Realities of a relationship
There is a reason that satan approached Eve first and not Adam. Women are emotional. They do things without concern for the consequences of their actions. That is part of
the reason we have murdered nearly 60,000,000 children before they have a chance to take their first breath. If you dont want kids then dont have sex. It is irresponsible to bring a life in this world you cant provide for. Especially if you cannot provide for yourself. Dont waste time on any woman that thinks she doesnt need a mans guidance. Even those that do will change their minds later, but she will regret any breakup. Especially if you are a Godly man that gives her something to miss. She wont miss the sex as we are all good at it but she will miss having money in the bank. A man should make intellectual decisions and dwell with their wives according to knowledge. Although raising a family today requires two incomes, providing for the family is primarily the husbands responsibility. It is the mans responsibility to take of the children until they can care for themselves. If the woman is so stupid that she has sex with a man before she knows he cant provide for a child; she pissed in her bed so let her sleep in it. She knew that having sex might make her pregnant. When the children expect to be provided for whether they obey you or not, that is when your responsibility for providing for them is over. It is time for them to provide for themselves. Until the kids grow up, parents should provide a healthy environment for the children while they are children. Children have a nasty habit of growing up, Childhood doesnt last forever. Parents should gut up and cope with any problems until the kids grow up. It took a long time for you to become the person you are. Let someone else grow up. Children will argue and fight as they grow up. This is natural. Try not to get involved and try not to micromanage. Finally it takes a man, to raise a man, to be a man. A woman cannot do it. She is not a man, has never been a man, and will never be a man. She will never understand the things a man goes through. Life was never meant to be fair or easy. Life is tough. When the going gets tough, the tough get going.
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