lindajoy wrote:
Don’t put words in my post not there!! I don’t take it that I am more deserving other than to point out I worked hard and achieved based on my self motivation and I am proud of my achievements.. If that makes me better off than others, ohhhhh wellllllll..I earned it!!
And what BS are you claiming with fate being born into a better situation?? Am I to feel guilty because I was born by two beautiful people who raised me and my siblings in an envirnoment of strong love, instilling in us self worth, ambition etc???
I’ll tell you right now I don’t feel the least bit guilty of my home and family!! If anything I wish many had the teachings of my parents even you!! Do not cast negative anything on how I was raised or being better because I was born into a better anything!! We were taught love and the balance of life and to respect all.. Color meant nothing so please do not insult my parents you kinda piss me off with that assinine comment!!!
Ps~~ please answer my question.. Why haven’t b****s excelled??
Don’t put words in my post not there!! I don’t tak... (
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There has been much unfairness in life for all common people..
My earier relitives have had verying levels of success in life.
I have much to be thankful for.
But the least of what we can do is to admit to having had the advantages we have had.
These advantages were at birth & continue today.
It has been not with out our personal involvement in our well being.
There is not a lot any of us can really do to fix it alone.
What true harm will come to any of us personaly in speaking out on the unfairness that has & is taking place?
How can we blame others for not carring a prper share of the load we all bear.
When there have been so many obsticals for them to over come from the effect of s***ery & the after effects of s***ery.
People have to survive with & under the problems they face,.
Some have & still face those problems.
Well it may not have been you or I that caused the problems but today they are our problems.
It is us that have to face the problem & find ways to undue the short comings of those who were a part of the problem.
The first thing we need to do is admit we have this problem.
Then try to come up with a way to fix it that we all can live with.
We have tried to use the crimnal laws to control it.
We ave lock up vast numbers of people of color.
They have found ways to servive that we as white people find threatning.
As long as we wish to not let them be a true part of our system.
Much of that will not change.
As white people we are finding our selfs as becoming disposable much in the way we have looked at others.
If we wish to retain most of what we have as important individuals.
We need to see others being seen as important individuals.
Failing to do that will only take much of our idividualality away from or self.
Why I keep doing this with so many that have closed their hearts & minds to the issues at hand I don't really know.
So many good people & things in the world.
But we still face those that would destroy so much of what is good to have more for them self.
We all leave little bits a pieces of what & who we are here on this site.
We are not fair to our self & others if we can not see the real good we all have in us.
Life goes on.
Life will go on with out us.
But it would be a true shame for it not to have seen the goodness that lays in the hearts & souls of so many of us.
We need to leave the good that each of us has to those that will have to clean up the messes so many of us are leaving for them to clean up.