this well reasoned video will help you discuss the value of marriage and why it CANNOT be redefined. IT is exceptionally well done and worth your time, as it will help arm you for the next discussion with those who want to destruct marriage.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C46-e8yRvrI
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