My words to ginnyt, as related by Pennylynn: 'Your type is too vicious and mean-spirited even for OPP. Few here could possibly comprehend how vile you are. I can see it because it was...

rumitoid

'Your type is too vicious and mean-spirited even for OPP. Few here could possibly comprehend how vile you are. I can see it because it was my job to see it.'

'You remain the worst person I have ever met. Put this before your so-called "elders" for review.'

'I completely and totally disrespect you. Lol. Get it! Thirty years dealing with addicts and convicts, and you are the worst person I met.'

'You are a worthless piece of crap.'

'Dang, monkey, reread the topic of this thread; all this is extraneous to the subject.'

'As far as the way this thread was presented: agree or get lost.'

Highly regrettable but these are my words. She seemed to have unfettered access to my buttons. Not an excuse; just the facts. But that was my bad, not hers. Now she has a new incarnation after Asiseeit: Pennylynn. Still stalking me. So I am forced to reflect how I possibly created this ugly situation. Ginnyt is beloved by many, and her new creation, Pennylynn, has many fans. Then the fault is in me. Without contest, I agree. My comments about Pennylynn (ginnyt) have been reprehensible. They end here. Only comments related to topic from henceforth. Nothing personal.

jack sequim wa Loc: Blanchard, Idaho

rumitoid wrote:

'Your type is too vicious and mean-spirited even f... (show quote)

The fact that you put Ginny and your comments on the main message board says who you are. What kind of man calls out a woman that way, maybe a coward.

rumitoid

jack sequim wa wrote:

The fact that you put Ginny and your comments on the main message board says who you are. What kind of man calls out a woman that way, maybe a coward.

You may be right. Let me ask you if there is another way of seeing it?

"Calls out a woman that way" is a highly questionable phraseology. Calls out a man in this fashion is ok?

rumitoid

For someone to go through not only this elaborate ruse but continue on this site despite her religious elders insistence she quit, indicts me, not her. I am somehow at fault, I did wrong to this party. Nothing else makes sense.

jack sequim wa Loc: Blanchard, Idaho

rumitoid wrote:

You may be right. Let me ask you if there is another way of seeing it?

"Calls out a woman that way" is a highly questionable phraseology. Calls out a man in this fashion is ok?

no it would not be ok, sorry I have always believed praise in public, admonish in private. Not to say during a back and forth post words can justly or unjustly be harsh in a heated exchanged. I think I was bothered by the public display.

bobebgtime Loc: Virginia

rumitoid wrote:

You may be right. Let me ask you if there is another way of seeing it?

"Calls out a woman that way" is a highly questionable phraseology. Calls out a man in this fashion is ok?

"Calls out a woman that way"Really? Since women are equal to men in todays society, just calling out an individual. Keep it simple, let it go.
:lol:

rumitoid

jack sequim wa wrote:

no it would not be ok, sorry I have always believed praise in public, admonish in private. Not to say during a back and forth post words can justly or unjustly be harsh in a heated exchanged. I think I was bothered by the public display.

But you made g****r central.

jack sequim wa Loc: Blanchard, Idaho

rumitoid wrote:

But you made g****r central.

Yes I did, but also corrected myself. It was not intentional, rather more leaning towards subconscious side of me, open a door for a woman, elderly, men can take care of themselves. Which as you made clear did not apply here, so I corrected myself.

Boo_Boo Loc: Jellystone

To be fair, you should really quote both exchanges...what I said and your replies or vice versa. To only quote these, is unfair to you. No one is faultless and without blame. Certainly I have my shortcomings and those should be on display, if you intend to put quotes out for others to review. You may find it salubrious. This anger is now working on three years. And when I changed my name, I had hopes of putting distance between you and I... and in time I had hopes of exchanging ideas and thoughts void of anger and hurtful comments. But, you found me. I am so sorry that you did.... more time was necessary.

So....please do go back and get each and every exchange you and I have made. Put it out here in this or another thread. And should you need directions on how to find each of them, drop me a PM and I will provide you a step by step process. I do not want anyone thinking that what you wrote here is the complete story.

And I ask you not to make promises such as you did here "They end here. Only comments related to topic from henceforth. Nothing personal" because I do not think you can keep your word. As proven by a comment further in this thread "For someone to go through not only this elaborate ruse but continue on this site despite her religious elders insistence she quit, indicts me, not her. I am somehow at fault, I did wrong to this party. Nothing else makes sense." Do not do that to yourself. It jeopardizes your integrity.

Yes, I do still ask for advice from my elders. I do not know everything and I do not always handle each circumstances in the right way. So, I go to them and ask for advice. And that is what they give me. Advice because no one can make or insist that an adult do anything...especially in such mundane endeavors as posting on OPP. And I know, you have told me to leave many times....and still here I am. Stubborn to the core. I enjoy my time here. I enjoy the research and the exchanges of ideas. I do believe that I too have rights, even the same rights you say belong to Muslims.... We hold these t***hs to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. I consider posting a small percent of my pursuit of happiness.

So, we have to find a way around this. And I believe if you can get it all out....everything that I said to offend you....out to a jury of your peers, you just may find some relief. In any case, I would hope so.

To everyone else. I am sorry for putting this out in the public, but my request in the past to do this kind of thing by PM has only angered Rumitoid more. That is not my intent....so, forgive me please.

rumitoid wrote:

'Your type is too vicious and mean-spirited even f... (show quote)

Boo_Boo Loc: Jellystone

I am still a woman and a lady. I have not gone to being Liberal, I appreciate it when a man opens the door for me, or stands when I walk into a room. I believe that there were causalities of the 60s and among those was civility. It is refreshing to find a man in this new world. I thank you for your kind words and defense.

jack sequim wa wrote:

Yes I did, but also corrected myself. It was not intentional, rather more leaning towards subconscious side of me, open a door for a woman, elderly, men can take care of themselves. Which as you made clear did not apply here, so I corrected myself.

JMHO Loc: Utah

Pennylynn wrote:

To be fair, you should really quote both exchanges...what I said and your replies or vice versa. To only quote these, is unfair to you. No one is faultless and without blame. Certainly I have my shortcomings and those should be on display, if you intend to put quotes out for others to review. You may find it salubrious. This anger is now working on three years. And when I changed my name, I had hopes of putting distance between you and I... and in time I had hopes of exchanging ideas and thoughts void of anger and hurtful comments. But, you found me. I am so sorry that you did.... more time was necessary.

So....please do go back and get each and every exchange you and I have made. Put it out here in this or another thread. And should you need directions on how to find each of them, drop me a PM and I will provide you a step by step process. I do not want anyone thinking that what you wrote here is the complete story.

And I ask you not to make promises such as you did here "They end here. Only comments related to topic from henceforth. Nothing personal" because I do not think you can keep your word. As proven by a comment further in this thread "For someone to go through not only this elaborate ruse but continue on this site despite her religious elders insistence she quit, indicts me, not her. I am somehow at fault, I did wrong to this party. Nothing else makes sense." Do not do that to yourself. It jeopardizes your integrity.

Yes, I do still ask for advice from my elders. I do not know everything and I do not always handle each circumstances in the right way. So, I go to them and ask for advice. And that is what they give me. Advice because no one can make or insist that an adult do anything...especially in such mundane endeavors as posting on OPP. And I know, you have told me to leave many times....and still here I am. Stubborn to the core. I enjoy my time here. I enjoy the research and the exchanges of ideas. I do believe that I too have rights, even the same rights you say belong to Muslims.... We hold these t***hs to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. I consider posting a small percent of my pursuit of happiness.

So, we have to find a way around this. And I believe if you can get it all out....everything that I said to offend you....out to a jury of your peers, you just may find some relief. In any case, I would hope so.

To everyone else. I am sorry for putting this out in the public, but my request in the past to do this kind of thing by PM has only angered Rumitoid more. That is not my intent....so, forgive me please.

To be fair, you should really quote both exchanges... (show quote)

You hang in there Pennylynn. Rumitoid is a jerk, and always has been...he is a liberal after all. So, don't let the jerk get to you, there are more people on OPP behind you than there are behind that moron. Sit back, take a deep breath, and relax...have a great day.

no propaganda please Loc: moon orbiting the third rock from the sun

rumitoid wrote:

'Your type is too vicious and mean-spirited even f... (show quote)

Back off, please!!

jack sequim wa Loc: Blanchard, Idaho

JMHO wrote:

You hang in there Pennylynn. Rumitoid is a jerk, and always has been...he is a liberal after all. So, don't let the jerk get to you, there are more people on OPP behind you than there are behind that moron. Sit back, take a deep breath, and relax...have a great day.

Amen :thumbup: :thumbup:

Armageddun Loc: The show me state

JMHO wrote:

You hang in there Pennylynn. Rumitoid is a jerk, and always has been...he is a liberal after all. So, don't let the jerk get to you, there are more people on OPP behind you than there are behind that moron. Sit back, take a deep breath, and relax...have a great day.

:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: Amen and Amen

no propaganda please Loc: moon orbiting the third rock from the sun

no propaganda please wrote:

Back off, please!!

Rumi, please do not go back to the personal attacks, we all have our faults, and it DOES work better when we leave our vendettas out of the mix and off OPP.