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Sep 4, 2020 09:50:32   #
Tiptop789 Loc: State of Denial
 
Canuckus Deploracus wrote:
Appreciate it.... And sorry for your losses... They make us all better for having known them


I don't mean to monopolize the conversion, I think as "leave the gun" put it, we can all agree how wonderful dogs are. It is a pleasant change to the vitriole that often permeates the conversions on this forum. It's like the line from the song "Something about a you" by Level 42, "And it's not so wrong, we're only human after all". Thanks for sharing.

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Sep 4, 2020 09:51:07   #
bylm1-Bernie
 
Canuckus Deploracus wrote:
Almost sixteen years ago, when I had just gotten serious with my girlfriend-now-wife, I was introduced to a little bundle of barky fluff... I named her Huang Doudou (Yellow Tofu bean)...

My girlfriend had just returned from visiting her aunt and told me she had special surprise for me... My toxic masculinity immediately jumped to lingerie and sandwiches (not necessarily in that order).. But instead I was handed a tiny puppy...

She demonstrated her love by immediately attempting to rip through my thumb... And I was hooked... Carried her around in a pocket until she was big enough to keep up... And endured some rather interesting fights with my paramour until it was properly established that dogs can sleep on beds

She was one if my rocks during the early days when I was struggling with language, culture shock, and alcoholism.... The number of great memories a dog can impart is quite beyond count....

My favorite is when I would lay on the floor and blow at her... She would jump on me and try to smother me... My wife remembers the time she chased a German Shepherd around the park after it scared her (my wife, not the dog)...

She's a Japanese Chin (although the species originates in China....Quite an interesting story there) and their lifespans are usually around 12 years.... Back when we finally decided to have a child one of our greatest regrets was the thought that our daughter might not get to meet her.... At 12 years old she was already experiencing health issues...

Luckily she overcame then and came to spend three wonderful years with my daughter... Indeed, my daughter refers to her as her older sister... And often insists that they eat together

This past week the weather turned... During the warm summer months she was able to enjoy long naps and relative good health... Although the arthritis had limited her mobility and she was going blind.... Suddenly she was unable to stand and in almost constant pain...

Yesterday my daughter started preschool... And it was joyful to hear her tell her sister about the teachers and students...

This morning she stroked her head and told her she loved her... Then we took her to school... Afterwards my friend (a vet) came by.... I held her in my arms... And cried as the life left her.... It was gentle... And I'm glad she spent her last moments at home...

Her ashes are in my study now.... And my daughter has had her first real experience with loss...And my wife has cried a few dozens times....And I'm on my third beer...

As much as it hurts, I can't imagine how the last 15 years would have been without her in my life... Sometimes the greatest blessings can rip a person apart... And pain can be so bitter sweet...

(The pictures are from an album I had made when she was just three years old)
Almost sixteen years ago, when I had just gotten s... (show quote)



Nice story, Kyle. It's also a good experience for a family to go through. I love dogs but we're just too selfish I guess to handle all the care necessary. We do enjoy the neighbor's dog and his antics as well as the dogs of our grandkids. They add a lot to life's experience, that's for sure.

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Sep 4, 2020 09:52:59   #
Canuckus Deploracus Loc: North of the wall
 
Tiptop789 wrote:
I don't mean to monopolize the conversion, I think as "leave the gun" put it, we can all agree how wonderful dogs are. It is a pleasant change to the vitriole that often permeates the conversions on this forum. It's like the line from the song "Something about a you" by Level 42, "And it's not so wrong, we're only human after all". Thanks for sharing.


It's greatly appreciated... Most of the expats in my city are absent... And Chinese who appreciate the depths of feeling that can exist between a man and a dog are few and far between....

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Sep 4, 2020 09:54:08   #
Canuckus Deploracus Loc: North of the wall
 
bylm1-Bernie wrote:
Nice story, Kyle. It's also a good experience for a family to go through. I love dogs but we're just too selfish I guess to handle all the care necessary. We do enjoy the neighbor's dog and his antics as well as the dogs of our grandkids. They add a lot to life's experience, that's for sure.


You sound exactly like my father.... He hasn't owned a dogsince I was a boy... But he loves them and is often found babysitting a neighbor's....

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Sep 4, 2020 10:06:48   #
Tug484
 
Canuckus Deploracus wrote:
Almost sixteen years ago, when I had just gotten serious with my girlfriend-now-wife, I was introduced to a little bundle of barky fluff... I named her Huang Doudou (Yellow Tofu bean)...

My girlfriend had just returned from visiting her aunt and told me she had special surprise for me... My toxic masculinity immediately jumped to lingerie and sandwiches (not necessarily in that order).. But instead I was handed a tiny puppy...

She demonstrated her love by immediately attempting to rip through my thumb... And I was hooked... Carried her around in a pocket until she was big enough to keep up... And endured some rather interesting fights with my paramour until it was properly established that dogs can sleep on beds

She was one if my rocks during the early days when I was struggling with language, culture shock, and alcoholism.... The number of great memories a dog can impart is quite beyond count....

My favorite is when I would lay on the floor and blow at her... She would jump on me and try to smother me... My wife remembers the time she chased a German Shepherd around the park after it scared her (my wife, not the dog)...

She's a Japanese Chin (although the species originates in China....Quite an interesting story there) and their lifespans are usually around 12 years.... Back when we finally decided to have a child one of our greatest regrets was the thought that our daughter might not get to meet her.... At 12 years old she was already experiencing health issues...

Luckily she overcame then and came to spend three wonderful years with my daughter... Indeed, my daughter refers to her as her older sister... And often insists that they eat together

This past week the weather turned... During the warm summer months she was able to enjoy long naps and relative good health... Although the arthritis had limited her mobility and she was going blind.... Suddenly she was unable to stand and in almost constant pain...

Yesterday my daughter started preschool... And it was joyful to hear her tell her sister about the teachers and students...

This morning she stroked her head and told her she loved her... Then we took her to school... Afterwards my friend (a vet) came by.... I held her in my arms... And cried as the life left her.... It was gentle... And I'm glad she spent her last moments at home...

Her ashes are in my study now.... And my daughter has had her first real experience with loss...And my wife has cried a few dozens times....And I'm on my third beer...

As much as it hurts, I can't imagine how the last 15 years would have been without her in my life... Sometimes the greatest blessings can rip a person apart... And pain can be so bitter sweet...

(The pictures are from an album I had made when she was just three years old)
Almost sixteen years ago, when I had just gotten s... (show quote)



Very cute.
My cat passed away about two weeks ago.
I'd had him for a long time.
So sorry you lost her.
It's very hard to lose a beloved animal.

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Sep 4, 2020 10:23:56   #
Canuckus Deploracus Loc: North of the wall
 
Tug484 wrote:
Very cute.
My cat passed away about two weeks ago.
I'd had him for a long time.
So sorry you lost her.
It's very hard to lose a beloved animal.


Sorry for your loss as well...It's never easy...

Looking out the window with my daughter now.... She's saying goodnight to her... U among the stars...

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Sep 4, 2020 11:05:00   #
Tug484
 
Canuckus Deploracus wrote:
Sorry for your loss as well...It's never easy...

Looking out the window with my daughter now.... She's saying goodnight to her... U among the stars...


Oh bless her heart.
My son has two of those dogs.
They're named Darby and Camo.
They got delivered by a truck that said Pets R Us.
I lost my cat and step son on the same day.
My step son died two days before his birthday.
He passed 31 days after my only brother died.
I miss all of them.

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Sep 4, 2020 11:32:31   #
SGM B Loc: TEXAS but live in Alabama now
 
bylm1-Bernie wrote:
Nice story, Kyle. It's also a good experience for a family to go through. I love dogs but we're just too selfish I guess to handle all the care necessary. We do enjoy the neighbor's dog and his antics as well as the dogs of our grandkids. They add a lot to life's experience, that's for sure.


I guess that's part of our problem, too selfish. 😟 We enjoy traveling and the hotels we stay in are seldom pet friendly, and if they do allow pets they charge from $50 up to as much as $300 per night, non-refundable. If you have a "service dog", they are welcome and I have seen more than a few who claim their dogs are service dogs, but I'm not convinced - looks like theft to me. I personally see no way a very small Yorkie could be a service dog, but maybe I'm wrong, wouldn't be the first time. LOL!!

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Sep 4, 2020 11:52:01   #
lpnmajor Loc: Arkansas
 
Canuckus Deploracus wrote:
Almost sixteen years ago, when I had just gotten serious with my girlfriend-now-wife, I was introduced to a little bundle of barky fluff... I named her Huang Doudou (Yellow Tofu bean)...

My girlfriend had just returned from visiting her aunt and told me she had special surprise for me... My toxic masculinity immediately jumped to lingerie and sandwiches (not necessarily in that order).. But instead I was handed a tiny puppy...

She demonstrated her love by immediately attempting to rip through my thumb... And I was hooked... Carried her around in a pocket until she was big enough to keep up... And endured some rather interesting fights with my paramour until it was properly established that dogs can sleep on beds

She was one if my rocks during the early days when I was struggling with language, culture shock, and alcoholism.... The number of great memories a dog can impart is quite beyond count....

My favorite is when I would lay on the floor and blow at her... She would jump on me and try to smother me... My wife remembers the time she chased a German Shepherd around the park after it scared her (my wife, not the dog)...

She's a Japanese Chin (although the species originates in China....Quite an interesting story there) and their lifespans are usually around 12 years.... Back when we finally decided to have a child one of our greatest regrets was the thought that our daughter might not get to meet her.... At 12 years old she was already experiencing health issues...

Luckily she overcame then and came to spend three wonderful years with my daughter... Indeed, my daughter refers to her as her older sister... And often insists that they eat together

This past week the weather turned... During the warm summer months she was able to enjoy long naps and relative good health... Although the arthritis had limited her mobility and she was going blind.... Suddenly she was unable to stand and in almost constant pain...

Yesterday my daughter started preschool... And it was joyful to hear her tell her sister about the teachers and students...

This morning she stroked her head and told her she loved her... Then we took her to school... Afterwards my friend (a vet) came by.... I held her in my arms... And cried as the life left her.... It was gentle... And I'm glad she spent her last moments at home...

Her ashes are in my study now.... And my daughter has had her first real experience with loss...And my wife has cried a few dozens times....And I'm on my third beer...

As much as it hurts, I can't imagine how the last 15 years would have been without her in my life... Sometimes the greatest blessings can rip a person apart... And pain can be so bitter sweet...

(The pictures are from an album I had made when she was just three years old)
Almost sixteen years ago, when I had just gotten s... (show quote)


My deepest condolences for your incalculable loss.

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Sep 4, 2020 12:43:39   #
Tiptop789 Loc: State of Denial
 
SGM B wrote:
I guess that's part of our problem, too selfish. 😟 We enjoy traveling and the hotels we stay in are seldom pet friendly, and if they do allow pets they charge from $50 up to as much as $300 per night, non-refundable. If you have a "service dog", they are welcome and I have seen more than a few who claim their dogs are service dogs, but I'm not convinced - looks like theft to me. I personally see no way a very small Yorkie could be a service dog, but maybe I'm wrong, wouldn't be the first time. LOL!!
I guess that's part of our problem, too selfish. ?... (show quote)


I don't think your selfish, pets tie you down. Like the 2yr old thst never grows up. We laugh at some of those service dogs too. Makes you wonder.

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Sep 4, 2020 14:39:56   #
Marty 2020 Loc: Banana Republic of Kalifornia
 
Canuckus Deploracus wrote:
Almost sixteen years ago, when I had just gotten serious with my girlfriend-now-wife, I was introduced to a little bundle of barky fluff... I named her Huang Doudou (Yellow Tofu bean)...

My girlfriend had just returned from visiting her aunt and told me she had special surprise for me... My toxic masculinity immediately jumped to lingerie and sandwiches (not necessarily in that order).. But instead I was handed a tiny puppy...

She demonstrated her love by immediately attempting to rip through my thumb... And I was hooked... Carried her around in a pocket until she was big enough to keep up... And endured some rather interesting fights with my paramour until it was properly established that dogs can sleep on beds

She was one if my rocks during the early days when I was struggling with language, culture shock, and alcoholism.... The number of great memories a dog can impart is quite beyond count....

My favorite is when I would lay on the floor and blow at her... She would jump on me and try to smother me... My wife remembers the time she chased a German Shepherd around the park after it scared her (my wife, not the dog)...

She's a Japanese Chin (although the species originates in China....Quite an interesting story there) and their lifespans are usually around 12 years.... Back when we finally decided to have a child one of our greatest regrets was the thought that our daughter might not get to meet her.... At 12 years old she was already experiencing health issues...

Luckily she overcame then and came to spend three wonderful years with my daughter... Indeed, my daughter refers to her as her older sister... And often insists that they eat together

This past week the weather turned... During the warm summer months she was able to enjoy long naps and relative good health... Although the arthritis had limited her mobility and she was going blind.... Suddenly she was unable to stand and in almost constant pain...

Yesterday my daughter started preschool... And it was joyful to hear her tell her sister about the teachers and students...

This morning she stroked her head and told her she loved her... Then we took her to school... Afterwards my friend (a vet) came by.... I held her in my arms... And cried as the life left her.... It was gentle... And I'm glad she spent her last moments at home...

Her ashes are in my study now.... And my daughter has had her first real experience with loss...And my wife has cried a few dozens times....And I'm on my third beer...

As much as it hurts, I can't imagine how the last 15 years would have been without her in my life... Sometimes the greatest blessings can rip a person apart... And pain can be so bitter sweet...

(The pictures are from an album I had made when she was just three years old)
Almost sixteen years ago, when I had just gotten s... (show quote)

Looks like she liked her butterfly jacket.
So sorry that you lost her.
We’ve lost 5 labs over the last 30 years, still working on #s 6 & 7.
Pets are worth it, then they die and you question getting another for a while.

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Sep 4, 2020 15:09:37   #
SGM B Loc: TEXAS but live in Alabama now
 
Tiptop789 wrote:
I don't think your selfish, pets tie you down. Like the 2yr old thst never grows up. We laugh at some of those service dogs too. Makes you wonder.


And I refuse to put my friend in the "slammer" (kennel) for even one night. When my wife and I are no longer able to get in the truck and drive off, then it will be time to get another dog pound dog. WAIT!!! What if we got an RV?!?! Then we could take our new 4 legged friend along! Something to consider. πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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Sep 4, 2020 16:02:24   #
Tug484
 
SGM B wrote:
And I refuse to put my friend in the "slammer" (kennel) for even one night. When my wife and I are no longer able to get in the truck and drive off, then it will be time to get another dog pound dog. WAIT!!! What if we got an RV?!?! Then we could take our new 4 legged friend along! Something to consider. πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘


I took my Doberman, three poodles, and a parakeet in our RV.
They loved it.
They were hilarious.
They knew we were leaving and as soon as the door opened they'd run out and overshoot the RV, turn around and climb the steps to get in.

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Sep 4, 2020 20:27:12   #
SGM B Loc: TEXAS but live in Alabama now
 
Tug484 wrote:
I took my Doberman, three poodles, and a parakeet in our RV.
They loved it.
They were hilarious.
They knew we were leaving and as soon as the door opened they'd run out and overshoot the RV, turn around and climb the steps to get in.


That sounds exactly like Suzy - but there was just one of her. Our kids were involved in BMX so we were racing somewhere along the front range from Casper to Colorado Springs each weekend most of the summer. When Suzy saw us loading the bicycles in the van, she would jump in and hide until we were several blocks from home, then come out all happy she was getting to go. She was just too funny, we never left her at home. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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Sep 5, 2020 08:30:44   #
TexaCan Loc: Homeward Bound!
 
Canuckus Deploracus wrote:
Almost sixteen years ago, when I had just gotten serious with my girlfriend-now-wife, I was introduced to a little bundle of barky fluff... I named her Huang Doudou (Yellow Tofu bean)...

My girlfriend had just returned from visiting her aunt and told me she had special surprise for me... My toxic masculinity immediately jumped to lingerie and sandwiches (not necessarily in that order).. But instead I was handed a tiny puppy...

She demonstrated her love by immediately attempting to rip through my thumb... And I was hooked... Carried her around in a pocket until she was big enough to keep up... And endured some rather interesting fights with my paramour until it was properly established that dogs can sleep on beds

She was one if my rocks during the early days when I was struggling with language, culture shock, and alcoholism.... The number of great memories a dog can impart is quite beyond count....

My favorite is when I would lay on the floor and blow at her... She would jump on me and try to smother me... My wife remembers the time she chased a German Shepherd around the park after it scared her (my wife, not the dog)...

She's a Japanese Chin (although the species originates in China....Quite an interesting story there) and their lifespans are usually around 12 years.... Back when we finally decided to have a child one of our greatest regrets was the thought that our daughter might not get to meet her.... At 12 years old she was already experiencing health issues...

Luckily she overcame then and came to spend three wonderful years with my daughter... Indeed, my daughter refers to her as her older sister... And often insists that they eat together

This past week the weather turned... During the warm summer months she was able to enjoy long naps and relative good health... Although the arthritis had limited her mobility and she was going blind.... Suddenly she was unable to stand and in almost constant pain...

Yesterday my daughter started preschool... And it was joyful to hear her tell her sister about the teachers and students...

This morning she stroked her head and told her she loved her... Then we took her to school... Afterwards my friend (a vet) came by.... I held her in my arms... And cried as the life left her.... It was gentle... And I'm glad she spent her last moments at home...

Her ashes are in my study now.... And my daughter has had her first real experience with loss...And my wife has cried a few dozens times....And I'm on my third beer...

As much as it hurts, I can't imagine how the last 15 years would have been without her in my life... Sometimes the greatest blessings can rip a person apart... And pain can be so bitter sweet...

(The pictures are from an album I had made when she was just three years old)
Almost sixteen years ago, when I had just gotten s... (show quote)


I’m so sorry your family had to go through this! About 3 weeks ago we had to put our Charlie down ourselves. It was one of the hardest things we’ve ever had to do, but his backend collapsed about 6pm after the vet had closed. If we had of been home in Texas with the Charlie’s vet, we would have just called him at home, but we weren’t! I had walked out into our screened in porch that was our favorite place, Charlie drug himself out to me, whining in pain as his hips collapsed. After it was all over, we were glad that it was our hands that eased his pain. He never had to feel fear of a strangers hand, it was my hands that he felt for the last time. I still see him everywhere and sometimes I think I hear him! It will take time for your family and mine to get used to the void in our life. I hope you open your heart and home to another BFF. Your family is young with so much time and love to give another pet. For Jack and I we have decided that our Charlie will be our last dog due to our age and health issues. God gave me the very best for the last!

Time will heal all our hearts, and we will forever have those 15 years worth of love and memories!

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