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Nov 17, 2019 22:03:29   #
Tug484
 
bggamers wrote:
I have always been a loner so it doesn't bother and I can get on this site and talk to all of you. Most of my socializing are done at work and going bowling and out to lunch with friends


That's awesome.
The difference in my age and my siblings was so much that it was like being an only child.
I guess that's why it doesn't bother me.
I liked one or two close friends in school.
I didn't need a crowd.
Crowds have always been too much for me.

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Nov 17, 2019 22:10:43   #
bggamers Loc: georgia
 
Tug484 wrote:
That's awesome.
The difference in my age and my siblings was so much that it was like being an only child.
I guess that's why it doesn't bother me.
I liked one or two close friends in school.
I didn't need a crowd.
Crowds have always been too much for me.


Me as well I was raised by myself all the other were up and grown and gone

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Nov 17, 2019 22:16:45   #
Tug484
 
bggamers wrote:
Me as well I was raised by myself all the other were up and grown and gone


My brother was eight years older than me when we were the only two left.
He let me tag along a few times until we went to a drive in to get a Coke.
One of his friends pulled up and asked who's she?
She's my little sister and you stay away from her.
Not much tagging along after that.

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Nov 18, 2019 02:01:58   #
Kickaha Loc: Nebraska
 
slatten49 wrote:
Taken from The National Association of Agencies on Aging...

As we age, circumstances in our lives often change. We retire from a job, friends move away or health issues convince us eliminate or restrict driving. When changes like these occur, we may not fully realize how they will affect our ability to stay connected and engaged and how much they can impact our overall health and well-being.

We need social connection to thrive...no matter our age...but recent research shows that the negative health consequences of chronic isolation and loneliness my be especially harmful for older adults.

The good news is that with greater awareness, we can take steps to maintain and strengthen our ties to family and friends, expand our social circles and become more involved in the community around us.

Sometimes it takes effort to stay connected. You may have noticed that your social engagements have decreased or that you have gone days or weeks without speaking to or interacting with others.

It never hurts to take stock of our network of activities and friends and to evaluate what you can do to make more connections.

Here are some actions you may want to consider taking to help you stay ahead of the 'connection curve:'

*Nurture and strengthen existing relationships; invite people over for coffee or call them to suggest a trip to a museum or to see a movie.
* Schedule a time each day to call a friend or visit someone.
* Meet your neighbors...young and old.
* Don't let being a non-driver stop you from staying active. Find out about your t***sportation options.
* Use social media like Facebook to stay in touch with long-distance friends or write an old-fashioned letter.
* Stay physically active and include group exercise in the mix, like joining a walking club.
* Take a class to learn something new and, at the same time, expand your circle of friends.
* Revisit an old hobby you've set aside and connect with others who share your interests.
* Volunteer to deepen your sense of purpose and help others.
* Visit your local community well-ness or senior center and become involved in a wide range of interesting programs.
* Check our faith-based organizations for spiritual engagement, as well as to participate in activities and events.
* Get involved in your community by taking on a cause, such as making your community more age-friendly.
Taken from The National Association of Agencies on... (show quote)


I actually look forward to not dealing with most people. I look forward to the time I can get out on my own hunting. Whether I shoot, or even just see something, the peace and quiet are great. I've dealt with people for over 60 years and look forward to not doing that any more. Maybe in a few years I might start to reconnect with others, but right now I want a break.

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Nov 18, 2019 02:18:31   #
Tug484
 
Kickaha wrote:
I actually look forward to not dealing with most people. I look forward to the time I can get out on my own hunting. Whether I shoot, or even just see something, the peace and quiet are great. I've dealt with people for over 60 years and look forward to not doing that any more. Maybe in a few years I might start to reconnect with others, but right now I want a break.



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Nov 18, 2019 14:16:39   #
Radiance3
 
Mike Easterday wrote:
So do I. Unfortunately I have have had to help prevent a few suicides . It wasn't pleasant.

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Good job, are you a doctor of psychiatry? I believe most doctors could not completely heal the most desperate and hopeless people. How they do it is constant medication you are required to use for the rest of your life or until the symptom is gone. The adverse affects there is the person gets addicted to the medication. And the then side effects of those medications are even worse than the first symptom the patient experienced. Some of them resort to suicide.

I believe as I have seen many were healed thru the power of prayer or faith in Christ. Pray and ask for God's healing and with sincere desires to stop the substance abuse put into their system. Focus on the healing power of God. I have seen those healed for the rest of their lives. And a turn around that made them appreciate the value of being alive as God guides them through. Faith in God is powerful. Good luck to your patients.

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+8&version=NCV

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