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Jul 27, 2017 12:46:23   #
S. Maturin
 
Morgan wrote:
Yes Trump is the most transparent president ever made myself laugh at that one, though to listen to the nut case yesterday he's "The Most Presidential President in the history of our country"!!!! Oh except for Lincoln. he's a riot and hes done this in being in office for just 7 months, he's just fantastic...what a joke.
Yes Trump is the most transparent president ever ... (show quote)


In this you might be admitting to a personal trait of your own.. like the inability to understand what it is that is happening around you, so you assign it 'entertainment'.. and laugh.

You will only have the rest of your life to feel embarrassed by that.

After backroom Pelosi, toilet closet server Hillary, Whispering collusion Obama, I understand, I think, why anyone would feel that the politicians should not be trusted nor believed.

So, you see, we agree.

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Jul 27, 2017 13:04:28   #
slatten49 Loc: Lake Whitney, Texas
 
TexaCan wrote:
Good morning Slatten, I read this thread over 3 times before I made my comments. I wanted to be respectful and comment on the facts as I see them. I first looked for the statement that Beck claimed that President Trump made about transgenders being unworthy to serve. I googled it but couldn't find it, that not saying that he didn't make it, just that I didn't find any proof of it. The article states that she received these various awards, but she did not, he however did. Beck also said when asked about potential problems with unit cohesion or war fighting that there would be no issues from transgender service members , but from leadership. Beck went on to say that a very professional unit with great leadership wouldn't have a problem. Since he was not a transgender when he served with his fellow Seal brothers, is this not just his opinion and not a fact based on his experience as a transgender? Then there is the statement about "the money is negligible, only about .000001% of the military budget ". I don't care if it is $50 or $50,000 or half a million, I don't want my tax dollars paying for something God created and the person disagreed with His creation. For this to be a relevant story about transgenders IN the active military, let's hear the story of a transgender Seal member and the story of the Seal brothers that serve with him! That would give everyone a true picture of both sides of this very explosive subject. I listened to a young retired military man minus both his legs, speak on this subject this morning. I hope some of you heard it! Among other things that he said, he said that it wasn't about one person, it was about the cohesiveness of the unit. His opinion was that having a transgender female in the group would not be beneficial for the group. He said so much more, so maybe more can hear him later today. It's a beautiful day in Texas, it would even be better if we were sitting in a nice shady cove on Lake Whitney!!!!
Good morning Slatten, I read this thread over 3 t... (show quote)

The best way I can respond to your comments, TexaCan, is to suggest you read the entire thread. Most of the points you brought up were discussed in one of mine or anothers posts/comments. You'll find much agreement from me on many of those same issues.

Rather than a "shady cove," I prefer sitting in a floating web-chair in the cool waters of Lake Whitney. It is HOT The heat index is right at 110 degrees.

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Jul 27, 2017 13:14:21   #
PaulPisces Loc: San Francisco
 
lpnmajor wrote:
I told my wife Tuesday to get ready for something dramatic from Trump, probably delivered by tweet. I didn't know what it would be, but I expected something bizarre or outrageous. How did I predict this? It was because Jared had taken center stage/front page, for too long.....and Trump needed the focus returned to him.

The pattern is there for anyone who cares to look. Every time Trump precipitously "announces" some shit, without consulting his own staff, someone else had taken the limelight away from him just prior. It irritates me to see the MSM, and pundits, constantly trying to cipher some overriding policy shift, or any policy at all, out of the myriad goofy tweets that arrive daily. There simply ISN'T ANY. These are ad hoc scripts, written either late at night or early in the morning, based on the previous nights cable news binge watching. If Trump doesn't get top billing, he'll do something dramatic or shocking to get back up there.

Here's the guy who said "I alone can fix this", " I know more about ISIS than the Generals" and " you're going to get such good healthcare, at a fraction of the cost...it'll be so easy". None of those pronouncements were true....because he had not given ANY thought to those issues, beyond the sound bytes/optics of the statement. Here's the thing - he STILL hasn't given any thought to the issues, because that's not what he does, it's not his claim to fame. His MO is to get someone else to do what he wants done, or get fired, without any direction from him at all, because he has none to give.

This Transgender announcement is not a policy, DoD does not accept policy statements via twitter, and until the WH issues an official directive to Mattis.............it's just more Trump bullshit. It is a mistake to assume that Trump had given this any thought beyond " this'll get 'em riled up!". Continuing to get riled up over stupid tweets is a mistake. My advice is to ignore them.............and him.
I told my wife Tuesday to get ready for something ... (show quote)




Thanks for being a voice of reason. I think you have summed it up succinctly. This isn't about any particular position on trans people in the military. It's a diversion tactic.

Sorry your post will resonate with few on OPP.

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Jul 27, 2017 13:14:28   #
padremike Loc: Phenix City, Al
 
Morgan wrote:
Thin skinned must be the people who aren't liars, ah yes where's that video of him BOASTING how he's going to "PROTECT" the LGBT's. But this is all a media ploy anyway just as the major says.


How can he possibly protect them from themselves? There is no greater danger to them in America than their own lifestyle.

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Jul 27, 2017 13:27:39   #
Mattie Silks
 
slatten49 wrote:
Paul Szoldra
Business Insider,
Wednesday, July 26, 2017

A retired Navy SEAL Team 6 hero who is transgender had a message for President Donald Trump after he announced the US military would bar transgender people from serving.

"Let's meet face to face and you tell me I'm not worthy," Kristin Beck, a 20-year veteran of the Navy SEALs, told Business Insider on Wednesday. "Transgender doesn't matter. Do your service."

Beck said Trump's abrupt change in policy could negatively affect many currently or wanting to serve in the military. The RAND Corporation estimated in 2016 that there were between 1,320 and 6,630 transgender people serving. Many of them just want to serve their country like everyone else, Beck said.

"Being transgender doesn't affect anyone else," Beck said. "We are liberty's light. If you can't defend that for everyone that's an American citizen, that's not right."

Beck is not just your average service member. Born Christopher Beck, she served for 20 years in the Navy with SEAL Teams 1, 5, and, eventually, the elite 6. She deployed 13 times over two decades, including stints in Bosnia, Iraq, and Afghanistan. She received the Bronze Star award for valor and the Purple Heart for wounds suffered in combat. (Those were among Beck's twenty-seven awards/medals/commendations)

"I was defending individual liberty," she said. "I defended for Republicans. I defended for Democrats. I defended for everyone."

In a series of tweets, Trump said the decision was based on the costs of medical services that transgender service members could use. But "the money is negligible," Beck said. "You're talking about .000001% of the military budget.

"They care more about the airplane or the tank than they care about people," Beck said. "They don't care about people. They don't care about human beings."

When asked about potential problems with unit cohesion or war fighting, Beck said those were not issues that would arise from transgender service members, but from leadership.

"A very professional unit with great leadership wouldn't have a problem," Beck said. "I can have a Muslim serving right beside Jerry Falwell, and we're not going to have a problem. It's a leadership issue, not a transgender issue."
Paul Szoldra br Business Insider, br Wednesday, J... (show quote)


So my question for that Navy Seal (?) is what exactly do you think your purpose is in life? Not interested in your ability to destroy things.

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Jul 27, 2017 13:36:57   #
wuzblynd Loc: thomson georgia
 
slatten49 wrote:
General Mattis Indicates He Will Not Roll Back Open LGBT Military Service As Secretary of Defense

Thursday, January 12, 2017

WASHINGTON -- Today, the nation’s leading organizations for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) service members and their families -- the American Military Partner Association (AMPA) and OutServe-SLDN -- issued the following joint statement following comments made by President-elect Donald Trump’s nominee for Secretary of Defense, retired General James Mattis, during confirmation hearings this morning. General Mattis indicated he will not work to reverse the current policies that allow any qualified person to serve, including LGBT people.

“We are heartened by General Mattis’ stated commitment during his testimony not to reverse the profound progress we have made in ensuring LGBT service members and their families are able to serve our nation with pride,” said AMPA President Ashley Broadway-Mack and OutServe-SLDN Executive Director Matt Thorn. “Because questions had been raised about his commitment on this front, uncertainty in the future had given our military families great cause for concern. His comments today give us hope for a working relationship between our organizations and the new Defense Department leadership. If confirmed, we look forward to working with General Mattis in supporting our nation’s brave heroes and their families. We are committed to holding the incoming administration accountable and ensuring all who serve, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity, have the support and respect they need and deserve.”

During his prepared testimony, General Mattis said, “We open the door to all patriots who are eligible and meet the standards, provide them with the training, equipment, and leadership that's central to their success, and ensure all service members are treated with dignity and respect.”

When asked by Senator Kirsten Gillibrand (D-NY) about his support for LGBT service members currently serving our nation, General Mattis said, “Senator, my belief is that we have to stay focused on a military that’s so lethal that on the battlefield it will be the enemies’ longest day and their worst day when they run into that force. I believe that military service is a touchstone for patriots of whatever stripe. It’s simply the way that they demonstrate their commitment. And I believe right now that the policies that are in effect, unless a service chief brings something to me where there’s a problem that’s been proven, then I’m not going in with the idea that I’m going to review these and right away start rolling something back.” He went on to say, “Frankly, I’ve never cared much about two consenting adults and who they go to bed with.”

Later, Senator Mazie Hirono (D-HI) asked him directly, “Is there something innate in being a woman or LGBT that would cause you to believe that they could not be part of a lethal force?” General Mattis replied with a simple, “no.”
General Mattis Indicates He Will Not Roll Back Ope... (show quote)





What I don't get is how a group who make up less than 3 percent of the population get their way over the 97 percent who disagree? Real men don't want to shower with fags. No one I know wants this in our military, but if we disagree we are haters. There is no way to justify crapping on the rest of us who don't think it's ok.

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Jul 27, 2017 13:37:57   #
padremike Loc: Phenix City, Al
 
slatten49 wrote:
I am safe from all harm. My min-pin, LadyBug, is steady on the job as our security guard-dog. If you were to get past her, then there is the existential threat of my Sgt. Major.


Holy moly, isn't that a bit of protection overkill? I rarely get off the shady front porch, reading an ebook with my 14 year old Springer Spaniel constantly scratching on the front door to check on me. She doesn't stay out long, preferring the Arctic environment my Sgt Major of 55 years keeps the house temperature. I do keep a single shot 410 on the porch with me - damn rattlesnakes in the Florida Panhandle, especially the pygmy variety. They're not as thick as the ones on Medina AFB, Texas where I went thru "agitation training" in 1959 in the old K-9 Corps. (The agitation training was to make the dogs aggressive not the handlers.) Never witnessed so many rattlesnakes in one place in my life. Worse than Washington D.C. Well look at me I'm just rambling along completely off topic. Time to retreat to the front porch with my ebook, my pipe and my 410.

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Jul 27, 2017 13:40:22   #
ghostgotcha Loc: The Florida swamps
 
slatten49 wrote:
I corrected my earlier misstatement, Dave. She ran in the primaries for this past election and lost.


Since the X-seal is a Democrat and ran on the Democratic platform then one has to ask why all those Democrats who did not vote for him (or her) did not approve of odd seals representing them? Democrats all?

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Jul 27, 2017 13:43:39   #
padremike Loc: Phenix City, Al
 
ghostgotcha wrote:
Since the X-seal is a Democrat and ran on the Democratic platform then one has to ask why all those Democrats who did not vote for him (or her) did not approve of odd seals representing them? Democrats all?


Did this, uh, "person" actually run for political office?

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Jul 27, 2017 13:48:33   #
S. Maturin
 
wuzblynd wrote:
What I don't get is how a group who make up less than 3 percent of the population get their way over the 97 percent who disagree? Real men don't want to shower with fags. No one I know wants this in our military, but if we disagree we are haters. There is no way to justify crapping on the rest of us who don't think it's ok.


That is a really great question..

Why is it that 50%+ are wrong when they elect a candidate and then fewer than 1-3% can dictate to all?? It_does_not_make_any_sense_at_all!

(No wonder the male sperm count in the USA has declined so sharply...Maybe there's some connection?)

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Jul 27, 2017 14:08:14   #
Kazudy
 
slatten49 wrote:
Paul Szoldra
Business Insider,
Wednesday, July 26, 2017

A retired Navy SEAL Team 6 hero who is transgender had a message for President Donald Trump after he announced the US military would bar transgender people from serving.

"Let's meet face to face and you tell me I'm not worthy," Kristin Beck, a 20-year veteran of the Navy SEALs, told Business Insider on Wednesday. "Transgender doesn't matter. Do your service."

Beck said Trump's abrupt change in policy could negatively affect many currently or wanting to serve in the military. The RAND Corporation estimated in 2016 that there were between 1,320 and 6,630 transgender people serving. Many of them just want to serve their country like everyone else, Beck said.

"Being transgender doesn't affect anyone else," Beck said. "We are liberty's light. If you can't defend that for everyone that's an American citizen, that's not right."

Beck is not just your average service member. Born Christopher Beck, she served for 20 years in the Navy with SEAL Teams 1, 5, and, eventually, the elite 6. She deployed 13 times over two decades, including stints in Bosnia, Iraq, and Afghanistan. She received the Bronze Star award for valor and the Purple Heart for wounds suffered in combat. (Those were among Beck's twenty-seven awards/medals/commendations)

"I was defending individual liberty," she said. "I defended for Republicans. I defended for Democrats. I defended for everyone."

In a series of tweets, Trump said the decision was based on the costs of medical services that transgender service members could use. But "the money is negligible," Beck said. "You're talking about .000001% of the military budget.

"They care more about the airplane or the tank than they care about people," Beck said. "They don't care about people. They don't care about human beings."

When asked about potential problems with unit cohesion or war fighting, Beck said those were not issues that would arise from transgender service members, but from leadership.

"A very professional unit with great leadership wouldn't have a problem," Beck said. "I can have a Muslim serving right beside Jerry Falwell, and we're not going to have a problem. It's a leadership issue, not a transgender issue."
Paul Szoldra br Business Insider, br Wednesday, J... (show quote)

I want to know this. When this Navy Seal Kristin Beck searved in the military, was he a man, or was she a woman? Somebody give me an answer please.

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Jul 27, 2017 15:02:33   #
slatten49 Loc: Lake Whitney, Texas
 
Kazudy wrote:
I want to know this. When this Navy Seal Kristin Beck searved in the military, was he a man, or was she a woman? Somebody give me an answer please.

She was 'a woman living in a man's body.' This may be more than you may want to know, but it is a brief interview with Beck back in 2014...

By Chuck Hadad, Susan Chun and Dana Ford

Kristin Beck served as a Navy SEAL for more than 20 years
Then named Chris Beck, she deployed in Iraq, Afghanistan and Africa
Beck retired in 2011 and has since come out as transgender
"No one ever met the real me," she says.

After years spent fighting in some of the world's worst wars, former U.S. Navy SEAL Kristin Beck says she knows what she wants.

"I want to have my life," she told CNN's "AC360."

"I fought for 20 years for life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. I want some happiness."

She wrote about the experience in a book, "Warrior Princess: A U.S. Navy SEAL's Journey to Coming out Transgender."

As a man named Christopher Beck, she deployed as a SEAL 13 times, including operations in Bosnia, Afghanistan, Iraq and elsewhere. Along the way, Beck earned a Bronze Star and a Purple Heart.

Identifying herself as a woman, Beck had felt trapped in the wrong body since grade school, but didn't come out until after leaving the military in 2011.

Doing so earlier would have been too big a risk because in the United States, transgender men and women are banned from military service.

"That's a chance that -- if I took it -- I might be dead today," she told CNN's Anderson Cooper last year.

The CNN Film, "Lady Valor: The Kristin Beck Story," offers a fascinating glimpse of Beck's life. "I just wanted to tell someone my story," she says in the film. "And maybe set an example for some of the younger generation -- just say that I'm still a human being, and I deserve dignity and respect."

Beck says she deals with "a lot of prejudice out there. There's been a lot of transgender people who are killed for prejudice, for hatred. When the book came out -- some amazing support and some amazing praises -- but also some pretty amazing bigotry and hatred."

In the film, Beck talks candidly about how she reacts to prejudice. "I just try to be friendly, and I just say 'Hi, how are you doing?' You know, 'Good to meet you. I was that Navy SEAL, you know, transgender, you might've seen me on TV.' And they go, 'Oh, oh wow.' And then they realize that maybe trying to get into a fight with me wouldn't be a good idea. Maybe they should be nice."

Beck says she doesn't need people to love, or even like, her.

"But I don't want you to beat me up and kill me. You don't have to like me, I don't care. But please don't kill me."

'No one ever met the real me.'

Beck explained her years of hiding as living like an onion. Deep down, under various layers, or skins, she hid her female persona.

"It is a constant, but as you suppress and as you bottle it up, it's not like on that surface," she said. "You would never notice it because I can push it so deep, but then it does kinda, like, it gnaws at you. So it's always there."

In the film, Beck pulls back the curtain on her unique childhood, when she used to pretend to be sick so she could stay home from school and indulge in her secret. "I would put nail polish on. I could have, you know, a pair of my sister's shoes on," Beck said. "It was like a reset, it was like a vacation for me. So I had my vacation away from Chris."

Beck believes she might have wanted to become a SEAL because they are "the toughest of the tough."

She thought: "I could totally make it go away if I could be at that top level. ... Maybe I could cure myself."

But the feeling of being born in the wrong body never went away, and for her entire military career, Beck kept her secret.

She said virtually no one, out of the thousands of people she worked with, knew the truth -- it was so well hidden.

"No one ever met the real me," she said.

Though her identity was hidden, the rest of what Beck offered was true.

"I gave true brotherhood. I did my best, 150% all the time, and I gave strength and honor and my full brotherhood to every military person I ever worked with."

Beck married a woman and had children. "I was just trying to fit in to the stereotype American dream, exactly what my parents and everyone expected of me," Beck says in the film. "I met someone who's -- who's awesome, you know, we got along good."

Beck chose to reveal the secret to her wife slowly, to "see what the acceptance level" was. "She wasn't totally digging it. So she had no idea what she was getting into. Definitely wasn't the top on her list of things that she wanted, so it hurt."

As much of mainstream America learns more about what it means to be transgender, Beck says even she is still trying to figure out some aspects for herself.

"It took me a long time to get to this point where I'm comfortable living in my own skin," she says. "I'm very comfortable living the way I'm living right now, because it's natural to me now, and I've never had that."

What she seems sure of is, "I'm not a gay man, I'm not a drag queen, I am not maybe total dude, and I'm not total feminine, I'm not totally female," Beck said. "I think I'm living more in that gray world."

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Jul 27, 2017 15:09:30   #
Mattie Silks
 
slatten49 wrote:
She was 'a woman living in a man's body.' This may be more than you may want to know, but it is a brief interview with Beck back in 2014...

By Chuck Hadad, Susan Chun and Dana Ford

Kristin Beck served as a Navy SEAL for more than 20 years
Then named Chris Beck, she deployed in Iraq, Afghanistan and Africa
Beck retired in 2011 and has since come out as transgender
"No one ever met the real me," she says

After years spent fighting in some of the world's worst wars, former U.S. Navy SEAL Kristin Beck says she knows what she wants.

"I want to have my life," she told CNN's "AC360."

"I fought for 20 years for life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. I want some happiness."

She wrote about the experience in a book, "Warrior Princess: A U.S. Navy SEAL's Journey to Coming out Transgender."

As a man named Christopher Beck, she deployed as a SEAL 13 times, including operations in Bosnia, Afghanistan, Iraq and elsewhere. Along the way, Beck earned a Bronze Star and a Purple Heart.

Identifying herself as a woman, Beck had felt trapped in the wrong body since grade school, but didn't come out until after leaving the military in 2011.

Doing so earlier would have been too big a risk because in the United States, transgender men and women are banned from military service.

"That's a chance that -- if I took it -- I might be dead today," she told CNN's Anderson Cooper last year.

The CNN Film, "Lady Valor: The Kristin Beck Story," offers a fascinating glimpse of Beck's life. "I just wanted to tell someone my story," she says in the film. "And maybe set an example for some of the younger generation -- just say that I'm still a human being, and I deserve dignity and respect."

Beck says she deals with "a lot of prejudice out there. There's been a lot of transgender people who are killed for prejudice, for hatred. When the book came out -- some amazing support and some amazing praises -- but also some pretty amazing bigotry and hatred."

In the film, Beck talks candidly about how she reacts to prejudice. "I just try to be friendly, and I just say 'Hi, how are you doing?' You know, 'Good to meet you. I was that Navy SEAL, you know, transgender, you might've seen me on TV.' And they go, 'Oh, oh wow.' And then they realize that maybe trying to get into a fight with me wouldn't be a good idea. Maybe they should be nice."

Beck says she doesn't need people to love, or even like, her.

"But I don't want you to beat me up and kill me. You don't have to like me, I don't care. But please don't kill me."

'No one ever met the real me.'

Beck explained her years of hiding as living like an onion. Deep down, under various layers, or skins, she hid her female persona.

"It is a constant, but as you suppress and as you bottle it up, it's not like on that surface," she said. "You would never notice it because I can push it so deep, but then it does kinda, like, it gnaws at you. So it's always there."

In the film, Beck pulls back the curtain on her unique childhood, when she used to pretend to be sick so she could stay home from school and indulge in her secret. "I would put nail polish on. I could have, you know, a pair of my sister's shoes on," Beck said. "It was like a reset, it was like a vacation for me. So I had my vacation away from Chris."

Beck believes she might have wanted to become a SEAL because they are "the toughest of the tough."

She thought: "I could totally make it go away if I could be at that top level. ... Maybe I could cure myself."

But the feeling of being born in the wrong body never went away, and for her entire military career, Beck kept her secret.

She said virtually no one, out of the thousands of people she worked with, knew the truth -- it was so well hidden.

"No one ever met the real me," she said.

Though her identity was hidden, the rest of what Beck offered was true.

"I gave true brotherhood. I did my best, 150% all the time, and I gave strength and honor and my full brotherhood to every military person I ever worked with."

Beck married a woman and had children. "I was just trying to fit in to the stereotype American dream, exactly what my parents and everyone expected of me," Beck says in the film. "I met someone who's -- who's awesome, you know, we got along good."

Beck chose to reveal the secret to her wife slowly, to "see what the acceptance level" was. "She wasn't totally digging it. So she had no idea what she was getting into. Definitely wasn't the top on her list of things that she wanted, so it hurt."

As much of mainstream America learns more about what it means to be transgender, Beck says even she is still trying to figure out some aspects for herself.

"It took me a long time to get to this point where I'm comfortable living in my own skin," she says. "I'm very comfortable living the way I'm living right now, because it's natural to me now, and I've never had that."

What she seems sure of is, "I'm not a gay man, I'm not a drag queen, I am not maybe total dude, and I'm not total feminine, I'm not totally female," Beck said. "I think I'm living more in that gray world."
She was 'a woman living in a man's body.' This ma... (show quote)


That doesn't match any mountain I've ever seen. I'm sure Madam Mattie Silks can find a crib just her/his/its size, don't you?

For information on Madam Mattie Silks, go to this thread, and click on the link I gave you: http://www.onepoliticalplaza.com/t-108437-1.html "The Feminist Movement Should Be Outlawed".

There you will find the contribution women made to the winning of the west.

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Jul 27, 2017 15:43:23   #
padremike Loc: Phenix City, Al
 
slatten49 wrote:
She was 'a woman living in a man's body.' This may be more than you may want to know, but it is a brief interview with Beck back in 2014...

By Chuck Hadad, Susan Chun and Dana Ford

Kristin Beck served as a Navy SEAL for more than 20 years
Then named Chris Beck, she deployed in Iraq, Afghanistan and Africa
Beck retired in 2011 and has since come out as transgender
"No one ever met the real me," she says.

After years spent fighting in some of the world's worst wars, former U.S. Navy SEAL Kristin Beck says she knows what she wants.

"I want to have my life," she told CNN's "AC360."

"I fought for 20 years for life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. I want some happiness."

She wrote about the experience in a book, "Warrior Princess: A U.S. Navy SEAL's Journey to Coming out Transgender."

As a man named Christopher Beck, she deployed as a SEAL 13 times, including operations in Bosnia, Afghanistan, Iraq and elsewhere. Along the way, Beck earned a Bronze Star and a Purple Heart.

Identifying herself as a woman, Beck had felt trapped in the wrong body since grade school, but didn't come out until after leaving the military in 2011.

Doing so earlier would have been too big a risk because in the United States, transgender men and women are banned from military service.

"That's a chance that -- if I took it -- I might be dead today," she told CNN's Anderson Cooper last year.

The CNN Film, "Lady Valor: The Kristin Beck Story," offers a fascinating glimpse of Beck's life. "I just wanted to tell someone my story," she says in the film. "And maybe set an example for some of the younger generation -- just say that I'm still a human being, and I deserve dignity and respect."

Beck says she deals with "a lot of prejudice out there. There's been a lot of transgender people who are killed for prejudice, for hatred. When the book came out -- some amazing support and some amazing praises -- but also some pretty amazing bigotry and hatred."

In the film, Beck talks candidly about how she reacts to prejudice. "I just try to be friendly, and I just say 'Hi, how are you doing?' You know, 'Good to meet you. I was that Navy SEAL, you know, transgender, you might've seen me on TV.' And they go, 'Oh, oh wow.' And then they realize that maybe trying to get into a fight with me wouldn't be a good idea. Maybe they should be nice."

Beck says she doesn't need people to love, or even like, her.

"But I don't want you to beat me up and kill me. You don't have to like me, I don't care. But please don't kill me."

'No one ever met the real me.'

Beck explained her years of hiding as living like an onion. Deep down, under various layers, or skins, she hid her female persona.

"It is a constant, but as you suppress and as you bottle it up, it's not like on that surface," she said. "You would never notice it because I can push it so deep, but then it does kinda, like, it gnaws at you. So it's always there."

In the film, Beck pulls back the curtain on her unique childhood, when she used to pretend to be sick so she could stay home from school and indulge in her secret. "I would put nail polish on. I could have, you know, a pair of my sister's shoes on," Beck said. "It was like a reset, it was like a vacation for me. So I had my vacation away from Chris."

Beck believes she might have wanted to become a SEAL because they are "the toughest of the tough."

She thought: "I could totally make it go away if I could be at that top level. ... Maybe I could cure myself."

But the feeling of being born in the wrong body never went away, and for her entire military career, Beck kept her secret.

She said virtually no one, out of the thousands of people she worked with, knew the truth -- it was so well hidden.

"No one ever met the real me," she said.

Though her identity was hidden, the rest of what Beck offered was true.

"I gave true brotherhood. I did my best, 150% all the time, and I gave strength and honor and my full brotherhood to every military person I ever worked with."

Beck married a woman and had children. "I was just trying to fit in to the stereotype American dream, exactly what my parents and everyone expected of me," Beck says in the film. "I met someone who's -- who's awesome, you know, we got along good."

Beck chose to reveal the secret to her wife slowly, to "see what the acceptance level" was. "She wasn't totally digging it. So she had no idea what she was getting into. Definitely wasn't the top on her list of things that she wanted, so it hurt."

As much of mainstream America learns more about what it means to be transgender, Beck says even she is still trying to figure out some aspects for herself.

"It took me a long time to get to this point where I'm comfortable living in my own skin," she says. "I'm very comfortable living the way I'm living right now, because it's natural to me now, and I've never had that."

What she seems sure of is, "I'm not a gay man, I'm not a drag queen, I am not maybe total dude, and I'm not total feminine, I'm not totally female," Beck said. "I think I'm living more in that gray world."
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If she now a woman she should be able to conceive children right? At 77 if I think I'm 25 I should be able to run up and down the mountains of Wyoming elk hunting again according to the leftist logic.

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Mattie Silks
 
padremike wrote:
If she now a woman she should be able to conceive children right? At 77 if I think I'm 25 I should be able to run up and down the mountains of Wyoming elk hunting again according to the leftist logic.


Why did she/he have to mention the "younger generation"? Sounds like she thinks the "younger generation" needs help in self-identifying...as anything. Scary, isn't it?

I blame the feminist movement, for the most part, for the problems in gender identity. And the LGBT's, and the African-American matriarchies. In other words, all the "oppressed" people in America: All "the arrogant victims".

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