GEM lucas wrote:
You know i had a lot of stupid ideas when i was a kid, but i instilled only the good ones in my kids. It made better kids out of them, I never engaged in anything that they couldn't do also . If it wasn't good for all of us we didn't do it . they all turned out great
We used to homeschool our boys and when they got into the latter grades, we would talk about the issues of the day. One thing I always told them was, "Don't tell me what you think I want to hear - I want to know what you think. Who knows? Maybe I could learn something from you!" This did something for my boys which is lacking in too many schools today:
1. It encourages them to be aware of what is going on
2. It validates the notion they are entitled to their own opinions
3. In the give and take of a discussion, no one is required to agree on anything. However, during this discussion, passion is all right as long as respect doesn't take a back seat to it.
4. It piques interest of various topics in which they would do more research.
My one son, a college grad now, backed Ron Paul and tried to get me on his bandwagon. Oh, I can tell you the discussions were going pretty heavy (I am a solid conservative Republican and a member of the Executive Committee of the local party), but neither of us let things get out of hand. I was extremely proud, although I disagreed with some of the things he claimed, that he did his own research, formed his own opinions and was willing to stand up for them.
My youngest son is in the USAF and a rock solid conservative who is willing to stand toe-to-toe with any liberal twit. He, too, does his homework and speaks his mind.
Do you think our country could stand if people started thinking for themselves? It would be refreshing, wouldn't it?