acknowledgeurma wrote:
If one knows one will get a cookie by reaching in the cookie jar, then ...
If one knows one will get a hand slapped by reaching in the cookie jar, then ...
In these circumstances one's behavior is informed.
If one is uncertain of the presence of cookies or hand slappers, then ...
In this circumstance one's behavior is less informed.
That is a simplistic view of behavior modification that would be disected in any introductory psychology course. Take a course and find that there are ways to get the results you want with better outcomes and no slapping. The best strategy for eliminating reaching in the cookie jar depends on several critical factors. How old is the cookie thief? Was the thief old enough to respond to verbal instructions? Were you ignorant of positive, non violent methods of behavior management and influence? I raised five children and never needed to hit any of them and they are now very successful adults.