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Taking the Merry out of Christmas: The Offense of the Gospel
November 10, 2015 by Anne Kennedy 4 Comments
It only takes one person to be offended. If it can be shown that an offense was caused, then we have something we can really work with.
I think a lot about the giving and receiving of offense because Ive got children, and children are perfect at locating offense, whether intended or not, and lovingly appropriating it so that it can sink down deep and grow into the tender tree of bitterness and irritation. For example, I have one child who loves to sing, and another child who hates to listen to anyone sing, ever. Both are prepared for other person to be the wrecker of their day, their week, their entire existence. There is a constant picking of one at the other, because they were born that way, made that way, and more than anything, they enjoy living that way.
Offense taking, and its sister, offense givingand this, I really think, is why there is such an incredible proliferation of it everywhereis a pleasure. It is enjoyable. If you can find yourself to be injured in some way, however slightly, or even better, about to be injured, well, then you can knock the other person ever so slightly back. They should do something to make you feel better. If they dont, well, the offense increases and there you are, with an even greater measure of power in your hand. The Other has made himself, or herself, to be your enemy, and its not your fault.
I am always interested in the timely intersection of the days cultural news items. I am sure that various unrelated events must somehow be talking to each other. I, therefore, watched, in horror, over the weekend, a clip of a young Yale student screaming at a professor. The professor had not done what she believed he should have done. She was offended beyond the point of coherence. She was screaming with anger. The professor stood on his heels with a baffled look on his face as the mob formed and she raged away. And then the clip ended.
Also, over the weekend, it was determined that Christians have been offended by the absence of the words Merry Christmas on their Starbucks holiday coffees. I watched the clip of the guy who said we should all go in and say our names are Merry Christmas so that Starbucks will be forced to write those words on the cup and we will then have scored some tiny point. He smiled merrily and encouraged people to leave comments below the clip. His chief offense, as I can tell from reading this article in Huffpo, is, and it should be predicated with shut up stupid Christians, is that he is an ordinary beefy American who is ruining the gospel, which Huffpo knows all about, shut up shut up shut up.
How curious, I thought to myself, that Huffpo believes the gathering up of offense is a Good Thingyou can see it all up and down their pagebut as soon as someone who might be identified as a Christian considers it, it becomes instantaneously a Bad Thing. I am a Christian and I am not particularly offended by not having Merry Christmas on a coffee I cannot actually afford to purchase. I am one of those poor rubes who have to drink coffee at home, made by myself to my own exact specifications, through a cone, pouring in the hot water gradually, heating the milk, adding a precise amount of Lyles Golden Syrup, nursing it through the school day as I mediate between various warring factions of children singing and complaining about the singing. No, what really offended me was when I briefly worked at a store called The Christmas Tree Shop, and was reprimanded by the floor manager for, on Christmas Eve, when wished a Merry Christmas by a nice old lady, I responded with And a Merry Christmas to you. The manager called me over and said, in a whisper, dont say that, it might be offensive. The irony of this moment was not lost on me. She had Christmas Tree Shop emblazoned on the front of her apron. I smiled a bright, cheerful smile, laughing uproariously in my heart, and promised to try to do better.
I dont have time to be offended, because Ive got other things to do. Also, a regulated and self disciplined mind, which should be the purview of Christians who read and meditate on the light of scripture, should be able to take an offense, both real or only perceived, and deal with it properly, through forgiveness and rational thought. The young Yale student who thinks she has been hurt because of a Halloween costume someone might have worn, has more problems than anyone in that crowd could possibly be expected to deal with. The trouble is that she is not alone. She is everywhere, measuring up the world by the plumb line of her own broken mind and everywhere finding it wanting. The emotional and spiritual pleasure of being offended will leave in her wake a culture ruined and devastated.
I think the true offense, and why Christians must, absolutely, be constantly told to Shut Up, is because it is the Christians job to reveal and speak about the very dire reality of humanitys true offense. Offense is a problem, but its not ours to take. It is Gods to measure and judge. We offend him, every single tiny second. Our sin is a stench rising up in his nostril and sometime he will have enough and come and destroy the offender. If you havent flung yourself on his mercy before that you will find all your angers and minute micro aggressions have brought you to a place eternally perishing. The Christians job isnt to take offense, it is to announce the offense of the sinner and plead with the sinner to repent. Starbucks has a lovely, carefully crafted little pagan deity on its cheerful red cup, a cup that pours out coffee to a humanity spiraling into the depths of depravity and sin. That young lady, screaming her rage, later cupping her warm coffee and scrolling down her expensive handheld device, is a sinner in need of mercy from God. She is the offender, not the offended.
Christians do have a purpose in this dark time, but its not spread a message of peace and love. Not initially. Its to say to the person who is gathering their threads of offense and weaving then into a warm, cozy blanket of offense, Stop It. And that is the best, most sure way to offend everyone that I can think of.
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Taking the Merry out of Christmas: The Offense of the Gospel
November 10, 2015 by Anne Kennedy 4 Comments
It only takes one person to be offended. If it can be shown that an offense was caused, then we have something we can really work with.
I think a lot about the giving and receiving of offense because Ive got children, and children are perfect at locating offense, whether intended or not, and lovingly appropriating it so that it can sink down deep and grow into the tender tree of bitterness and irritation. For example, I have one child who loves to sing, and another child who hates to listen to anyone sing, ever. Both are prepared for other person to be the wrecker of their day, their week, their entire existence. There is a constant picking of one at the other, because they were born that way, made that way, and more than anything, they enjoy living that way.
Offense taking, and its sister, offense givingand this, I really think, is why there is such an incredible proliferation of it everywhereis a pleasure. It is enjoyable. If you can find yourself to be injured in some way, however slightly, or even better, about to be injured, well, then you can knock the other person ever so slightly back. They should do something to make you feel better. If they dont, well, the offense increases and there you are, with an even greater measure of power in your hand. The Other has made himself, or herself, to be your enemy, and its not your fault.
I am always interested in the timely intersection of the days cultural news items. I am sure that various unrelated events must somehow be talking to each other. I, therefore, watched, in horror, over the weekend, a clip of a young Yale student screaming at a professor. The professor had not done what she believed he should have done. She was offended beyond the point of coherence. She was screaming with anger. The professor stood on his heels with a baffled look on his face as the mob formed and she raged away. And then the clip ended.
Also, over the weekend, it was determined that Christians have been offended by the absence of the words Merry Christmas on their Starbucks holiday coffees. I watched the clip of the guy who said we should all go in and say our names are Merry Christmas so that Starbucks will be forced to write those words on the cup and we will then have scored some tiny point. He smiled merrily and encouraged people to leave comments below the clip. His chief offense, as I can tell from reading this article in Huffpo, is, and it should be predicated with shut up stupid Christians, is that he is an ordinary beefy American who is ruining the gospel, which Huffpo knows all about, shut up shut up shut up.
How curious, I thought to myself, that Huffpo believes the gathering up of offense is a Good Thingyou can see it all up and down their pagebut as soon as someone who might be identified as a Christian considers it, it becomes instantaneously a Bad Thing. I am a Christian and I am not particularly offended by not having Merry Christmas on a coffee I cannot actually afford to purchase. I am one of those poor rubes who have to drink coffee at home, made by myself to my own exact specifications, through a cone, pouring in the hot water gradually, heating the milk, adding a precise amount of Lyles Golden Syrup, nursing it through the school day as I mediate between various warring factions of children singing and complaining about the singing. No, what really offended me was when I briefly worked at a store called The Christmas Tree Shop, and was reprimanded by the floor manager for, on Christmas Eve, when wished a Merry Christmas by a nice old lady, I responded with And a Merry Christmas to you. The manager called me over and said, in a whisper, dont say that, it might be offensive. The irony of this moment was not lost on me. She had Christmas Tree Shop emblazoned on the front of her apron. I smiled a bright, cheerful smile, laughing uproariously in my heart, and promised to try to do better.
I dont have time to be offended, because Ive got other things to do. Also, a regulated and self disciplined mind, which should be the purview of Christians who read and meditate on the light of scripture, should be able to take an offense, both real or only perceived, and deal with it properly, through forgiveness and rational thought. The young Yale student who thinks she has been hurt because of a Halloween costume someone might have worn, has more problems than anyone in that crowd could possibly be expected to deal with. The trouble is that she is not alone. She is everywhere, measuring up the world by the plumb line of her own broken mind and everywhere finding it wanting. The emotional and spiritual pleasure of being offended will leave in her wake a culture ruined and devastated.
I think the true offense, and why Christians must, absolutely, be constantly told to Shut Up, is because it is the Christians job to reveal and speak about the very dire reality of humanitys true offense. Offense is a problem, but its not ours to take. It is Gods to measure and judge. We offend him, every single tiny second. Our sin is a stench rising up in his nostril and sometime he will have enough and come and destroy the offender. If you havent flung yourself on his mercy before that you will find all your angers and minute micro aggressions have brought you to a place eternally perishing. The Christians job isnt to take offense, it is to announce the offense of the sinner and plead with the sinner to repent. Starbucks has a lovely, carefully crafted little pagan deity on its cheerful red cup, a cup that pours out coffee to a humanity spiraling into the depths of depravity and sin. That young lady, screaming her rage, later cupping her warm coffee and scrolling down her expensive handheld device, is a sinner in need of mercy from God. She is the offender, not the offended.
Christians do have a purpose in this dark time, but its not spread a message of peace and love. Not initially. Its to say to the person who is gathering their threads of offense and weaving then into a warm, cozy blanket of offense, Stop It. And that is the best, most sure way to offend everyone that I can think of.
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Far more harm is usually done by the person who takes offense than the one who originally gave it. We Christians have a commandment to cover this: "Turn the other cheek...walk the extra mile." Great post and I thoroughly agree. "Offense is not ours to take": brilliant!
However, I thoroughly disagree with this: "The Christians job isnt to take offense, it is to announce the offense of the sinner and plead with the sinner to repent." I see it differently. If Jesus did that just once with any sinner, I would rush to agree, but he did not. Ah, forgot the Pharisees. He called them hypocrites and vipers. Why? They were in a special class. He announced their offense. But for prostitutes, tax collectors, thieves, and murderers, no announcement of their offense or plea to repent. The closest we get to a plea to repent is Jesus simply saying, "Go and sin no more." It does not qualify.
fiatlux wrote:
Far more harm is usually done by the person who takes offense than the one who originally gave it. We Christians have a commandment to cover this: "Turn the other cheek...walk the extra mile." Great post and I thoroughly agree. "Offense is not ours to take": brilliant!
However, I thoroughly disagree with this: "The Christians job isnt to take offense, it is to announce the offense of the sinner and plead with the sinner to repent." I see it differently. If Jesus did that just once with any sinner, I would rush to agree, but he did not. Ah, forgot the Pharisees. He called them hypocrites and vipers. Why? They were in a special class. He announced their offense. But for prostitutes, tax collectors, thieves, and murderers, no announcement of their offense or plea to repent. The closest we get to a plea to repent is Jesus simply saying, "Go and sin no more." It does not qualify.
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More so. We are to be in relationship with sinners, not just clarions of God's kingdom or redeemers of sinners. Giving offense is not a clear cut issue. Severely abused people may give offense but is announcing it the way to heal those wounds? Many common offenses are given by the most wounded and burdened and not the vain, like the Pharisees. "They know not what they do." Mercy is the response. We are to be gentle and kind to these damaged human beings. All love must be shown to them.
"On ward Christian soldiers", as if in a "war". You will not change the mind of the sinner, just drop a seed and march on, when Gods wants to give that seed some nourishment for the seed to spring up, that's good. Now if that seed dries up like in turning away. That the sinners fault. Offense is the best defense. We are all His children in spirit, and He decides.
iFrank wrote:
"On ward Christian soldiers", as if in a "war". You will not change the mind of the sinner, just drop a seed and march on, when Gods wants to give that seed some nourishment for the seed to spring up, that's good. Now if that seed dries up like in turning away. That the sinners fault. Offense is the best defense. We are all His children in spirit, and He decides.
Ok, I see it differently.
fiatlux wrote:
Ok, I see it differently.
The Bible is the template on how you must think and act, if you see it different then you are your own stumbling block.
iFrank wrote:
The Bible is the template on how you must think and act, if you see it different then you are your own stumbling block.
Christ is the template of how you think and act, and if you are not hidden in him, complications arise.
fiatlux wrote:
Christ is the template of how you think and act, and if you are not hidden in him, complications arise.
The complication are on your end, the simplicity of the Bible is easy if you know the code, you must study yourself and be shown approved, according to God.
fiatlux wrote:
Non-sequitor.
Must be a "type o" that word is not defineable according to websters.
iFrank wrote:
Must be a "type o" that word is not defineable according to websters.
It is Latin meaning your comments were out of place, not relevant.
fiatlux wrote:
It is Latin meaning your comments were out of place, not relevant.
Don't make me regret casting pearls upon swine. You're speaking "pig Latin".
iFrank wrote:
Don't make me regret casting pearls upon swine. You're speaking "pig Latin".
"Pearls before swine" is not a parable about the ignorant masses but an indictment against spiritual pride.
fiatlux wrote:
"Pearls before swine" is not a parable about the ignorant masses but an indictment against spiritual pride.
And girl you have pride, "pride goes before the fall".
iFrank wrote:
The Bible is the template on how you must think and act, if you see it different then you are your own stumbling block.
Spirit is the the template, not the Bible.
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