fredlott63 wrote:
You The only species of life that participates in anal or oral sex to orgasm is man. If you think lions give blowjob, your mind is perverted.
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Fred,
If you think anal and oral sex is "perverted," that's an opinion you're entitled to. However, both of those sex acts have occurred between men and women for eons of time. But, again, there are species of animals, primates in particular, that do practice those types of sex. It's been documented many times over.
As you seem hung-up on anal and oral sex, here's another link you can go to to help you out. It discusses the "Christian" aspects of sex in marriage and, in particular, oral and anal sex between a man and wife.
http://family.custhelp.com/app/answers/detail/a_id/25923/~/oral-and-anal-sex%3A-biblical-guidelines-for-intimacy-in-marriageWhile there are a few possible negative side effects to anal sex, it's practice has been around for quite a long time. However, it's my understanding that if a few precautions are taken, anal sex can be safe and enjoyable. During my high school and college days, I knew several girls who wouldn't have vaginal sex but did offer oral and/or anal sex in order to not get pregnant. And, while we personally don't practice anal sex, my wife and I know several Christian couples who do and quite enjoy it.
Biblically, there are no restrictions on the kind of sex act that a husband and wife can share. It's always a matter of the love and trust between them and the desire to give sexual pleasure to the spouse without feeling pressured into doing something you, personally, don't want to do.
What you and your wife do in your bedroom is your business. You can break out the whips and chains and body paint, for all I care. As long as both of you are in agreement toward practicing that kind of sex, there should be no judgment from anyone. But, I'll thank you for giving me the same respect in what I do in my bedroom; without you judging me and declaring what I do "sinful."
Here are some passages from the Bible. The ones from Song of Solomon are considered to be about oral sex between a man and woman. The second, from Paul's 1st letter to the Corinthians, is just a simple directive to a man and wife to give the other pleasure. No restrictions.
From the Song of Solomon:
I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste. 2:3
My beloved is mine, and I am his: he feedeth among the lilies. 2:16
Come ... blow upon my garden, that the spices thereof may flow out. Let my beloved come into his garden, and eat his pleasant fruits. 4:16
"Thy navel is like a round goblet, which wanteth not liquor: thy belly is like an heap of wheat set about with lilies." 7:2
"I would cause thee to drink of spiced wine of the juice of my pomegranate." 8:2
From Paul's first letter to the Corinthians:
Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 7:3
I would think that "due benevolence" would/should be determined by the husband and wife, not you or me, or anyone else for that matter.