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Nov 16, 2019 09:59:00   #
bahmer
 
TexaCan wrote:
Men have never had equal responsibility, except for those who choose that responsibility............and many many do not! The difference is 30 seconds of sexual pleasure for the stud-and then the disappearing act! For the “s**t” it’s 9 months of continual changes in their body and the safe keeping of the blessing of giving life to their BABY! There is no greater blessing for a child to have the love and guidance of a Mother and Father......that includes those who choose to adopt children that are born by those that are unable to care for their baby.

Many young women and men make mistakes, a******n is never the solution! Many women spend the rest of their life living with the grief of that decision to abort their baby. I had a friend many years ago that celebrated the due date birthday of her baby. It was so sad to see her pain! She made a mistake when she was very young and it devastated her! She never married......her life was her career! A******n is not HEALTHCARE!
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Amen and Amen

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Nov 16, 2019 12:24:40   #
Saspatz007 Loc: The goat sheds
 
crazylibertarian wrote:
There is a crucial aspect to adoption. If the woman decides t give up the baby for adoption, they take it from her immediately after birth and she is prevented from actually seeing the infant to prevent her from changing her mind.

That should tell you something. It should also tell the pro-a******ners on OPP the same thing but, they will never accept it.

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The child is only separated at birth if that’s what the mother wants. Although this was the practice, today there are many alternatives, up to and including, visitation. The mother and the adoptive parents can negotiate what ever arrangements they want . These days the mother even has the option of choosing the adoptive family.

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Nov 16, 2019 13:19:17   #
crazylibertarian Loc: Florida by way of New York & Rhode Island
 
Saspatz007 wrote:
The child is only separated at birth if that’s what the mother wants. Although this was the practice, today there are many alternatives, up to and including, visitation. The mother and the adoptive parents can negotiate what ever arrangements they want . These days the mother even has the option of choosing the adoptive family.



That has to be a fairly recent change.

Once more though, this shows the crucial roles the mother plays; the father is not involved.

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Nov 16, 2019 15:05:50   #
Singularity
 
crazylibertarian wrote:
That has to be a fairly recent change.

Once more though, this shows the crucial roles the mother plays; the father is not involved.


The father and mother both must abdicate their respective parental rights, separately or together. Certain good faith efforts to notify and include him in the cases of such adoptions must be undergone and documented before a court will move to terminate his rights in his absence due to abandonment.

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Nov 16, 2019 16:33:38   #
straightUp Loc: California
 
Singularity wrote:
I thought it was clear that I was responding to the "could there ever be a case where you would see the other side" scenario. The next challenge by my partner in that bit of the discourse was to apply the specific outlier to the general case.

It is a challenge. The grey area is too wide for me to see all the way across...

To know my position more fully, I will tell you I have dedicated years of my time and home to emancipated minor pregnant women. They live with me and help out with errands until the baby is born and they get on their feet.

I'm living alone right now, but my second "Pregnant Girl" whose first baby is 9 years old, just delivered her and her husband's third subsequent child!

Small victories. Baby steps.
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That's awesome! You have my complete admiration for the effort you put into improving the situation for young pregnant mothers. The only reason why this doesn't change my position is because I know there are far more unwanted pregnancies than there are people like you with the facilities and the will to solve so many of the problems caused by unwanted pregnancy. It's just an unfortunate reality.

I encourage advocates on both sides of the issue to shift some of their resources from the political slap fight to improving public awareness of alternatives like yours. It may not be enough to prevent all the a******ns (legal or not) but it can at least help prevent some. As far as I am concerned, it would be worth the effort the moment a single life is spared.

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Nov 16, 2019 16:39:16   #
straightUp Loc: California
 
Saspatz007 wrote:
This was actually very rare. When a******n was not available, women would almost always carry the child to term. In most cases, if the child was really unwanted, it would be put up for adoption.

Don't be an i***t. You can't know what you don't see. There is enough evidence out there to know illegal a******ns did happen and since illegal activity is almost always hidden, no one can say "oh, ya know they were actually very rare." That's what you call, talking out of your ass.

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Nov 16, 2019 16:41:57   #
debeda
 
straightUp wrote:
That's awesome! You have my complete admiration for the effort you put into improving the situation for young pregnant mothers. The only reason why this doesn't change my position is because I know there are far more unwanted pregnancies than there are people like you with the facilities and the will to solve so many of the problems caused by unwanted pregnancy. It's just an unfortunate reality.

I encourage advocates on both sides of the issue to shift some of their resources from the political slap fight to improving public awareness of alternatives like yours. It may not be enough to prevent all the a******ns (legal or not) but it can at least help prevent some. As far as I am concerned, it would be worth the effort the moment a single life is spared.
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Absolutely

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Nov 16, 2019 20:42:46   #
crazylibertarian Loc: Florida by way of New York & Rhode Island
 
Singularity wrote:
The father and mother both must abdicate their respective parental rights, separately or together. Certain good faith efforts to notify and include him in the cases of such adoptions must be undergone and documented before a court will move to terminate his rights in his absence due to abandonment.



Good addendum. If the father is involved that is a refreshing change. One thing though, I believe the father is never required to approve in the decision for an a******n.

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Nov 17, 2019 00:01:35   #
Saspatz007 Loc: The goat sheds
 
straightUp wrote:
That's awesome! You have my complete admiration for the effort you put into improving the situation for young pregnant mothers. The only reason why this doesn't change my position is because I know there are far more unwanted pregnancies than there are people like you with the facilities and the will to solve so many of the problems caused by unwanted pregnancy. It's just an unfortunate reality.

I encourage advocates on both sides of the issue to shift some of their resources from the political slap fight to improving public awareness of alternatives like yours. It may not be enough to prevent all the a******ns (legal or not) but it can at least help prevent some. As far as I am concerned, it would be worth the effort the moment a single life is spared.
That's awesome! You have my complete admiration fo... (show quote)

There are thousands of outfits that provide these services . All she has to do is go to a Catholic Church, crisis pregnancy center or social services and she will be referred.
Next

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Nov 17, 2019 00:08:32   #
Saspatz007 Loc: The goat sheds
 
straightUp wrote:
Don't be an i***t. You can't know what you don't see. There is enough evidence out there to know illegal a******ns did happen and since illegal activity is almost always hidden, no one can say "oh, ya know they were actually very rare." That's what you call, talking out of your ass.

You can’t know the real numbers either but I am going the medical estimates assessed at the time based on the number of admissions for complications related to these procedures and autopsy results indicating a botched a******n.

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Nov 17, 2019 00:11:40   #
Saspatz007 Loc: The goat sheds
 
crazylibertarian wrote:
Good addendum. If the father is involved that is a refreshing change. One thing though, I believe the father is never required to approve in the decision for an a******n.


Yes he must sign away his parental rights unless he avoids it altogether in which case he loses those rights on the basis of abandonment.

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