fiatlux wrote:
Not that I noticed he was Black at all, really I didn't, but if I did, just happened to unconsciously fall prey to such thinking, you know, that we were different colors, not that it matters and I have friends that are Black, yet when I stupidly said "He is a great example of what anyone, black or white, can do if they truly want to" I felt deep shame. But why was not clear.
Your "felt" shame no doubt came from the subconscious truth of your racism. Anyone trying to make an issue of a normal innocent statement like black or white is either trying to make trouble or is a latent bigot.
I also like the famous statement "I have friends that are black." As if we all don't :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: :shock: :shock: :shock: