Well, to start off, there IS hope for you. At least you accept the possibility that there is a God. I was sure I had you pegged an atheist. Glad to be wrong. {Don't hold too much hope. At 65 I am what I am. Not going to change. As a child I was told that I was Catholic, as though it was genetic. It never sunk in, I never felt it. I was sent to Sunday school and would ask questions like" how do you know....."I would drive the nuns crazy. I can still picture the apoplectic shock. LOL}
Second, religion is all about faith. I couldn't make the claims I do if I didn't have faith. Of course it is possible that I could be wrong. However, I have faith that I'm not wrong. Neither of us can conclusively prove this one way or another until the final accounting. { That's true}
"I live by what is obvious to me," That's the first problem. It is based on perception. As everyone knows, perception is flawed. "the here and now ," Here and now is constant change. Not much to grasp onto here. "the real world ," What is the real world? Science struggles to define it. So far they have failed to do so because so much of it is based on assumptions. Those assumptions are based on observations (perception again). "not an ancient text of questionable origin." Herein lies the essence of your dilemma...faith. It takes faith to believe in the Bible, faith that it's divinely inspired, faith that God is who He says He is, faith that God made Himself a man so that He could bear the weight of the sins of the world, to die in place of us for our rightful judgement, that He then was resurrected as a sign (first fruit) that the Judgement had been paid and His sacrifice deemed worthy, faith that belief in his sacrifice for us, and our need for Him is the only path to restoring our relationship with God. Without that faith, you will never understand those of us who have such faith.
{Yes perceptions are faulty but begin with something tangible. Faith is entirely made up to fill a need, a void, to explain the inexplicable.}
If my faith can be construed as arrogance, then so be it. However, you are wrong about one thing. I never compel anyone to believe or do anything. In fact, I cannot. No one can. For you to come to know Yeshua (Jesus), it must be a sincere choice. How can you be sincere if you are coerced? You cannot. { Perhaps you do not push your faith....but if you, or anyone tells others that they must live according to your beliefs- that gay marriage is wrong and should not be allowed- because YOU believe it's wrong- is just as bad.}
As for your final question, again you misunderstand (at the very least) the dynamics of the situation. First a little history lesson.
Our forefathers (at least initially) came to this country for religious freedom. That was certainly the case for the passengers of the Mayflower. Obviously, over time, others came with different ideas. All were seeking the same thing, freedom and opportunity. However, as demographics were for the day, the majority of people were predominantly Christian. Whether they were merely acculturated Christians or true believers is a matter of academic question. When our forefathers established this country with its present Constitution, they did so acknowledging God from the beginning. They established this as a Christian nation. { Listen to yourself
.because they acknowledged God this is was established as a Christian nation?? That is rather insensitive to other religions based on a belief in this God. In any case I fully reject that notion. If it was intended to be a Christian nation, why is Christianity not mentioned in the Constitution? Why is there no religious test for high office. Why doesnt the first amendment give Christianity some special status.?}
However, having the example of the oppression of the Roman Catholic Church, they wisely made it so that no church could prevail over another through the government by forbidding the establishment of a national religion. Nevertheless, this was established as a Christian nation. The first prayers of Congress and the President were to consecrate this nation to the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. This is a matter of historical record.
That said, back to your question. It depends on what you mean by "subjected to your religious beliefs". If by subjected you mean me or any other Christian sharing our beliefs with you...? { NO thats not what I mean
.advocating for how you think others should live and behave and what rights they have or dont have based on your beliefs}
My answer to that is very simple. I have a first amendment right to practice my religion, and a first amendment right to say (or print) what I will, especially if controversial. {No one is saying otherwise}
This is also keeping in line one of the commandments Yeshua gave His disciples: "Go forth and make disciples of men (and women), and to spread the Good new of salvation through Him. Once again, this is a gift freely given. It cannot be bought, sold, traded or taken by force. One only has to ask for it." One cannot do that if one doesn't have the freedom to do so. Many Christians have died fulfilling this task.If you meant using the law to force people to live by Christian standards...? { Isnt that whats being done?}
Then I have to agree with you there. No law should be of a purely religious nature. You cannot force people to change. They have to want to do so willingly.
It is this fact that has me at odds with you liberals. No matter how nobly intended you seek to force people to do what you want "for the greater good". {. In some case that is true. Thats how most societies function, unless were talking about an oligarchy or dictatorship. Gun control and health care are two current examples. You cant please all of the people
.. But we wont go there. Its off topic. However, gay rights is different. You may disagree , but its about civil rights. The rule of law applies. Equal protection under the law
..no matter how many people dont like it.
And, Its not us who are trying to force anybody to live at odds with their beliefs. You got that exactly backwards. You want to deny gay people the right to marry because you disapprove
No that is the height of arrogance. You cant turn that around on us try as you will. There is no rational reasonable argument against e******y. It will not change your life and it will not be detrimental to society. If you that you have are your religious objections, you have nothing }
But whose greater good? Taking tax money intended for the purpose of running the government and giving it to entitlement programs is misappropriation at best; theft at worst. You are forcibly telling everyone they have to pay so that others can have. The same is true of the EPA and other such regulatory bodies. You attempt to use law to force people to change their behavior. Nothing good ever comes through the use of force. { This is another topic}
The same is true of Obama Care, and gun regulation. In fact, gun regulation is exactly why the second amendment was written in the first place. It was to prevent the government from taking power from the people. Sadly, it would appear that the people will voluntarily disarm themselves for the promise of food and a false sense of security. { This is another topic}
Now, back to your holy grail, Gay Marriage. My personal objections ARE religious. Not because I don't want gay people to be happy. Not that I oppose them having civil unions. I oppose it because what they want is a redefining of millennia old terms ans traditions. The ramifications of such redefining is that Pastors, Priests, and Ministers would be FORCED to host or perform marriages to gay couples even though it goes against our religious beliefs. That is a violation of their first amendment rights! That I cannot abide! { That is pure bull
..there are always religious exemptions. Its just a standard right wing talking point. I dont think that you actually believe that. If you do, research states where its legal}
Settle for civil unions with the same legal protections in the law, and leave marriage alone. { Civil unions dont work like marriage. We have civil unions in NJ and there are lots of problems. Aside from legal issues , the stats of marriage is being denied and thats discrimination
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/06/29/AR2007062902201.html}You complain about the religious coercing the secular. Can't you see your hypocrisy when you, the secular, coerce the religious? You can't cry foul when you do the same thing you accuse us of doing. { No my friend I do not see any hierocracy on my part. To say that you are being coerced is to say that you are being forced to do something against your will
..just what is that now?}
br br Well, to start off, there IS hope for you.... (