Morgan wrote:
Hi...Harpooner? It sounded like you would want e******y, it was hard to respond to your post while trying not to be personal. You fortunate to have been able to travel around, it really broadens one's perspective. I do believe it starts with the individual but may spread out to many, especially in a pass it forward kind of way and having a positive impact, it can happen slowly but it can also catch on fire, either way though I emphatically agree with you on coming together as a nation and am hopeful e******y will spread and bigotry of all sorts to someday be in the past.
Yes,your right other countries are changing and it is slow and as long as it's in the right direction it's all good. I do see women being a forceful and positive impact on that change, and for their sake I hope it happens.
Hi...Harpooner? It sounded like you would want e**... (
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Hi Morgan,
Harpooner here...I got that moniker some time ago, so I stuck with it. It could have many innuendo's, but let us just say I have never caught a whale!.
I was very fortunate to have traveled the world. It was not always easy as we, the family, were at times broke financially.
But, when you can experience the Egypt and the history, you learn something. When you can roam freely through Ethiopia,
You learn something. When you can go through The Serengeti, Tsavo, Amboseli, Lake Manyara, Ngorongoro crater, ....you learn something. I think I forgot a couple of places. Yeah, there was the illness.....Just as bad as Mexico, if not worse.
But, it was a journey. Liberia, Nigeria, then settled in Sierra Leone...What fun!
I got to take a year off of school!
But, I tell you...we all learned a lot.
I have never been into the g****r ine******y thing. I don't see the point. Men and women are different. We have to be.
One of my jobs, as a man, is to protect the women. Yeah.....It's a natural response. I am not one to say, " Hey...take care of yourself.....".......That is just not right.
While raising my daughters, I tried to teach them what I knew. They kind of where interested in cooking..Kind of...But, they were more interested in eating the food I made them. They were kind of interested in how cars work, and how to fix them....But, they were more interested in a working vehicle so we could go somewhere. They were kind of interested in sports....But, it was more of a social thing....winning didn't matter much.
They were interested in their own things.
Nothing wrong with that.
As we go through life, we find what interest we have.
As long as you don't harm another person, and you accept your choices......No problem.
I have tried to learn every step of the way in life. I have played football, baseball, ice hockey, soccer and skiing.
All at a high level. There is a difference in mindset between team sports and individual sports.
When I was playing ice hockey, my mother was working on her next nursing degree. Because of the ice rink schedule, practice was from 11pm to 1am.....That was dedication. And that was after football practice.....
I don't how they did it, my parents....I am not sure how I did it either!
But, here is a couple with four kids......And we all had our things.....And they did it, a couple.........And they did their own stuff as well. 50 years they did......
Argue? Oh yes.....
But, they would always go to bed together when they were together.
And we all fell into roles as a family. It just happens. I was the chef.....I cooked the meals. Mom gave the tools, and I took the job. My older sister was the teacher....Until she got bored.....Then she went abroad to study.
My younger sister was the cheerleader. Yeah, she got "Miss Drill Team USA"......She is a Yoga expert now.....
My younger brother just did........not much. He just kind of watched.
He works for the government..............Ehhhhhhh...." Works" is the operative word!
So, in my family, I am the hardcore male....No doubt. Yet, I am also the one who has fed the family. No one else will take the time to make a meal.....
But, that is not a measure of worth........
If you can teach......Teach.....your good values...That makes a difference.