OPP, we lost one of our own. In fond memory of Winona Whyner.. Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, passed away on the morning of Sunday, March 19th, at the tragically young...

slatten49 Loc: Lake Whitney, Texas

Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, passed away on the morning of Sunday, March 19th, at the tragically young age of thirty-three.

Since Winona joined the forum last month on the 27th of February, I, along with many others, welcomed her. Within a day or two, she & I began a series of PMs in an attempt to better know one another. I found her delightful and inquisitive, albeit seemingly innocent and naive in many ways. I also warned her of being too sensitive and for the need to develop thick skin. Yet, I felt she handled herself quite nicely in her less than three weeks on OPP. I did not know of her condition from past serious injuries, and that she was likely quite debilitated.

She may well have felt or known what lay ahead for her, but joined OPP to engage with others in an attempt to improve her understanding and appreciation of their opinions and views. She had an amazing zest for life and knowledge that far exceeded most and in our correspondence, I grew very fond of this charming young lady. I even suggested that, with her permission, I would stop off and visit her on my way to visit my son and his family in Northern California. She would have been one of several I hope to meet on that trip. When I hadn't heard from her regarding ways in which we could meet, i.e., a phone number or location...I began to worry that Winona might be uncomfortable with the idea of meeting almost a total stranger. I then received, late this past Friday night, a letter from her mother. For reasons all should understand, I will only post limited portions of that letter....

"Lon, this is Winona's mother, ****** ******. My apologies. I should have let you know sooner. My daughter passed away in her sleep early Sunday morning from a brain clot. The doctor said it was very quick and probably the delayed result of a severe accident she had some years ago (not that that matters). The very last thing she did on this earth was to comment on One Political Plaza. The site was still on her screen when she was discovered. It is my deep regret you did not have a chance to meet. Thank you for being her friend, you truly lightened her spirit. I feel I can tell you she needed it; Winona never fully recovered from her accident. Yet she remained the most adorable person in every way. You made a difference. 'May blessings follow all your ways--and catch up!' She loved that expression."

I ask of all who would: Send your prayers, hopes and wishes for Winona's family. A loss of ones child can be devastating. I also want to take this opportunity to once again post a favorite quote I recall..."Take care of your thoughts when you are alone, and take care of your words when you are with people."

One never knows when a difference can be made.

lindajoy Loc: right here with you....

Sorry very sorry to read this ..

She was pleasant in her posts and although we only exchanged a post or two I thought how nice she was..

Devastating for her mother I am sure, I'm glad it was sudden for her with no pain..

A tragic loss at such a young age..
And yes, slatt, a moment to reflect and do as your quote implies..

QuestGirl Loc: Jayhawk Country

slatten49 wrote:

Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, passed away on the morning of Sunday, March 19th, at the tragically young age of thirty-three.

Since Winona joined the forum last month on the 27th of February, I, along with many others, welcomed her. Within a day or two, she & I began a series of PMs in an attempt to better know one another. I found her delightful and inquisitive, albeit seemingly innocent and naive in many ways. I also warned her of being too sensitive and for the need to develop thick skin. Yet, I felt she handled herself quite nicely in her less than three weeks on OPP. I did not know of her condition from past serious injuries, and that she was likely quite debilitated.

She may well have felt or known what lay ahead for her, but joined OPP to engage with others in an attempt to improve her understanding and appreciation of their opinions and views. She had an amazing zest for life and knowledge that far exceeded most and in our correspondence, I grew very fond of this charming young lady. I even suggested that, with her permission, I would stop off and visit her on my way to visit my son and his family in Northern California. She would have been one of several I hope to meet on that trip. When I hadn't heard from her regarding ways in which we could meet, i.e., a phone number or location...I began to worry that Winona might be uncomfortable with the idea of meeting almost a total stranger. I then received, late this past Friday night, a letter from her mother. For reasons all should understand, I will only post limited portions of that letter....

"Lon, this is Winona's mother, ****** ******. My apologies. I should have let you know sooner. My daughter passed away in her sleep early Sunday morning from a brain clot. The doctor said it was very quick and probably the delayed result of a severe accident she had some years ago (not that that matters). The very last thing she did on this earth was to comment on One Political Plaza. The site was still on her screen when she was discovered. It is my deep regret you did not have a chance to meet. Thank you for being her friend, you truly lightened her spirit. I feel I can tell you she needed it; Winona never fully recovered from her accident. Yet she remained the most adorable person in every way. You made a difference. 'May blessings follow all your ways--and catch up!' She loved that expression."

I ask of all who would: Send your prayers, hopes and wishes for Winona's family. A loss of ones child can be devastating. I also want to take this opportunity to once again post a favorite quote I recall..."Take care of your thoughts when you are alone, and take care of your words when you are with people."

One never knows when a difference can be made.

Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, pass... (show quote)

I think I'll go crawl back under my rock now. I need to work on turning this burden of mine into grief.

Thank you for sharing Slatten49, I had wondered where she had gone off too. Now I know. For what it is worth, by deepest apologies.

reconreb Loc: America / Inglis Fla.

[quote=slatten49]Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, passed away on the morning of Sunday, March 19th, at the tragically young age of thirty-three.

Since Winona joined the forum last month on the 27th of February, I, along with many others, welcomed her. Within a day or two, she & I began a series of PMs in an attempt to better know one another. I found her delightful and inquisitive, albeit seemingly innocent and naive in many ways. I also warned her of being too sensitive and for the need to develop thick skin. Yet, I felt she handled herself quite nicely in her less than three weeks on OPP. I did not know of her condition from past serious injuries, and that she was likely quite debilitated.

She may well have felt or known what lay ahead for her, but joined OPP to engage with others in an attempt to improve her understanding and appreciation of their opinions and views. She had an amazing zest for life and knowledge that far exceeded most and in our correspondence, I grew very fond of this charming young lady. I even suggested that, with her permission, I would stop off and visit her on my way to visit my son and his family in Northern California. She would have been one of several I hope to meet on that trip. When I hadn't heard from her regarding ways in which we could meet, i.e., a phone number or location...I began to worry that Winona might be uncomfortable with the idea of meeting almost a total stranger. I then received, late this past Friday night, a letter from her mother. For reasons all should understand, I will only post limited portions of that letter....

"Lon, this is Winona's mother, ****** ******. My apologies. I should have let you know sooner. My daughter passed away in her sleep early Sunday morning from a brain clot. The doctor said it was very quick and probably the delayed result of a severe accident she had some years ago (not that that matters). The very last thing she did on this earth was to comment on One Political Plaza. The site was still on her screen when she was discovered. It is my deep regret you did not have a chance to meet. Thank you for being her friend, you truly lightened her spirit. I feel I can tell you she needed it; Winona never fully recovered from her accident. Yet she remained the most adorable person in every way. You made a difference. 'May blessings follow all your ways--and catch up!' She loved that expression."

I ask of all who would: Send your prayers, hopes and wishes for Winona's family. A loss of ones child can be devastating. I also want to take this opportunity to once again post a favorite quote I recall..."Take care of your thoughts when you are alone, and take care of your words when you are with people."

One never knows when a difference can be made.

thank you what can one say ma God blessssssssssss

Dr.Dross

slatten49 wrote:

Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, passed away on the morning of Sunday, March 19th, at the tragically young age of thirty-three.

Since Winona joined the forum last month on the 27th of February, I, along with many others, welcomed her. Within a day or two, she & I began a series of PMs in an attempt to better know one another. I found her delightful and inquisitive, albeit seemingly innocent and naive in many ways. I also warned her of being too sensitive and for the need to develop thick skin. Yet, I felt she handled herself quite nicely in her less than three weeks on OPP. I did not know of her condition from past serious injuries, and that she was likely quite debilitated.

She may well have felt or known what lay ahead for her, but joined OPP to engage with others in an attempt to improve her understanding and appreciation of their opinions and views. She had an amazing zest for life and knowledge that far exceeded most and in our correspondence, I grew very fond of this charming young lady. I even suggested that, with her permission, I would stop off and visit her on my way to visit my son and his family in Northern California. She would have been one of several I hope to meet on that trip. When I hadn't heard from her regarding ways in which we could meet, i.e., a phone number or location...I began to worry that Winona might be uncomfortable with the idea of meeting almost a total stranger. I then received, late this past Friday night, a letter from her mother. For reasons all should understand, I will only post limited portions of that letter....

"Lon, this is Winona's mother, ****** ******. My apologies. I should have let you know sooner. My daughter passed away in her sleep early Sunday morning from a brain clot. The doctor said it was very quick and probably the delayed result of a severe accident she had some years ago (not that that matters). The very last thing she did on this earth was to comment on One Political Plaza. The site was still on her screen when she was discovered. It is my deep regret you did not have a chance to meet. Thank you for being her friend, you truly lightened her spirit. I feel I can tell you she needed it; Winona never fully recovered from her accident. Yet she remained the most adorable person in every way. You made a difference. 'May blessings follow all your ways--and catch up!' She loved that expression."

I ask of all who would: Send your prayers, hopes and wishes for Winona's family. A loss of ones child can be devastating. I also want to take this opportunity to once again post a favorite quote I recall..."Take care of your thoughts when you are alone, and take care of your words when you are with people."

One never knows when a difference can be made.

Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, pass... (show quote)

She pm'd me and I never got back. Wanted to know what I had against Trump. "Why the obsession?" she asked. Damn, feel bad. She was not attacking me but seemed genuinely curious. Even quoted me. Was more concerned with frying fish. My mistake. My prayers to her family. She was a light.

Quakerwidow Loc: Chestertown, MD

slatten49 wrote:

Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, passed away on the morning of Sunday, March 19th, at the tragically young age of thirty-three.

Since Winona joined the forum last month on the 27th of February, I, along with many others, welcomed her. Within a day or two, she & I began a series of PMs in an attempt to better know one another. I found her delightful and inquisitive, albeit seemingly innocent and naive in many ways. I also warned her of being too sensitive and for the need to develop thick skin. Yet, I felt she handled herself quite nicely in her less than three weeks on OPP. I did not know of her condition from past serious injuries, and that she was likely quite debilitated.

She may well have felt or known what lay ahead for her, but joined OPP to engage with others in an attempt to improve her understanding and appreciation of their opinions and views. She had an amazing zest for life and knowledge that far exceeded most and in our correspondence, I grew very fond of this charming young lady. I even suggested that, with her permission, I would stop off and visit her on my way to visit my son and his family in Northern California. She would have been one of several I hope to meet on that trip. When I hadn't heard from her regarding ways in which we could meet, i.e., a phone number or location...I began to worry that Winona might be uncomfortable with the idea of meeting almost a total stranger. I then received, late this past Friday night, a letter from her mother. For reasons all should understand, I will only post limited portions of that letter....

"Lon, this is Winona's mother, ****** ******. My apologies. I should have let you know sooner. My daughter passed away in her sleep early Sunday morning from a brain clot. The doctor said it was very quick and probably the delayed result of a severe accident she had some years ago (not that that matters). The very last thing she did on this earth was to comment on One Political Plaza. The site was still on her screen when she was discovered. It is my deep regret you did not have a chance to meet. Thank you for being her friend, you truly lightened her spirit. I feel I can tell you she needed it; Winona never fully recovered from her accident. Yet she remained the most adorable person in every way. You made a difference. 'May blessings follow all your ways--and catch up!' She loved that expression."

I ask of all who would: Send your prayers, hopes and wishes for Winona's family. A loss of ones child can be devastating. I also want to take this opportunity to once again post a favorite quote I recall..."Take care of your thoughts when you are alone, and take care of your words when you are with people."

One never knows when a difference can be made.

Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, pass... (show quote)

Thank you for the update. She will indeed be missed.

Sons of Liberty Loc: look behind you!

slatten49 wrote:

Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, passed away on the morning of Sunday, March 19th, at the tragically young age of thirty-three.

Since Winona joined the forum last month on the 27th of February, I, along with many others, welcomed her. Within a day or two, she & I began a series of PMs in an attempt to better know one another. I found her delightful and inquisitive, albeit seemingly innocent and naive in many ways. I also warned her of being too sensitive and for the need to develop thick skin. Yet, I felt she handled herself quite nicely in her less than three weeks on OPP. I did not know of her condition from past serious injuries, and that she was likely quite debilitated.

She may well have felt or known what lay ahead for her, but joined OPP to engage with others in an attempt to improve her understanding and appreciation of their opinions and views. She had an amazing zest for life and knowledge that far exceeded most and in our correspondence, I grew very fond of this charming young lady. I even suggested that, with her permission, I would stop off and visit her on my way to visit my son and his family in Northern California. She would have been one of several I hope to meet on that trip. When I hadn't heard from her regarding ways in which we could meet, i.e., a phone number or location...I began to worry that Winona might be uncomfortable with the idea of meeting almost a total stranger. I then received, late this past Friday night, a letter from her mother. For reasons all should understand, I will only post limited portions of that letter....

"Lon, this is Winona's mother, ****** ******. My apologies. I should have let you know sooner. My daughter passed away in her sleep early Sunday morning from a brain clot. The doctor said it was very quick and probably the delayed result of a severe accident she had some years ago (not that that matters). The very last thing she did on this earth was to comment on One Political Plaza. The site was still on her screen when she was discovered. It is my deep regret you did not have a chance to meet. Thank you for being her friend, you truly lightened her spirit. I feel I can tell you she needed it; Winona never fully recovered from her accident. Yet she remained the most adorable person in every way. You made a difference. 'May blessings follow all your ways--and catch up!' She loved that expression."

I ask of all who would: Send your prayers, hopes and wishes for Winona's family. A loss of ones child can be devastating. I also want to take this opportunity to once again post a favorite quote I recall..."Take care of your thoughts when you are alone, and take care of your words when you are with people."

One never knows when a difference can be made.

Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, pass... (show quote)

Though I didn't ever respond to her, at least that I'm aware of, I hope she can hear this song.
RIP!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jXrmAKBBTU

Rivers

slatten49 wrote:

Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, passed away on the morning of Sunday, March 19th, at the tragically young age of thirty-three.

Since Winona joined the forum last month on the 27th of February, I, along with many others, welcomed her. Within a day or two, she & I began a series of PMs in an attempt to better know one another. I found her delightful and inquisitive, albeit seemingly innocent and naive in many ways. I also warned her of being too sensitive and for the need to develop thick skin. Yet, I felt she handled herself quite nicely in her less than three weeks on OPP. I did not know of her condition from past serious injuries, and that she was likely quite debilitated.

She may well have felt or known what lay ahead for her, but joined OPP to engage with others in an attempt to improve her understanding and appreciation of their opinions and views. She had an amazing zest for life and knowledge that far exceeded most and in our correspondence, I grew very fond of this charming young lady. I even suggested that, with her permission, I would stop off and visit her on my way to visit my son and his family in Northern California. She would have been one of several I hope to meet on that trip. When I hadn't heard from her regarding ways in which we could meet, i.e., a phone number or location...I began to worry that Winona might be uncomfortable with the idea of meeting almost a total stranger. I then received, late this past Friday night, a letter from her mother. For reasons all should understand, I will only post limited portions of that letter....

"Lon, this is Winona's mother, ****** ******. My apologies. I should have let you know sooner. My daughter passed away in her sleep early Sunday morning from a brain clot. The doctor said it was very quick and probably the delayed result of a severe accident she had some years ago (not that that matters). The very last thing she did on this earth was to comment on One Political Plaza. The site was still on her screen when she was discovered. It is my deep regret you did not have a chance to meet. Thank you for being her friend, you truly lightened her spirit. I feel I can tell you she needed it; Winona never fully recovered from her accident. Yet she remained the most adorable person in every way. You made a difference. 'May blessings follow all your ways--and catch up!' She loved that expression."

I ask of all who would: Send your prayers, hopes and wishes for Winona's family. A loss of ones child can be devastating. I also want to take this opportunity to once again post a favorite quote I recall..."Take care of your thoughts when you are alone, and take care of your words when you are with people."

One never knows when a difference can be made.

Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, pass... (show quote)

Sorry, to hear of her passing...what a shock. Thanks for your posting.

lpnmajor Loc: Arkansas

slatten49 wrote:

Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, passed away on the morning of Sunday, March 19th, at the tragically young age of thirty-three.

Since Winona joined the forum last month on the 27th of February, I, along with many others, welcomed her. Within a day or two, she & I began a series of PMs in an attempt to better know one another. I found her delightful and inquisitive, albeit seemingly innocent and naive in many ways. I also warned her of being too sensitive and for the need to develop thick skin. Yet, I felt she handled herself quite nicely in her less than three weeks on OPP. I did not know of her condition from past serious injuries, and that she was likely quite debilitated.

She may well have felt or known what lay ahead for her, but joined OPP to engage with others in an attempt to improve her understanding and appreciation of their opinions and views. She had an amazing zest for life and knowledge that far exceeded most and in our correspondence, I grew very fond of this charming young lady. I even suggested that, with her permission, I would stop off and visit her on my way to visit my son and his family in Northern California. She would have been one of several I hope to meet on that trip. When I hadn't heard from her regarding ways in which we could meet, i.e., a phone number or location...I began to worry that Winona might be uncomfortable with the idea of meeting almost a total stranger. I then received, late this past Friday night, a letter from her mother. For reasons all should understand, I will only post limited portions of that letter....

"Lon, this is Winona's mother, ****** ******. My apologies. I should have let you know sooner. My daughter passed away in her sleep early Sunday morning from a brain clot. The doctor said it was very quick and probably the delayed result of a severe accident she had some years ago (not that that matters). The very last thing she did on this earth was to comment on One Political Plaza. The site was still on her screen when she was discovered. It is my deep regret you did not have a chance to meet. Thank you for being her friend, you truly lightened her spirit. I feel I can tell you she needed it; Winona never fully recovered from her accident. Yet she remained the most adorable person in every way. You made a difference. 'May blessings follow all your ways--and catch up!' She loved that expression."

I ask of all who would: Send your prayers, hopes and wishes for Winona's family. A loss of ones child can be devastating. I also want to take this opportunity to once again post a favorite quote I recall..."Take care of your thoughts when you are alone, and take care of your words when you are with people."

One never knows when a difference can be made.

Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, pass... (show quote)

A terrible loss. No one should die at such a young age, but I am glad it was a peaceful passing.

My thoughts and prayers are with her family, who's loss is imminently greater.

lindajoy Loc: right here with you....

Sons of Liberty wrote:

Though I didn't ever respond to her, at least that I'm aware of, I hope she can hear this song.
RIP!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jXrmAKBBTU

Amen!!

slatten49 Loc: Lake Whitney, Texas

Sons of Liberty wrote:

Though I didn't ever respond to her, at least that I'm aware of, I hope she can hear this song.
RIP!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jXrmAKBBTU

Always a beautiful song for accompanying the sorrow of such an occasion.

Morgan

slatten49 wrote:

Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, passed away on the morning of Sunday, March 19th, at the tragically young age of thirty-three.

Since Winona joined the forum last month on the 27th of February, I, along with many others, welcomed her. Within a day or two, she & I began a series of PMs in an attempt to better know one another. I found her delightful and inquisitive, albeit seemingly innocent and naive in many ways. I also warned her of being too sensitive and for the need to develop thick skin. Yet, I felt she handled herself quite nicely in her less than three weeks on OPP. I did not know of her condition from past serious injuries, and that she was likely quite debilitated.

She may well have felt or known what lay ahead for her, but joined OPP to engage with others in an attempt to improve her understanding and appreciation of their opinions and views. She had an amazing zest for life and knowledge that far exceeded most and in our correspondence, I grew very fond of this charming young lady. I even suggested that, with her permission, I would stop off and visit her on my way to visit my son and his family in Northern California. She would have been one of several I hope to meet on that trip. When I hadn't heard from her regarding ways in which we could meet, i.e., a phone number or location...I began to worry that Winona might be uncomfortable with the idea of meeting almost a total stranger. I then received, late this past Friday night, a letter from her mother. For reasons all should understand, I will only post limited portions of that letter....

"Lon, this is Winona's mother, ****** ******. My apologies. I should have let you know sooner. My daughter passed away in her sleep early Sunday morning from a brain clot. The doctor said it was very quick and probably the delayed result of a severe accident she had some years ago (not that that matters). The very last thing she did on this earth was to comment on One Political Plaza. The site was still on her screen when she was discovered. It is my deep regret you did not have a chance to meet. Thank you for being her friend, you truly lightened her spirit. I feel I can tell you she needed it; Winona never fully recovered from her accident. Yet she remained the most adorable person in every way. You made a difference. 'May blessings follow all your ways--and catch up!' She loved that expression."

I ask of all who would: Send your prayers, hopes and wishes for Winona's family. A loss of ones child can be devastating. I also want to take this opportunity to once again post a favorite quote I recall..."Take care of your thoughts when you are alone, and take care of your words when you are with people."

One never knows when a difference can be made.

Winona Whyner, one of our newer contributors, pass... (show quote)

I am saddened to hear this news, she was a light to this forum and a beautiful example, my prayers are with her family.