEWER: Grabbed you by the shirt ...

MR. TRUMP: It doesn’t matter, it was not like what happens today. And you had to learn to survive. It was tough. It wasn’t today. Those were rougher times. … These guys, you go back to some of those old drill sergeants, they can’t even understand what’s going on with this country.

He still seems to long for those older, tougher times as a presidential candidate. At a Las Vegas rally in February, as Mr. Trump scolded a protester who tried to interrupt his speech, he used strikingly similar language.

“I love the old days,” Mr. Trump told the crowd to loud cheers.

“You know what they used to do to guys like that when they were in a place like this? They’d be carried out on a stretcher, folks.”

Obsession With Media

He is intoxicated by the glow of his name in the news media, a subject he brings up repeatedly in the interviews.

He can still recall the thrill of a newspaper mentioning his name for the first time, as a high school baseball player whose performance had clinched his team’s victory.

MR. TRUMP: And I said, “I love it.” I loved it. It was the first time I was ever in a newspaper. I was a young kid, right? I was probably a sophomore in high school. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. I thought it was amazing. … It felt good.

He was hooked. But it was not enough for Mr. Trump to become an object of media fascination. He took pleasure in knowing that such coverage was denied to almost everybody else.

When Mr. D’Antonio said that it was exciting for anybody to be mentioned in a newspaper, a seemingly wounded Mr. Trump interrupted to explain why his experience was special.

“Well, most people aren’t in print, though. Don’t forget. How many people are in print?” he asked. “Nobody’s in print.”

Mr. Trump refused to let the subject go, emphasizing over and over how unique it was that he had been mentioned in the newspaper.

By the time he was an established businessman, Mr. Trump hired a service to compile the swelling number of references to him in the media, which he then reviewed. “There are thousands of them a day,” he told Mr. D’Antonio. “Thousands, thousands a day.”

He quickly figured out that media attention was free advertising for his new hotels and golf courses, a fact that led him to frequently participate in newspaper interviews and television shows.

MR. TRUMP: I could say, “No,” and then I could advertise a project that I’m doing, like Doral or something, and spend a half a million dollars on it or a million dollars, or I can do the show and spend nothing and be on for a lot longer. Do you understand what I meant? So I’ve always felt it was a positive thing.

No matter the newspaper, magazine or show, Mr. Trump was always keeping score — of how positive the coverage was and how often he was featured, just as he does today.

He recounted his experience as a guest on Barbara Walters’s ABC special “10 Most Fascinating People,” boasting that he was on the show twice.

Just one other person had earned that distinction, Mr. Trump grudgingly acknowledged: Hillary Clinton. (In fact, Mrs. Clinton had made the list four times.)

After the first mention of his name in a newspaper, as a high schooler, Mr. Trump became hooked on seeing his name in the news media. Credit Damon Winter/The New York Times
Fear of Being Forgotten

Ultimately, Mr. Trump fears — more than anything else — being ignored, overlooked or irrelevant.

That’s how he saw Arsenio Hall in the 2000s, as forgotten and ungrateful for his time on “The Celebrity Apprentice,” Mr. Trump’s reality television competition, which Mr. Hall won in 2012.

During his final interview with Mr. D’Antonio, as their relationship had warmed and deepened, Mr. Trump turned philosophical. He recalled a favorite song, performed by Peggy Lee, “Is That All There Is?” — a poignant ballad about unfulfilled dreams and dissatisfaction with life.

MR. TRUMP: It’s a great song because I’ve had these tremendous successes and then I’m off to the next one. Because, it’s like, “Oh, is that all there is?” That’s a great song actually, that’s a very interesting song, especially sung by her, because she had such a troubled life.

But he quickly retreats from the moment, declining Mr. D’Antonio’s invitation to further explain how the song makes him feel about himself, saying he might not like what he discovers.

Of this, however, Mr. Trump is certain: He needs the world’s attention and its embrace, a life force that has sustained him for decades.

He recalled the feeling of walking into a giant room and watching as the crowd surrounded him, as if he were a magnet attracting everything around him.

Mr. D’Antonio asked him when that first started. “Long time ago,” Mr. Trump replied. “It’s always been that way.”

Did it ever unnerve him, the author wondered.

“No,” Mr. Trump said. “I think what would unnerve me is if it didn’t happen.”
What Drives Donald Trump? Fear of Losing Status, T... (show quote)


Damn you went the long way around the barn to say you don't like Trump ..This is how you refer to someone you do not like , hillary clinton ,, now there's a NASTY BITCH ! see its simple and makes the point intended !

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Oct 25, 2016 15:49:30   #
Richard94611
 
I guess you have difficulty reading. The article was a thoughtful one. It isn't just a matter of "I like this candidate" and "I hate this candidate." Politicial decision such as that are complex and require deliberate thought.

reconreb wrote:
Damn you went the long way around the barn to say you don't like Trump ..This is how you refer to someone you do not like , hillary clinton ,, now there's a NASTY BITCH ! see its simple and makes the point intended !

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Oct 25, 2016 15:50:01   #
Richard94611
 
In my dreams, too.

Big Bass wrote:
Only in your dreams.

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Oct 26, 2016 03:20:23   #
Docadhoc Loc: Elsewhere
 
Richard94611 wrote:
The way things appear to be going, I think you will have your wish about being incontrovertably wrong on the day after the elections.


The word here was "appear".

Hold that thought.

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