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Mar 28, 2014 17:16:11   #
Brian Devon
 
Happy J wrote:
This is a question to everyone. As you know, I am in the service, younger than many on this site, and a widower. Of late, I have had a cougar (older woman) pursing me. Has this ever happened to you? And for the ladies, have you or are you a cougar? I told the woman that I was not interested, but they are persistent. Any advice of how to shake her?






The best way is for you to leave OPP. I have contacted the administration about your cyber-stalking behavior.

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Mar 28, 2014 17:22:55   #
Happy J
 
Well okay, I am not leaving and if my account is deleted then so be it.
But, to be fair they will need to look at all the ones that have used profanity, raciest comments, among other infractions. How many people will remain? Think about it! And stalking, well it seems that you and another person always show up as soon as I make a post. Are they stalking me? I would hope not!

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The best way is for you to leave OPP. I have contacted the administration about your cyber-stalking behavior.

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Mar 28, 2014 17:24:29   #
Wolf counselor Loc: Heart of Texas
 
Apatoo Nee Nee . Dank serpent. Contact who you will. You remain a Virulent beast and your whining will gain you nothing. Caveat Demonio. Vade foedae cubili tuo.

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The best way is for you to leave OPP. I have contacted the administration about your cyber-stalking behavior.

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Mar 28, 2014 17:29:40   #
Happy J
 
Wolf counselor wrote:
Apatoo Nee Nee . Dank serpent. Contact who you will. You remain a Virulent beast and your whining will gain you nothing. Caveat Demonio. Vade foedae cubili tuo.


Wolf, thank you. I guess some people do not like my humor or when I do not agree with them. I have used the word "hell" a few times, but nothing like some of the things I have read.... Thank you again. And if he succeeds in getting me kicked off, it was indeed a pleasure to have met you! Keep laughing my friend!

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Mar 28, 2014 17:35:59   #
Wolf counselor Loc: Heart of Texas
 
Have no concern with the wailing sounds from this abominable succubus. It is writhing in it's own pitiful petulance. So possessed is this viper, that his soul is far hidden from anything decent. Truly one of Beelzebub's nastiest achievements.

Happy J wrote:
Wolf, thank you. I guess some people do not like my humor or when I do not agree with them. I have used the word "hell" a few times, but nothing like some of the things I have read.... Thank you again. And if he succeeds in getting me kicked off, it was indeed a pleasure to have met you! Keep laughing my friend!

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Mar 28, 2014 17:38:19   #
Happy J
 
Wolf counselor wrote:
Have no concern with the wailing sounds from this abominable succubus. It is writhing in it's own pitiful petulance. So possessed is this viper, that his soul is far hidden from anything decent. Truly one of Beelzebub's nastiest achievements.


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Thank you again. I am going to log off to see if I have been deleted. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Mar 28, 2014 17:47:03   #
rhomin57 Loc: Far Northern CA.
 
I'm an older woman but have never saught a younger man to have an affair with. As a single person, I have always lived within my own rules of no more than 1 yr younger, 5 yrs older, for a man. But that's just me. Should a man continue to pursue a relationship towards me, when I've already said no, then they are showing no respect for me and I can turn around and show total disrespect for them as well so to end their ideas. Sometimes just have to be blunt, and if you don't then you just deal with the peskiness.
When I first heard of this Cougar stuff, I had a young man ask me if I was a cougar over the phone. Having not a clue to what he was talking about, I quickly said "No, I'm a Scorpio." He hung up??
Happy J wrote:
This is a question to everyone. As you know, I am in the service, younger than many on this site, and a widower. Of late, I have had a cougar (older woman) pursing me. Has this ever happened to you? And for the ladies, have you or are you a cougar? I told the woman that I was not interested, but they are persistent. Any advice of how to shake her?

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Mar 28, 2014 17:57:25   #
Happy J
 
You indeed are a very classy woman! Your comments, at times make me laugh like the end of this one, but mostly you give me food for thought. Your family is very lucky to have you not only a member of the family but you would make one heck of a great friend. I find that I like you! I have never tried to be unkind, but your comments have given me creative ideas. To be truthful, I am not in the market for a relationship. I have my boys, all under the age of teenage and they take lots of time, then I work two jobs. On top of that, my wife was my soul mate, she and I were so close I fear that any other woman would be a big disappointment. I know that is not fair, but right now I know it is true. Perhaps later on another person will walk into my life to whom I can share, right now.... No.

Keep smiling! And keep posting, especially to me. I really enjoy what you say!

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I'm an older woman but have never saught a younger man to have an affair with. As a single person, I have always lived within my own rules of no more than 1 yr younger, 5 yrs older, for a man. But that's just me. Should a man continue to pursue a relationship towards me, when I've already said no, then they are showing no respect for me and I can turn around and show total disrespect for them as well so to end their ideas. Sometimes just have to be blunt, and if you don't then you just deal with the peskiness.
When I first heard of this Cougar stuff, I had a young man ask me if I was a cougar over the phone. Having not a clue to what he was talking about, I quickly said "No, I'm a Scorpio." He hung up??
I'm an older woman but have never saught a younger... (show quote)


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Mar 28, 2014 19:22:00   #
rhomin57 Loc: Far Northern CA.
 
That is such a wonderful compliment! Thank you so very much. I hear you as far as your soul mate. My first marriage was made in Heaven, or so I thought. I was very niave but was growing within it. The actual catastrophe of it's end shook the foundations of life as I had known it.

We were highschool boyfriend and girlfriend. We did marry rather young as far as the standard of age was. I was pregnant with my first son, and once born I must have lived a life of fantasy as for what was really going on behind my back. Life was actually good, and my husband and I were very close during that time.
Then I got pregnant with our second son, and I don't know what happened in my husband mind- he just kind of went bezerk. By my eighth month of pregnancy, he came to me and said he had made a mistake and didn't want to be married anymore. That made me kind of numb, and robotically I packed his stuff for him. By the time it came for the new baby, it was another boy, and actually born on his Daddy's birthday, so I named him after him as well.
My husband did actually pop in to the hospital to see me, but refused to see our newborn(?). He brought with him his sister and one of her friends that I didn't know. He said, I don't want to get back together, and they left.
Six weeks later, my husband poped in again and asked if we could get back together! I was so thankful, and for me there was no lapse of Love. He still had very little to do at all with our new baby(?).
At 3mo. and 14da, I found our infant face down in his crib, having died somewhere during the night from Sudden Infant Crib Death. Autopsy and Death certificate stated this. I had never heard of such a thing.
Eight months after this, I gave birth to our third son, which his daddy was much more attentive to. When my third baby was four months old, I found through my husbands very ignorant and uneducated mother (5th grade education) that my husband had left me during my second pregnancy do to having an affair with the Friend that came to the hospital with him and his sister, that day of the babies birth. That girl he had had the affair with had ended up marrying my husband brother, and because his brother did not have a job, he and his wife (that girl) were actually living with us In Our Home at that time!
My husband sheepishly admitted everything, and life began swirling around me until it felt like an axe split my head and heart in two.
I had a terrible nervous breakdown, that actually took a year to recover from. It became complicated by the renewed grief of losing my second son, as though my husband had been punished for his Sins, yet it was my son and why did I have to lose him as I did nothing wrong.

I eventually grew in the understanding of my Faith, but it took time for the cannon ball sized hole in my heart to heal.
My husband and I went our different ways of course, after that year. My family was very supportive, and I clinged to them as I grew in maturity from being niave and stupid, and continued to heal.

I don't know if I will marry again, I have pretty high expectations that are probably unreal for the most part, my second husband was a very good man on the surface but riddled with the Viet Nam experience deep down.
Just don't know if I could do it again. My strong Faith in our Lord God looks out for me, and I give him 'all' my love and trust. (Sons and their families too!)

Happy J wrote:
You indeed are a very classy woman! Your comments, at times make me laugh like the end of this one, but mostly you give me food for thought. Your family is very lucky to have you not only a member of the family but you would make one heck of a great friend. I find that I like you! I have never tried to be unkind, but your comments have given me creative ideas. To be truthful, I am not in the market for a relationship. I have my boys, all under the age of teenage and they take lots of time, then I work two jobs. On top of that, my wife was my soul mate, she and I were so close I fear that any other woman would be a big disappointment. I know that is not fair, but right now I know it is true. Perhaps later on another person will walk into my life to whom I can share, right now.... No.

Keep smiling! And keep posting, especially to me. I really enjoy what you say!



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Mar 29, 2014 16:05:15   #
archie bunker Loc: Texas
 
Happy J wrote:
I tried to discourage this woman, I told her that I am not interested, I told her that she was vintage, and I told her that I did not have time for her. Then she continued her pursuit. So, I suggested that she join a senior citizen group where she could meet someone of her own age. That did not work. So I came out and told her to please leave me alone, no more communications, no more notes. I was not interested. Still she chases me! I wish she were a coworker, then I could use military persuasion. I do not think that I can get a restraining order because she is more like the "friendly" person.

I could not even put a bag over her head and touch her with anyone's 10 foot pole. Ugly would be a kind word to use. But, I do not want to really hurt her by telling her that she's not exactly bad looking. There's just one little blemish between her ears-- her face. I think if someone shot her, the bullet would turn around in mid air. Know what I mean??
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So she doesn't even fit in the butterface category?

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Mar 29, 2014 16:36:14   #
rhomin57 Loc: Far Northern CA.
 
Here's a sure fixer! Do you have a girlfriend? If not, get a girl that is a friend, and tell her of the problem that you'd like some help with. Have this girl come to where you are, where this other woman will be also. Be as lovie dovie as you can with this girl within the circumstance, and have the girl make some sharp stares and maybe a few subtle comments towards that woman.
You know, we women- as girlfriend, fiancé, or wife are very territorial with our men, hissing and very cold mouthed when feeling threatened. So have your girlfriend or female friend do this for you. It should work great!
Happy J wrote:
I tried to discourage this woman, I told her that I am not interested, I told her that she was vintage, and I told her that I did not have time for her. Then she continued her pursuit. So, I suggested that she join a senior citizen group where she could meet someone of her own age. That did not work. So I came out and told her to please leave me alone, no more communications, no more notes. I was not interested. Still she chases me! I wish she were a coworker, then I could use military persuasion. I do not think that I can get a restraining order because she is more like the "friendly" person.

I could not even put a bag over her head and touch her with anyone's 10 foot pole. Ugly would be a kind word to use. But, I do not want to really hurt her by telling her that she's not exactly bad looking. There's just one little blemish between her ears-- her face. I think if someone shot her, the bullet would turn around in mid air. Know what I mean??
I tried to discourage this woman, I told her that ... (show quote)

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Mar 29, 2014 18:50:28   #
Steve700
 
Just tell her your not into "snaggalypuss".

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Mar 29, 2014 19:30:10   #
rhomin57 Loc: Far Northern CA.
 
That's and excellent word!! If this is taking place on a job site or even a military base though, he would have to be very careful with what he says, and does. Guys don't run to bosses or superiors like women do when things like that occur. So I give him my best wishes that it turns out alright for him.
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Just tell her your not into "snaggalypuss".

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Apr 3, 2014 17:52:10   #
She Wolf Loc: Currently Georgia
 
I was a widow at the age of twenty-three with a child to rear. My husband was in the military at the time of his death. I can't tell you how many men thought I was ready for an affair.

Now, I have always spoke my mind. I just said: "What in the world makes you think you are in any way capable of filling the love of my life's combat boots."

If they persisted I usually had my 6'8'' brother handle them.

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Aug 1, 2017 12:02:08   #
Oldsailor65 Loc: Iowa
 
Happy J wrote:
This is a question to everyone. As you know, I am in the service, younger than many on this site, and a widower. Of late, I have had a cougar (older woman) pursing me. Has this ever happened to you? And for the ladies, have you or are you a cougar? I told the woman that I was not interested, but they are persistent. Any advice of how to shake her?

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Whatz her phone # an email address??
Iz she cute?
Iz she rich??
Does she drive a pickup?

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