EmilyD wrote:
And He made sure that we weren't proud about helping someone who has slipped up by telling us to make sure we don't also fall for the same or similar fallacies...
In his 18th homily on Ephesians, St. John Chrysostom makes an important observation about the passage that says, “Judge not, that ye be not judged.” St. John Chrysostom says those words are only in reference to very small errors. In other words, “Judge not" means don't nip pick. But when our brother is engaged in open r*******n against God, sinning in grievous ways, we have a Christian duty to reprove our brother, and to call him to repentance. Confronting sin is not only permitted for us. It is required.
First Timothy five, verse twenty, Paul says, “Those who continue in sin, rebuke in the presence of everybody so that the rest will be fearful to continue sinning.” Emily, now that’s getting personal. We’re not just stepping on toes, we’re literally stomping on them on a stage in front of everybody. That doesn’t sound very comforting or uplifting to me.
How about James 5:19 and 20? “If anyone among you wanders from the t***h, and someone turns him back, let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his ways will save a soul from death and cover a multitude of sins.”
How many verses are there in Scripture, over and over, that give us an example and even command us to confront one another, in love, with sin? As painful as it may be, as uncomfortable as it may be, as “it's not fun or comfortable ” and even though sometimes it might break relationships, knowing all these horrible consequences, these horrible feelings, we know that Scripture says over and over and over to do it
So if somebody says “No, I should not do that, because it says ‘judge not,’” guess what that is? That’s stupid. It’s ignorant and thanks be to God He does not instantly drop us into hell just because we are stupid.
I hope all those contributing to this conversation today have cleared up Judging for those who might be confused. It's important to remember we can never judge and correct someone of a sin we are engaged in ourselves.