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Feb 28, 2014 09:49:26   #
madshark
 
rumitoid wrote:
Lol, taking part in the ceremony, as limited and distant as baking a cake is, is not committing an act of homosexuality.


Why don't you start a bakery and bake wedding cakes solely for heathens. All the homos, pedophiles, beastialists.and all sorts of other freaks and perverts can get their cakes from you. Just think how beautiful the cake will be with figures of a grown man and a small boy together on top. Or a figure of a woman and her horse. Or whatever other sick twisted couple you support.

After all, who are we to judge?

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Feb 28, 2014 09:51:37   #
rumitoid
 
madshark wrote:
You read Aramaic? If not, I believe every other version of the bible is an interpretation, subject to the prejudices of the ones who interpreted it.

I insult you personally because we have courteously allowed you left wing idiots to dominate the conversation for way too long. Your ideas are proven not to work. Are proven to cause human pain and suffering every where they are tried. And yet you assholes keep pushing it. "We are smarter. We can get it right this time." Is the mantra of the left.

Your ideas are not worth consideration. You are to be laughed at, ridiculed and pushed into the dust bin of history, just as are your stupid, leftist ideas. We no longer have time to be civil. Your kind is well on the way to destroying this Constitutional Republic. You must be beaten, crushed, destroyed, immediately.
You read Aramaic? If not, I believe every other ve... (show quote)


Stop beating around the bush, tell me how you really feel. Funny. How you get that I am a "left wing nut" by giving my opinion based on the Bible is interesting. Lefties are Bible-thumpers? But you seem to indicate that unless a Christian reads Aramaic, all Bible study is useless and just the collection of another person's prejudices. In that case, I can see why you object to what I have to say.

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Feb 28, 2014 09:57:25   #
buffalo Loc: Texas
 
As to the photographer in New Mexico that refused to shoot a gay wedding, was subsequently sued and lost, the high court in New Mexico sided with the gay couple. Now, if that had been a case of a black photographer being approached by the KKK that demanded he do a shoot of a cross burning and he refused. Wanna bet the courts would have sided with him? It is a blatant double-standard.

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Feb 28, 2014 10:07:30   #
rumitoid
 
buffalo wrote:
As to the photographer in New Mexico that refused to shoot a gay wedding, was subsequently sued and lost, the high court in New Mexico sided with the gay couple. Now, if that had been a case of a black photographer being approached by the KKK that demanded he do a shoot of a cross burning and he refused. Wanna bet the courts would have sided with him? It is a blatant double-standard.


I feel that all those suits by gay couples are patently absurd but there is also, unfortunately, a flaw in the reasoning behind not serving them, both legally and theologically.

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Feb 28, 2014 10:11:04   #
rumitoid
 
madshark wrote:
Why don't you start a bakery and bake wedding cakes solely for heathens. All the homos, pedophiles, beastialists.and all sorts of other freaks and perverts can get their cakes from you. Just think how beautiful the cake will be with figures of a grown man and a small boy together on top. Or a figure of a woman and her horse. Or whatever other sick twisted couple you support.

After all, who are we to judge?


If I started such a bakery, I would be in my legal rights to refuse Christians because my clientele was consistent and refusing the Christian thus not discriminatory, unlike what the bakery owner mistakenly tried to claim violated or was a burden on his religious beliefs.

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Feb 28, 2014 10:15:01   #
buffalo Loc: Texas
 
rumitoid wrote:
I feel that all those suits by gay couples are patently absurd but there is also, unfortunately, a flaw in the reasoning behind not serving them, both legally and theologically.


I think there could have been other ways that the businesses could have gotten around having to serve them or at least not getting sued (as the photog in NM). Just say you were too busy or already had another commitment. On the other hand, why would LGBT want to insist on doing business with one that does not share there views, IF not for political purposes?

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Feb 28, 2014 10:17:30   #
rumitoid
 
buffalo wrote:
I think there could have been other ways that the businesses could have gotten around having to serve them or at least not getting sued (as the photog in NM). Just say you were too busy or already had another commitment. On the other hand, why would LGBT want to insist on doing business with one that does not share there views, IF not for political purposes?


One could have baked an anchovy cake with leather icing and the photographer take pictures of the ground, shoes, sky, and other neutral items.

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Feb 28, 2014 10:23:52   #
buffalo Loc: Texas
 
LOL! As a small business owner (not bakery or photog) I have one gay person as a long time customer and he is one of my best customers. The subject is just never brought up./

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Feb 28, 2014 14:02:26   #
Searching Loc: Rural Southwest VA
 
sbowno1 wrote:
Well said! I would never deny a service of work to anyone because of discrimination of what makes them happy. No matter what God or conscience we choice in the regards for happiness. We only live once as I believe in and true Christianity is not to be judge for the raft of God will come back to to be judged on their doings. Open arms is what he gives us and we are all brothers and sisters according to the beginning of our time. God made woman from a.....man. Never take work home and never be compromised in your own beliefs. Lesson well learned I say from self experience. Black and white same as good and evil, no room for average when you can always be above!
Well said! I would never deny a service of work to... (show quote)


While I consider myself a Christian, I do not declare any ties to a "specific" religious faith. That said, the Bible does say that we are all created in His image. If we go with that premise as Truth, and since we are taught that God does not make "errors" in anything He does, then who are we to say that individuals in the gay and lesbian communities, IF we are truly Christians, are "beneath us" or should be discriminated against in any way.

AuntiE said somewhere today that behavior, regardless of whether it is heterosexual or homosexual should not be flaunted in others' faces. I do agree with that premise. However, to flagrantly discriminate against someone's values who are different from yours is not in keeping with God's teachings.

Let all those establishments who feel it a disservice to their religious beliefs to provide goods or services to the gay and lesbian communities take the step of making their establishments private. I am curious to see how many would forego profit over their stated religious beliefs. There are some communities near me, that unless you have a pin to wear in your lapel or on your shirt, which signifies that you are a Christian, that go so far as to boycott that business.

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Feb 28, 2014 18:42:11   #
SeniorVerdad
 
rumitoid wrote:
Below you will find the reiteration of certain points regarding the so-called "Anti-gay AZ law" from the three of the links I provided in another thread. I feel it would be good to review how other Christians perceive this question. A little time to look at each might help in understanding.

1. "It’s not that these rights don’t matter. Rather, they should be a SECONDARY ISSUE for Christians.
Before considering legal rights, Christians wrestling with this issue must first resolve the primary issue of whether the Bible calls Christians to deny services to people who are engaging in behavior they believe violates the teachings of Christianity regarding marriage. The answer is, it does not."


2. "Nor does the Bible teach that providing such a service should be construed as participation or affirmation. Yet Christian conservatives continue to claim that it does. So it seems that the backers of these bills don’t actually believe what they are saying. Because if they truly believe that a vendor service is an affirmation, then they need to explain why it is only gay and lesbian weddings that violate their conscience.
"Before agreeing to provide a good or service for a wedding, Christian vendors must verify that both future spouses have had genuine conversion experiences and are “equally yoked” (2 Corinthians 6:14) or they will be complicit with joining righteousness with unrighteousness. They must confirm that neither spouse has been unbiblically divorced (Matthew 19). If one has been divorced, vendors should ask why. Or perhaps you don’t even have to ask. You may already know that the couple’s previous marriages ended because they just decided it wasn’t working, not because there were biblical grounds for divorce. In which case, you can’t provide them a service if you believe such a service is affirming their union."
here: http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/02/23/conservative-christians-selectively-appl...

3. As our culture wars progress, we’re apparently supposed to stake out purist territory, declare “Here I stand, I can do no other” and then battle relentlessly; since we’re all completely and 100% certain of the rightness of our positions — every one of ‘em — we battle in absolutes. Things are so black and white that shades of grey do not exist and therefore there is no need to listen to an opponent, no need to even state his argument back to him to his satisfaction before telling him why he’s wrong. There is only the thrust and the parry. And the thrust. And the thrust. And the damnable thrust.
More importantly, and absent any specific argument, to chip away at the value of individual conscience could lead us where we do not wish to go, a place where individual actions are trumped by erroneous consensus. Rosa Parks followed her conscience. The Stonewall protesters followed their consciences. People willing to toss the importance of individual conscience into the wind should bear in mind that they might want to claim it for themselves someday, and not be able to."


4. "While Jesus socialized with those the temple priests would condemn, and healed the “unclean” lepers, he used those opportunities to teach about the love of God and the wideness of God’s mercy. . .Jesus’ service, then, was a means to gentle evangelization and that is perhaps something these Christian businessmen and women should consider, even if it seems counterintuitive to the character of evangelization, as Americans understand it. . . baking a cake for a same-sex wedding, even if one does not agree with the concept, may well come under the heading of walking along a road for two miles with someone who “presses you into service” for one. That jibes, I think, with a similar theological point being made by Baylor University’s David Garland: ‘How can you witness to someone to whom you will not serve?’"

5. "I have reveled in the fast-paced give-and-take of the internet for many years, but increasingly, no one is listening to anyone. There is no more give-and-take, there is only take-and-shove-down.
I’m beginning to hate it. It’s all fun and games until someone gets hurt."
link: http://www.patheos.com/blogs/theanchoress/2014/02/26/culture-wars-its-all-fun-and-games-u...


6. "That is why we need to ask other questions. We also need to ask whether a particular organization is already applying religious principles in their business, or have just begun invoking them now when they have happily taken money from all sorts of people in the past. That's what I really want to know in this case. As far as I know, we have not seen these caterers and others like them insisting on their right to refuse to provide for other groups whose weddings are at odds with the teachings of the Bible. Why has it only come up in connection with catering for gays and lesbians?
My guess is because what matters to them is not following all the teachings of their religious texts, or consistency on religious objections, but a deep dislike for gays and lesbians that they do not feel towards those who violate the first two commandments, or Jesus' teaching on divorce."

7. "That dislike, when it is allowed to dictate how you treat others and whether you provide the services that your company offers, is what is known as discrimination. That it is motivated by religion does not matter (except to make it all the more reprehensible). Your right to discriminate in this way is not safeguarded by the first amendment. And treating your being prevented from discriminating against others as though that were discrimination against your freedom to discriminate is despicable."
A copy and paste from this link: http://www.patheos.com/blogs/exploringourmatrix/2014/02/gay-wedding-cake-discrimination.h...
Below you will find the reiteration of certain poi... (show quote)


This is a very touchy subject and a very fine line to walk. What bugged me about the whole issue is why didn't the gay couple just go find another bakery to make their cake. No, they had to make some kind of political statement.

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Feb 28, 2014 18:55:25   #
Boo_Boo Loc: Jellystone
 
The Bible never makes a convenient distinction between "homosexual orientation" and "homosexual activity"; it simply calls homosexuality "an abomination" (Leviticus 18:22; 20:13), "perverted" (Deuteronomy 23:17; Judges 19:22), "uncleanness" (Romans 1:24), "against nature" (Romans 1:26) and "shameful" (Romans 1:27). Paul tells Timothy that the judgment of the law applies to sinners, among them sodomites (I Timothy 1:8-10). No one who remains in this condition "will inherit the kingdom of God" (I Corinthians 6:9-10).

Whereas we all sin, we are not expected to keep repeating the sin.... if I owned a bakery and a couple came in and asked for a wedding cake for their marriage and on top they wanted two men. Then I could safely assume that they intend to live as man and wife? Could I safely assume that they do not intend to remain or become celibate? If I were a true Christian, and not just in name only, could I encourage a life style that is sinful? In the book of Romans, does it not say that we are our brother's keepers and if we encourage our brothers in sin, do we not share in that sin?



rumitoid wrote:
Below you will find the reiteration of certain points regarding the so-called "Anti-gay AZ law" from the three of the links I provided in another thread. I feel it would be good to review how other Christians perceive this question. A little time to look at each might help in understanding.

1. "It’s not that these rights don’t matter. Rather, they should be a SECONDARY ISSUE for Christians.
Before considering legal rights, Christians wrestling with this issue must first resolve the primary issue of whether the Bible calls Christians to deny services to people who are engaging in behavior they believe violates the teachings of Christianity regarding marriage. The answer is, it does not."


2. "Nor does the Bible teach that providing such a service should be construed as participation or affirmation. Yet Christian conservatives continue to claim that it does. So it seems that the backers of these bills don’t actually believe what they are saying. Because if they truly believe that a vendor service is an affirmation, then they need to explain why it is only gay and lesbian weddings that violate their conscience.
"Before agreeing to provide a good or service for a wedding, Christian vendors must verify that both future spouses have had genuine conversion experiences and are “equally yoked” (2 Corinthians 6:14) or they will be complicit with joining righteousness with unrighteousness. They must confirm that neither spouse has been unbiblically divorced (Matthew 19). If one has been divorced, vendors should ask why. Or perhaps you don’t even have to ask. You may already know that the couple’s previous marriages ended because they just decided it wasn’t working, not because there were biblical grounds for divorce. In which case, you can’t provide them a service if you believe such a service is affirming their union."
here: http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/02/23/conservative-christians-selectively-appl...

3. As our culture wars progress, we’re apparently supposed to stake out purist territory, declare “Here I stand, I can do no other” and then battle relentlessly; since we’re all completely and 100% certain of the rightness of our positions — every one of ‘em — we battle in absolutes. Things are so black and white that shades of grey do not exist and therefore there is no need to listen to an opponent, no need to even state his argument back to him to his satisfaction before telling him why he’s wrong. There is only the thrust and the parry. And the thrust. And the thrust. And the damnable thrust.
More importantly, and absent any specific argument, to chip away at the value of individual conscience could lead us where we do not wish to go, a place where individual actions are trumped by erroneous consensus. Rosa Parks followed her conscience. The Stonewall protesters followed their consciences. People willing to toss the importance of individual conscience into the wind should bear in mind that they might want to claim it for themselves someday, and not be able to."


4. "While Jesus socialized with those the temple priests would condemn, and healed the “unclean” lepers, he used those opportunities to teach about the love of God and the wideness of God’s mercy. . .Jesus’ service, then, was a means to gentle evangelization and that is perhaps something these Christian businessmen and women should consider, even if it seems counterintuitive to the character of evangelization, as Americans understand it. . . baking a cake for a same-sex wedding, even if one does not agree with the concept, may well come under the heading of walking along a road for two miles with someone who “presses you into service” for one. That jibes, I think, with a similar theological point being made by Baylor University’s David Garland: ‘How can you witness to someone to whom you will not serve?’"

5. "I have reveled in the fast-paced give-and-take of the internet for many years, but increasingly, no one is listening to anyone. There is no more give-and-take, there is only take-and-shove-down.
I’m beginning to hate it. It’s all fun and games until someone gets hurt."
link: http://www.patheos.com/blogs/theanchoress/2014/02/26/culture-wars-its-all-fun-and-games-u...


6. "That is why we need to ask other questions. We also need to ask whether a particular organization is already applying religious principles in their business, or have just begun invoking them now when they have happily taken money from all sorts of people in the past. That's what I really want to know in this case. As far as I know, we have not seen these caterers and others like them insisting on their right to refuse to provide for other groups whose weddings are at odds with the teachings of the Bible. Why has it only come up in connection with catering for gays and lesbians?
My guess is because what matters to them is not following all the teachings of their religious texts, or consistency on religious objections, but a deep dislike for gays and lesbians that they do not feel towards those who violate the first two commandments, or Jesus' teaching on divorce."

7. "That dislike, when it is allowed to dictate how you treat others and whether you provide the services that your company offers, is what is known as discrimination. That it is motivated by religion does not matter (except to make it all the more reprehensible). Your right to discriminate in this way is not safeguarded by the first amendment. And treating your being prevented from discriminating against others as though that were discrimination against your freedom to discriminate is despicable."
A copy and paste from this link: http://www.patheos.com/blogs/exploringourmatrix/2014/02/gay-wedding-cake-discrimination.h...
Below you will find the reiteration of certain poi... (show quote)

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Feb 28, 2014 19:39:40   #
Searching Loc: Rural Southwest VA
 
buffalo wrote:
What amazes me is the hypocrisy of the reaction of the leftist/liberal/progressives. If the situation were reversed, and say, 2 gays people owned a bakery and were asked (demanded) to produce a cake extolling the virtues of traditional marriage, every judge in the country would side with the gay bakery's right to refuse.


The odd thing is, since I "do" have gay friends, and while I can't speak for the entire gay community, I can say that "my" gay friends are all inclusive. All they want to do is lead "normal" lives and they wish to not be considered "alien". I've never heard any of these friends, several who own their own businesses, even voice anything remotely discriminatory towards "straight" individuals which would make a case of the kind you described above rather unlikely to occur in the first place. Oh, guess I forgot to mention that I'm more or less liberal, but then you probably surmised that any way. :lol:

Of course, when I lived in Hawaii, and would be invited to parties in the community, folks would forget that I was a haole, and in the middle of a story putting down non-locals, would suddenly realize the content of their story, and would say "oh, we don't mean 'you'", making me laugh. I can't say that my friends from "the community" don't disparage straight folks, but I would lay you odds that they don't.

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Feb 28, 2014 20:15:25   #
Boo_Boo Loc: Jellystone
 
Well, this is such a heartwarming comment that no one could object. It will not be long until the entire nation adopts a law similar to California. In the 1960s, the Unruh Civil Rights Act was interpreted to provide broad protection from arbitrary discrimination by business owners. Cases decided during that era held that business owners could not discriminate, for example, against hippies, police officers, homosexuals, or Republicans, solely because of who they were." Now California service providers " MUST serve anyone that walks through their doors or be sued. So, this got me to thinking about punk rockers. What if you had a death in your family? You, the mother requested that the funeral service for your 17-year-old daughter be private and that admission to the service be limited to family and invited guests only. The cemetery failed to exclude punk rockers from the service. The punk rockers arrived in unconventional dress, wearing makeup and sporting various hair colors. One was wearing a dress decorated with live rats. Others wore leather and chains, some were twirling baton-like weapons, drinking, and using cocaine. The punk rockers make rude comments to family members and were generally disruptive of the service. Are they protected under the law? What about the grieving mother, does she have any rights?

To me, it is all about choice and keeping your private life, private. In reality, unless someone comes out and tells you they are gay.....how do you know? If they choose to flaunt their differences, then people will take notice. If they act like "normal" people living "normal" lives then most people don't care.

Searching wrote:
The odd thing is, since I "do" have gay friends, and while I can't speak for the entire gay community, I can say that "my" gay friends are all inclusive. All they want to do is lead "normal" lives and they wish to not be considered "alien". I've never heard any of these friends, several who own their own businesses, even voice anything remotely discriminatory towards "straight" individuals which would make a case of the kind you described above rather unlikely to occur in the first place. Oh, guess I forgot to mention that I'm more or less liberal, but then you probably surmised that any way. :lol:

Of course, when I lived in Hawaii, and would be invited to parties in the community, folks would forget that I was a haole, and in the middle of a story putting down non-locals, would suddenly realize the content of their story, and would say "oh, we don't mean 'you'", making me laugh. I can't say that my friends from "the community" don't disparage straight folks, but I would lay you odds that they don't.
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Feb 28, 2014 23:52:34   #
cant beleve Loc: Planet Kolob
 
buffalo wrote:
I think there could have been other ways that the businesses could have gotten around having to serve them or at least not getting sued (as the photog in NM). Just say you were too busy or already had another commitment. On the other hand, why would LGBT want to insist on doing business with one that does not share there views, IF not for political purposes?


That was my response earlier on a different thread. Make a believable excuse its really quite simple. Having been there done that. I don't get what the gay couples don't understand that find a better Baker.

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Mar 1, 2014 00:26:23   #
bobgssc
 
buffalo wrote:
What amazes me is the hypocrisy of the reaction of the leftist/liberal/progressives. If the situation were reversed, and say, 2 gays people owned a bakery and were asked (demanded) to produce a cake extolling the virtues of traditional marriage, every judge in the country would side with the gay bakery's right to refuse.


Hmmm, an angle that wasn't covered ad nauseum. As a conservative, I doubt you are wrong. I personally don't agree that serving a LGBT person (don't want to leave out any of the various leanings) a cup of coffee is wrong as long as the law doesn't force a Christian doctor to perform an abortion or a Christian minister to perform said wedding (in other words, force a person to actually break his own religion). I don't get how some Christians bastardize Christ's teachings to the point that they think they can rationalize all of the hatred we see on the board and it REALLY PISSES ME OFF when I get lumped in with them because I am not afraid to publicly confess I'm a Christian. (not saying you did at all).

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