From the ex gays I have known the path is very difficult, and a lifelong struggle. the same sex attractions can be lessened greatly but never go away completely. Ex gays say that they can stop having same sex activities, but the urge is still there. this concept is enough for the LGBTQ activists to say that there is no reason to try. I am always curious as to whether alcoholics and drug addicts, who never loose their desire should be told, stay drunk or stoned because you can't fight the urge, so give up. Interestingly the LGBTQ statement is that you are homosexual so don't try to change even to the point of resisting the urge, but also claim that pedophiles can stop being attracted to children, or at least totally resist the urge so they become "safe" around children and should not be discriminated against when it comes to jobs where there would be children around. Does this type of double think make any sense to you, because it certainly doesn't make sense to me. I know a number of same sex attracted people who do not have sex with the same sex and are also opposite sex attracted which is the attraction they act on. No one has ever presented to me a situation in which I would be able to feel comfortable having a pedophile around children, and I guarantee none of "our boys" would want to be in the same room with them. The adult men who we worked with when they were children are still nervous around men who exhibit attraction toward them, and would not allow their children anywhere near those men. Many of "our boys" spend much of their lives with a hatred for homosexuals because of the repeated assaults they had experienced as children. I do wonder how many men that are on OPP and obviously hate homosexuals have been molested and have no willingness to talk about it here, for which I cannot blame them. The same way that people who have been attacked by a dog often develop a fear of all dogs, men who were assaulted by men when they were children often have the same intense fear. It would seem that they are condemned for being "homophobic" without any thought that there might be a damn good reason for their fear.

Yes, there are but the percentage of homosexuals who are pedophiles or pederasts by most research studies is 5% of homosexual men also have sex with boys, or are only interested in boys and teenagers. that means one in twenty. The research seems to indicate that 1 in about 150 heterosexuals is either a pedophile or pederast. Considering that less than 2% of adult men are homosexual, and about 40% of child molestations are of boys. You can figure that out for yourself.
For personal reasons, we work with young teenagers primarily and only boys. The psychologists understand that the approach must be different for working with boys as against girls. That is due to the biological differences between the two genders. this difference is something that is not acknowledged by LGBTQ people, who actually believe that what ever you think you are is your gender and that there are fifty different "genders"

I was speaking about America not Muslim countries where child brides are common. their figures would be unattainable as they do not believe there is anything wrong with it. On the other hand they do not believe that sex with boys is wrong either as their founder was a pederast. Of course there are more heterosexuals who have sex with children because there are more heterosexuals. As far as incest, men molest their sons as well as their daughters, and women molest their daughters as well as their sons. And pagan societies including the Greeks and Romans considered it a good idea to have sex with young teenage boys as it was a good maturing experience for the boys. As I said my wife and I work with boys for personal reasons, which are none of your business. There are a lot more people who work with girls, and the two sexes need different approaches. Incidentally I don't get research grants but i do understand that through George Soros' funding of LGBTQ activists groups there is plenty of money available for projects that you are involved in.

BTW I don't want it to be homosexual OR heterosexual abuse of children, I just want there to be no abuse of any sort of children It seems from the types of responses that are out there, there are a great number of homosexuals who seem happy that children get molested by heterosexuals, and heterosexuals are not happy that there is any abuse at all.

There was a male calling himself Rod Riddle who, along with his "husband" adopted two male babies who both ended up homosexuals, one successfully running a flower shop in San Francisco, and as I remember it the other one was a dress designer. Are you by any chance Rod's "husband"?

What I say is definitely true. I got whipped for it the same as my grown cousins and I was 4 when I first remember it. I really do not care what you think. You are probably sucking on some little boys peter as you type. I told my aunts and uncles. I told my mom. No one knew what to do except whip all that were involved which included me. I told a preacher by the name of Reverend Baker in Newcomerstown Ohio and he showed me his dick and asked if I wanted to suck on it a little. I told my aunt and uncle about that and they didn't believe it or didn't want to cause trouble for him in the church, I don't know. Either way, no one seemed to care or have a solution that worked to keep them away from me. I was molested by Brenda, my baby sitter, from age 6 to age 10. She was the first pu**y I ever touched and the first penetration of any kind. I was 10 years old when my 18 year old cousin Raymond and his 19 year old girl friend and I had full blown (no pun intended) sex on my Aunt's porch. You have no clue about anything like this. Instead you troll along trying to stir up shit with people you don't know, about subjects you are clueless about. Or perhaps you are a molester and trying to shift blame onto the victum? Either way, don't pretend you know me or about me and what may or may not have happened in my life. Just because your life is one big lie after another doesn't mean everyone else's is.

I was speaking about America not Muslim countries where child brides are common. their figures would be unattainable as they do not believe there is anything wrong with it. On the other hand they do not believe that sex with boys is wrong either as their founder was a pederast. Of course there are more heterosexuals who have sex with children because there are more heterosexuals. As far as incest, men molest their sons as well as their daughters, and women molest their daughters as well as their sons. And pagan societies including the Greeks and Romans considered it a good idea to have sex with young teenage boys as it was a good maturing experience for the boys. As I said my wife and I work with boys for personal reasons, which are none of your business. There are a lot more people who work with girls, and the two sexes need different approaches. Incidentally I don't get research grants but i do understand that through George Soros' funding of LGBTQ activists groups there is plenty of money available for projects that you are involved in.

BTW I don't want it to be homosexual OR heterosexual abuse of children, I just want there to be no abuse of any sort of children It seems from the types of responses that are out there, there are a great number of homosexuals who seem happy that children get molested by heterosexuals, and heterosexuals are not happy that there is any abuse at all.

There was a male calling himself Rod Riddle who, along with his "husband" adopted two male babies who both ended up homosexuals, one successfully running a flower shop in San Francisco, and as I remember it the other one was a dress designer. Are you by any chance Rod's "husband"?

I think most people are tolerant of gays; that is, they are not anti-gay specifically. It is gay tactics that we have issues with.
The gay community has basically used government in the form of courts to coerce private enterprise to not just accept their lifestyle, but to live it: the photographer forced to photograph a gay wedding, the baker forced to bake a cake for a gay wedding. This is what is worrying most Americans--not the gay lifestyle itself, but the attempts of gay activists to force it upon other Americans. Straight America is singing a worried song, as I have said.

:thumbup: Any time that any one helps kids in God's name it is a good thing. Thank you so much for people like you and your wife who have worked to help children abused by pedophiles and aggressive liberal democrats who are against blacks and children and hold hatred against God's children in general.Thank God the democrats did not kill or murder these children with Obama's abortion mandate because of his hatred of the unborn and his murderous ways even after a child is alive and on the operation table. We know that Obama is a representative of satan and works hard to destroy this country and are very blessed to have those of you who stand up for God against the father of lies , the author of confusion who has come to steal kill and destroy.

No, I know nothing about the Muslim religion but have read articles from several Muslim clerics who said that Mohammed had sex with a number of young boys during the time he was beginning to develop the religion, and claims from one that in addition to 72 virgins there would be a number of virgin boys for the martyr in heaven. Since videos of a number of young Muslim men bragging about the boys they had sex with have been posted here and elsewhere, it seemed like a valid point. apparently I am mistaken, for which I am sorry.