You have been in our prayers from your first post. I don't know what you have done, nor is it any of my business nor do I know what you have done to make amends. Have you spoken to him since he left? What has your daughter done in response to her father leaving? If your husband is a member of OPP then perhaps you know how to get in tough with him. Depending on him, perhaps a prayer before witnesses might enable him to make an effort to forgive you and seek help, through God, to reconnect. In the mean time, you sound way to much in pain, please seek help and pray for God to give you strength. PM me if you want to., you know that I am always willing to listen.

The tragedy facing children today is unspeakable. They have become as though invisible, they can't vote so laws are spotty, but the heartbreak they must feel - what did I do, how can I make mommy love me - such heart rending questions. And all you can do is try to comfort them, and try to make plausible excuses for the lacking parent. My heart goes out to both of you, and I will keep you in my prayers.

I have read that God send special angels to watch over children, and I believe that. May your child be blessed with an angel of super proportions.

Going the e-mail rounds. :lol: :lol:


The Mistress

A husband and wife were having dinner at a very fine restaurant when this absolutely stunning young woman comes over to their table,

gives the husband a big open mouthed kiss, then says she'll see him later and walks away.


The wife glares at her husband and says, "Who the hell was that?"



"Oh," replies the husband, "she's my mistress."



"Well, that's the last straw," says the wife. "I've had enough, I demand a divorce!"


"I can understand that," replies her husband, "but remember,

if we get a divorce it will mean no more shopping trips to Paris,

no more wintering in Hawaii, no more summers in Tuscany,

no more BMW in the garage and no more yacht club. But the decision is yours."


Just then a mutual friend enters the restaurant with a gorgeous babe on his arm.


"Who's that woman with Charles ?" asks the wife.


"That's his mistress," says her husband.


"Ours is prettier," she replies.

To my Italian Friends & others who are my friends anyway!

Italian Women are Tough!

An elderly Italian man lay dying in his bed. While suffering the agonies of impending death, he suddenly smelled the aroma of his favorite ravioli wafting up the stairs. He gathered his remaining strength, and lifted himself from the bed. Gripping the railing with both hands, he crawled downstairs. When he reached the bottom of the stairs, he leaned against the door frame, gazing into the kitchen, where if not for death's agony, he would have thought himself already in heaven, for there, spread out on a bed sheet on the kitchen table were hundreds of his favorite ravioli.

Was it heaven? Or was it one final act of love from his wife of sixty years, seeing to it that he left this world a happy man?

He threw himself towards the table, landing on his knees in a crumpled posture. His parched lips parted, the wondrous taste of the ravioli was already in his mouth. With a trembling hand he reached up to the edge of the table, when suddenly he was smacked with a wooden spoon by his wife.

"No touch ! " she said.

"Those are for the funeral."


A suicide bomber died and went to Paradise, as foretold.

When he arrived there he said to Allah that he was ready to claim his 72 virgins, as promised. Out of curiosity he asked Allah why there were so many virgins in heaven.

Allah regarded him for a moment, then replied, "Actually, the 72 virgins are here in heaven because people like you murdered them before they could experience the pleasure of sex. So you're here to service them. Since they're virgins, they're quite sexually ravenous and, frankly, you'll be on constant, exhausting duty. I shall banish you from Paradise should you fail!”

The bomber responded, "Well, I guess I can live with that. How hard can it be to keep 72 women satisfied for all eternity?” Allah replied, "Who told you they were women?"


Finally, A Blonde Joke for Sports Fans

A blonde gets a job as a physical education teacher of 16 year olds.
She notices a boy at the end of the field standing alone, while all the other kids are running around having fun kicking a ball.
She takes pity on him and decides to speak to him.
'You ok?' she says.
'Yes.' he says.
'You can go and play with the other kids you know' she says.
'It's best I stay here.' he says.
'Why's that sweetie?' says the blonde.
The boy looks at her incredulously and says, "Because I'm the Goalie !

Tripoli – Islamic State group jihadists have beheaded 12 people and hung them on crosses during a battle for the coastal city of Sirte, the national news agency LANA reported on Saturday.

The fighting for control of Sirte, hometown of slain dictator Muammar Gaddafi, has been raging since Tuesday, with one top Libyan diplomat warning of a “massacre” in the city.

LANA said the 12 people beheaded were local gunmen who had been battling IS in the eastern Sirte district known as “neighbourhood three”. How much did Hilary contribute?

The agency also reported that IS militants executed 22 other Sirte residents who had taken up arms against the jihadist group as they lay wounded in a city hospital.

It said the jihadists also set the hospital on fire.
A Sirte city council official told AFP that clashes continued to rage on Saturday.

The human toll and unimaginable fallout from Obama, the wrecking ball, continues. Was this Obama’s plan for Libya when he ousted Gaddafi? Where was the statecraft? What was the objective? The jihadis have wreaked havoc on that nation. Gaddafi not only contained the jihad threat in Libya, but in the region as well.

Obama’s “JV” team is taking over Libya.

I can think of a number of reasons. the person walking out is mentally ill, and has lost all coping skills and sense of what is important. the person is addicted to drugs and/ or alcohol and is really leaving to be with other junkies. The person has decided that his or her attraction to the same sex must be acted on no matter how much it damages those who love that person. The person is severly depressed and can't face his family. The person is a selfish SOB who wants to play and never take responsibility for those he promised to love, honor and obey and caused to be brought into the world.
The one thing I can guarentee you is that it is not the fault of the chilren. They are still lovable and worthy of being loved. If you believe in chirst, seek a christian counselor, if you do not believe seek one anyway, they are less likely to come up with psychobabble and more likely to help you cope with the abandonment. God be with you and give you strength as you go through this struggle.

I saw a video some time back, where a baby elephant cried for three days because his mother rejected him. Just yesterday, I mentioned that to someone, and said imagine how a child feels.

How does a parent walk away, and never look back? There are never satisfying answers, only pain. Pain takes time to heal, and it does, it can make you stronger or it can break you. Many of us have gone through some painful experiences with the way our parents treated us, but then it comes back to each of us as to whether or not we will grow from that or let it tear us down. It's one of those moments where you pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and move forward.


The sad thing is im the parent of said child and it kills me to see her hurt. One day I hope other parent will stop and realize what theyve done. Ive tried to keep peace but you know.
Life has some really hard knocks for many of us. When they have come in my life, and they have, first I rely on my faith in God. Then I turn to something a friend once told me they read in a book. This knight was fighting in the crusades, and he was mortally wounded. He turned to his armor bearer and said, "Lie me down to die a while, then rise me up to fight again."

Only those who will rise up to fight again make it. I pray you will be one of them.