mwdegutis wrote:
You may not like the situation -- and I'm not saying I do -- but the last time I checked the 1st amendment is still alive and well -- except for the PC'ers -- and anybody has the right to basically say whatever their heart desires, a right that I will ALWAYS support even if it is offensive to the more sensitive people on this site.
Another long one. For the TLDR crowd: Put respect in, get respect out.
People have a right to say what they want without fear of the government stepping in. The first amendment doesn't specifically apply to society in general. You can't walk up to a Hell's Angel, call him a sissy or something, and expect to walk away without a black eye. Even though he'd be in the wrong, it's still a consequence you wrought.
That's what polite conversation and the majority of PCness is about: the consequences of your speech.
If I was to lambaste you with a diatribe, laden with petty insults and obscene language, you will very likely respond in kind or walk away. If my goal is to get you to respond in kind for my entertainment, like some people have admitted to on this site, then I'd be nothing more than a troll. If my goal was to get you to walk away, then all I've accomplished is cementing my own ideas without really listening to yours (freedom for me, not you; my way or the highway). It's a disease that I see all too frequently.
There was one poster, I feel terrible that I didn't note his/her name down, that dissented from my view point, and did it calmly and politely. I was shocked, shocked that such a person could exist, and post here of all places. Shocked and thankful. It's not something that's really so hard to find, it just that a lot of people are so worked up that they can't (or don't want to?) find the calmness of mind to post something that could lead to real understanding for everyone.
The vast majority of us Americans stand for the same broad ideals. We disagree on the minutiae, and for some reason we focus on this instead of bigger issues that will actually make a difference in our everyday lives. Both parties use this to make themselves fat, and so does the media.
There are, however, certain aspects of PC speak that I disagree with (hyphenating of American for the majority of individual cases, I see it as another way to separate us; I don't care where you came from, you're either American, want to be, or you're not), but for the most part I see that it exists to foster a respectful environment. I expect most people would want to walk out their front door, see their neighbors, wave, and get a smile and a wave back, not a scowl and a one-fingered salute. This is how I expect to converse with people, (you don't see Congress insulting each other or speaking with vulgarity in the chambers do you? not to my knowledge anyway) because if I spoke in such a disrespectful manner my opponent is going to circle the wagons and not be open to anything I have to say. Thus closing off our dialogue and avoiding ever coming to an understanding.
I want to reiterate that the first amendment only applies, specifically, to the government. I know that I (and many others) want it to be protected in regards to Facebook and your job or anything else really and your job, but the fact of the matter is that unless a business has a policy acknowledging first amendment protections they do not have to respect your free speech. The admin of this site, has no obligation to allow you to post anything. He/she provides this site free to us, and only asks that we follow the rules provided. If we break the rules, then there are consequences regardless of whether or not similar posts or posters are removed/punished as is stated in the forum rules. For example, this section of the forum is moderated by Glaucon, if you break his/her (sorry) rules then he/she doesn't have to suffer you. You can call it censorship all you want. If the problem with a post isn't the content of the message per se but rather the mode of delivery (insult laden, etc), then I'll stand behind the rule maker. If there was a crusade against dissenting view points in spite of them following the rules, then I'd side with the poster (unless they lost the privilege for previous infractions).