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May 20, 2017 17:03:39   #
lindajoy Loc: right here with you....
 
LiberalLulu wrote:
Not sure, lj, what article you are referring to. I think, but I need to research this, LA had one of the first sweeping welfare prpgrams ever; and it is that welfare that has intensified an already intensely martriarchal black culture, and it is this "mother-control" that young blacks are rebelling against.

African American women have a hold over their men and men-children that they don't want to relinquish. (I've been able to observe it in person, over the past few years, as well.) I don't think they see their boy-children as different from their girl-children, who are much easier to control. (I've been doing more thinking about this, you can see.)

Sometimes I wonder if black women look at men as only "sperm-donors".
Not sure, lj, what article you are referring to. ... (show quote)


I wasn't referring to an article, I was asking you if what you said was from something you had read as I would like to read it too..

I think it's the whole welfare system in general, rewarded for the number of children they have, by food, housing, phones, cash etc.. The more they have the more they get..

The male dominance in the young is most likely because they do not have any true bonding with men other than sexual...As an adult or teenager even.. With a child they can control them to some degree and are afraid to let go because these young men are the ones they come to rely on...???

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May 21, 2017 15:49:44   #
KiraSeer2016
 
lindajoy wrote:
I wasn't referring to an article, I was asking you if what you said was from something you had read as I would like to read it too..

I think it's the whole welfare system in general, rewarded for the number of children they have, by food, housing, phones, cash etc.. The more they have the more they get..

The male dominance in the young is most likely because they do not have any true bonding with men other than sexual...As an adult or teenager even.. With a child they can control them to some degree and are afraid to let go because these young men are the ones they come to rely on...???
I wasn't referring to an article, I was asking you... (show quote)


It's something I put together from ALL my reading, over the years.

I think you are referring to the inordinate control young black mothers, especially single mothers, have over their boy children. It is due primarily to the excessive matriarchalism prevalent in black culture, predominant in Central Africa, and having been exported to America, with slavery. With the advent of welfare programs, and particularly ADC (Aid to Dependent Children, a Federal program), funds are released to young mothers only if there is no "father" living with the family. Thus, the "missing" and irresponsible black fathers, and reinforcement of the matriarchalism already extant in the culture. A black father, living with the family, can mitigate the consequences of martricarchalism to some extent.

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May 21, 2017 15:56:47   #
KiraSeer2016
 
lindajoy wrote:
I wasn't referring to an article, I was asking you if what you said was from something you had read as I would like to read it too..

I think it's the whole welfare system in general, rewarded for the number of children they have, by food, housing, phones, cash etc.. The more they have the more they get..

The male dominance in the young is most likely because they do not have any true bonding with men other than sexual...As an adult or teenager even.. With a child they can control them to some degree and are afraid to let go because these young men are the ones they come to rely on...???
I wasn't referring to an article, I was asking you... (show quote)


Here's your chance to read again my topic: "Of Mice and Matriarchies":

http://www.onepoliticalplaza.com/t-60559-1.html

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May 21, 2017 16:01:12   #
KiraSeer2016
 
lindajoy wrote:
I wasn't referring to an article, I was asking you if what you said was from something you had read as I would like to read it too..

I think it's the whole welfare system in general, rewarded for the number of children they have, by food, housing, phones, cash etc.. The more they have the more they get..

The male dominance in the young is most likely because they do not have any true bonding with men other than sexual...As an adult or teenager even.. With a child they can control them to some degree and are afraid to let go because these young men are the ones they come to rely on...???
I wasn't referring to an article, I was asking you... (show quote)


Don't forget, lj, that is is normal and natural for teenagers to rebel against authority in the first place. If that wasn't true, change in a culture would come about very, very slowly. It is also natural for teenagers to form groups, as the need to separate from the family unit becomes predominant. That street gangs, that is, Bloods and Crips, are as violent as they are, is determined by the fact that single black mothers exercise an inordinate amount of control over their boys---the mothers do not discipline, they control. Single, and mostly single, black mothers do not know how to raise boy children. End of story.

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