archie bunker wrote:
Sounds to me like, you have a bigger problem with people than animals. Everyone doesn't see it the same way.
Trust me, I know. I'm a mailman.
Everyone says their dog won't bite while it's coming at you with teeth bared, and fur sticking up. They're defending their territory.
>>>We won't train our dogs to meet your demands since we live in the country, and they are part of our family, not our s***es. We do require certain behaviors out of them, but not to the degree that you seem to require.
It's pretty simple around here. We have dogs, and make them behave. If you don't like them, don't come over.
My mother in law was absolutely AGAINST us having a dog of the pit bull variety around the grandkids....until she came over, and met him, and saw how he interacts with the little kids.
You live in a huge city, I don't so it's different. I'll love on a dog as long as it isn't in protective mode, and doing its job.
I'm not a dog snob.....
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I don't have a problem with people. And I don't have a problem with dogs. I maintain that dogs do what they are trained to do. If you welcome your dog by welcoming him to jump up on you and lick your face, he is going to think that is what he should do to get affection back.
And then you say he is just defending his territory. I'm saying my territory is my personal self and I don't want dogs jumping on me and licking my face. They are ground animals by nature and I believe they should stay there.
I wrote about a pit bull attacking me. I believe it was defending its family, especialy the kids in the yard. I wasn't invading the yard. I was walking on by when it leaped at me through the fence and grabbed my left arm. I had to rip my arm out of its mouth and watched that one canine tooth d**g itself through my flesh like a plow going through a field. So, I think I have a right to worry about dogs biting me. The dog was a nice dog according to the cop from animal control. Friendly as hell. But I was the fourth victim and one was a little 13 year old girl. When do you say enough? The dog was doing what it was trained to do. Bite if it feels that those kids are in danger, even if they weren't. And the adults in the area did nothing. That dog was essentially trained to attack, even if that wasn't the real intent of the owners. They did it by neglect for the dogs past actions. The other two times I was attacked were minor nips, but I was just walking by on a public sidewalk and the owner wasn't paying attention. Those two dogs suddenly lunged at me and bit. So, excuse me, but I feel I have a right to walk down public sidewalks in Chicago without being attacked. And you mention personal space. I believe my body is my personal space and I have a right to object when others or their surrogates, their dogs, invade it.
We won't train our dogs to meet your demands since we live in the country, and they are part of our family, not our s***es. We do require certain behaviors out of them, but not to the degree that you seem to require.
>>> I did specify that my issues were with urban dogs and not rural. Different situation.
It's pretty simple around here. We have dogs, and make them behave. If you don't like them, don't come over.
>>>I made my dogs behave also. I agree with you. But if you invited me over, would I be subject to sitting in their dirty dog bed, eating out of their plate or drinking out of their bowl? Would I be subject to them climbing all over me and licking my face? No one ever had that worry at my house.
My mother in law was absolutely AGAINST us having a dog of the pit bull variety around the grandkids....until she came over, and met him, and saw how he interacts with the little kids.
>>>I have no problem with pit bulls. They have proven to be some of the most loyal dogs and very kid friendly. But in my instance, I was viciously ataacked for doing nothing wrong by one that was getting out of control.
>>>I have nothing against anyone one loving on their dog. That is their business. And a dog can be one of the best protective things you can have for family and property. You are rural. If you took your dog to another area for a days walk in the woods, would you want your dog to attack others for also walking around there. Or even jumping all over them. That is what it is like in the city. And they are everywhere.
I'm not a dog snob....
>>>I'm a dog lover and believe that they are different and should be kept as dogs, and well trained to be around others without assaulting them in any manner. Even just jumping on them.
If we were to meet, we probably would get along fine. If your dogs are well behaved as you say, what would be the problem. Your dogs get along well on your property probably running free within a fence or wh**ever. I wanted my dogs to be as free as possible within the city and not spend their lives pulling on a chain around their neck. So I taught them well and they lived free, within the limits I set for them. No fences but an understanding to never cross the street unless they were at my heal. Probably a better life then about any city dog could expect.
Peace and stay healthy