Lessons of perseverence from my dog.
Mar 14, 2016 11:19:33 #
slatten49
Loc: Lake Whitney, Texas
By Bill Tinsley
Every year I write at least one column about my dog, Buddy. Some of you will remember that we adopted Buddy seven years ago after he was found starving on the streets of Fort Worth. I wrote his story for my grandkids, "just the way Buddy told it to me": how Barney the Blood Hound helped him survive on the streets until they were picked up by the dog police. I named the story, Buddy the Flopped Ear Corgi because his left ear flopped.
His ear doesn't flop anymore. Maybe he outgrew it. Maybe it flopped because he was puny and sick. Both ears now perk straight up like a respectable Corgi. I kind of miss the flop.
I am always learning something from Buddy. Lately, he is teaching me persistence. "Persistence" isn't a word we use much. But we all know what it means: never quitting, never giving up and never becoming discouraged. Buddy doesn't use words, but he communicates. He communicates most by "persistence."
If he wants to go outside, he goes over to the door and sits there looking out the glass pane. He never moves. He just sits there until I notice and obligingly open the door and let him out. He does the same thing about coming back inside. If I am eating, he locks his eyes on the food and stares, again refusing to move. I can scold him, tell him he isn't getting anything from me, act as callous and cold as possible, but it doesn't faze him. He just sits there staring with those big brown Corgi eyes until I finally give in. He wins his arguments with persistence.
I need to learn more of that. We humans are always looking for shortcuts to get what we want. We learn this at a very early age. We try tantrums, tears, weeping and waiting and pouting. We get angry and argue. But it seldom achieves our goals. We need to learn from Buddy. Persistence and peaceful perseverence is almost irresistible.
This must have been what Jesus was getting at. Jesus said, "Suppose one of you has a friend, and goes to him at midnight and says to him, 'Friend, lend me three loaves, for a friend of mine has come to me from a journey, and I have nothing to set before him "; and from inside he answers and says, 'Do not bother me; the door has already been shut and my children and I are in bed; I cannot get up and give you anything.'"
"I tell you, even though he will not get up and give him anything because he is his friend, yet because of his persistence, he will get up and give him as much as he needs. So I say to you ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives; and he who seeks, finds; and to him who knocks, it will be opened." (Luke 11 5-10).
Be persistent. Be patient. Don't get upset. Don't give up.
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Bill Tinsley, a contributor to the Waco Tribune Herald, has a book, 'Buddy, the Floppy Ear Corgi,' free this week on Amazon as a Kindle e-book. Visit www.tinsleycenter.com E-mail bill@tinsleycenter.com.
Every year I write at least one column about my dog, Buddy. Some of you will remember that we adopted Buddy seven years ago after he was found starving on the streets of Fort Worth. I wrote his story for my grandkids, "just the way Buddy told it to me": how Barney the Blood Hound helped him survive on the streets until they were picked up by the dog police. I named the story, Buddy the Flopped Ear Corgi because his left ear flopped.
His ear doesn't flop anymore. Maybe he outgrew it. Maybe it flopped because he was puny and sick. Both ears now perk straight up like a respectable Corgi. I kind of miss the flop.
I am always learning something from Buddy. Lately, he is teaching me persistence. "Persistence" isn't a word we use much. But we all know what it means: never quitting, never giving up and never becoming discouraged. Buddy doesn't use words, but he communicates. He communicates most by "persistence."
If he wants to go outside, he goes over to the door and sits there looking out the glass pane. He never moves. He just sits there until I notice and obligingly open the door and let him out. He does the same thing about coming back inside. If I am eating, he locks his eyes on the food and stares, again refusing to move. I can scold him, tell him he isn't getting anything from me, act as callous and cold as possible, but it doesn't faze him. He just sits there staring with those big brown Corgi eyes until I finally give in. He wins his arguments with persistence.
I need to learn more of that. We humans are always looking for shortcuts to get what we want. We learn this at a very early age. We try tantrums, tears, weeping and waiting and pouting. We get angry and argue. But it seldom achieves our goals. We need to learn from Buddy. Persistence and peaceful perseverence is almost irresistible.
This must have been what Jesus was getting at. Jesus said, "Suppose one of you has a friend, and goes to him at midnight and says to him, 'Friend, lend me three loaves, for a friend of mine has come to me from a journey, and I have nothing to set before him "; and from inside he answers and says, 'Do not bother me; the door has already been shut and my children and I are in bed; I cannot get up and give you anything.'"
"I tell you, even though he will not get up and give him anything because he is his friend, yet because of his persistence, he will get up and give him as much as he needs. So I say to you ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives; and he who seeks, finds; and to him who knocks, it will be opened." (Luke 11 5-10).
Be persistent. Be patient. Don't get upset. Don't give up.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Bill Tinsley, a contributor to the Waco Tribune Herald, has a book, 'Buddy, the Floppy Ear Corgi,' free this week on Amazon as a Kindle e-book. Visit www.tinsleycenter.com E-mail bill@tinsleycenter.com.
Mar 14, 2016 11:58:08 #
What a great story Slatten. The natural world is a wonder and certain beings in it such as dog's. One of God's great gifts.
I do not take mine for granted and therefore we have greated a common form of basic communications that both understand and both enjoy.
Your grandchildren are fortunate and will gleam much from your story.
I do not take mine for granted and therefore we have greated a common form of basic communications that both understand and both enjoy.
Your grandchildren are fortunate and will gleam much from your story.
slatten49 wrote:
By Bill Tinsley br br Every year I write at least... (show quote)
Mar 14, 2016 22:28:51 #
slatten49 wrote:
By Bill Tinsley br br Every year I write at least... (show quote)
:thumbup: I like this very much~~What a writer~~~What a message and what T***h it holds~~
Mar 14, 2016 22:33:34 #
slatten49
Loc: Lake Whitney, Texas
Thanks, MissingLink and L-J. I thought this story would touch a few people. Who doesn't love dogs :?: As I said earlier in the day, to someone else, we can learn from so many sources in our lives if we leave our eyes, ears and hearts open to the messages being sent.:thumbup:
Mar 14, 2016 22:37:37 #
I am certain it touched more than just we two responders. I
am sure more were touched but to many people won't admit it.
Don't know why. It's the times I guess.
am sure more were touched but to many people won't admit it.
Don't know why. It's the times I guess.
slatten49 wrote:
Thanks, MissingLink and L-J. I thought this story would touch a few people. Who doesn't love dogs :?: As I said earlier in the day, to someone else, we can learn from so many sources in our lives if we leave our eyes, ears and hearts open to the messages being sent.:thumbup:
Mar 14, 2016 22:37:42 #
slatten49 wrote:
Thanks, MissingLink and L-J. I thought this story would touch a few people. Who doesn't love dogs :?: As I said earlier in the day, to someone else, we can learn from so many sources in our lives if we leave our eyes, ears and hearts open to the messages being sent.:thumbup:
Yes, we can, its remembering to do what you just said that keeps us "receiving"..The minute we shut down, well, we shut down... :thumbup: :thumbup:
Mar 14, 2016 22:41:01 #
missinglink wrote:
I am certain it touched more than just we two responders. I
am sure more were touched but to many people won't admit it.
Don't know why. It's the times I guess.
am sure more were touched but to many people won't admit it.
Don't know why. It's the times I guess.
:thumbup: :thumbup:
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