Pennylynn wrote:
I will not comment on your life or your mother's ability to parent. However, I will make a comment on your notion of stupidity and ignorance. First one has to ascertain if a person has the capacity to learn. Some individual, regardless of how much education, close supervision or mentoring just cannot grasp the concept of the subject material. All being equal, an ignorant person might exhibit stupidity because of inadequate understanding of a situation, and exposure and experience may remove their ignorance, thus reducing the chances of them remaining ignorant or stupid. A stupid person, on the other hand, is also ignorant, because their stupidity prevents them from acquiring knowledge, and this means that such a person is likely to remain stupid and ignorant. Indeed, all people exhibit either one or the other and there are times when they exhibit both characteristics simultaneously. It is therefore, unkind at minimum and reeks of cruelty to pigeonhole anyone into either category.
Let me provide you with an example. I could not fly an airplane. Therefore, one could call me ignorant. Until that individual finds out that after 9/11 I developed Acrophobia. Then that same individual could reasonably call me both stupid and ignorant. But, I am a member of Mensa and have been from the age of 6.... so does either title fit? I am sure that there is no one who can do everything..... So is it fair to be prejudiced against either a stupid or ignorant individual?
Resistance to change does not connote either ignorance or stupidity, it is simply the action taken by individuals or groups when they perceive a change is a threat. The key is words are 'perceive' and 'threat. Can you blame a person for seeing a change as threatening? Absolutely not! An adult recognizes the fear and they take steps to make clear what a change would involve and the benefits of those changes. Again, these people are neither ignorant nor stupid, and should never be the object of bigotry.
As for personal growth, that can only be developed to the extent that a person has talent or potential.... one may want to examine "new ideas" of nanotechnology, but if they cannot grasp the understanding of string or chaos theory then there is not too much of a chance of them "growing" or adding this to their list of accomplishments.
Aging does not guarantee wisdom or even maturity. It simply means that you have survived day-to-day and have gotten to where you are, old. It gives you no automatic passes for being impolite or judgmental, it gives no special honors. Having said that, I wish you continued health and vitality!
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You seem to be confusing the definitions of ignorance and stupidity. Ignorance is not having a particular knowledge. After all, we are all ignorant of multiple things as it is impossible to absorb much knowledge. Stupidity, on the other hand, is a refusal to experience that which will make one less ignorant. There are those who simply do not wish to expand their knowledge. It could be a matter of fear.
I can recall my very first performance and I was afraid of making a mistake. Bu then I thought to myself, "These people came to see a good, if semi-professional performance and that's what I have to give them. So, behave as if you're professional." I have always taught my students that they truly should love their audience because those people came out of their homes and traveled in order to give the performer the opportunity to do what s/he loves to do. I also reminded them that the audience came to be entertained and, unless you're really stinko, they will be. Audiences want you to do well.
Learning anything is a challenge but also an adventure. Some see only the challenge and never make the attempt and remain with their fear. It is one's outlook that makes the difference.
A woman down the street told me that she hates living in this city and, when I suggested she make a move, the only places that came to mind were two large cities in the same state. I tried to explain to her that reaching the border does not mean you'll fall off the end of the world. There's an entire country out there, not to mention an entire world. Now, she is an example of stupidity probably due to fear.
It was over a year after relocating that i went back to pick up my furniture. I had never driven any type of truck and, of course, I was nervous. I look back at that trip and must laugh. Firstly I had a friend drive around a few blocks with me. Then, through ignorance, I drove the van into at every weigh station. On the entire trip, no one told me that was not necessary.
Every new experience is a challenge but everyone has the choice as to whether they will accept that challenge. Those who choose not to, and are envious of others who will, I consider stupid as well as those who, in their posts, call me uppity. As Trump says, "They're losers." You must admit that there are those who take pride in their ignorance.
Regarding my age, as I already stated, I had never considered the word octogenarian before. It was an eye opener. I've always known my age but I've never placed a classification on it.