no propaganda please Loc: moon orbiting the third rock from the sun

http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2017/07/18/teen-vogue-defends-teaching-kids-how-to-engage-in-sodomy.html

Apparently this is legal porn presented to children. Kinsey Institute graduates probably trained the writers for teen magazine, who else would believe that teaching 14 year olds how to perform sodomy is a great idea. as instructors

PaulPisces Loc: San Francisco

Did you bother to read the Teen Vogue article?

Mr Bombastic

Shut up, you pervert!

goofball Loc: timbucktoo

I don't even want to see this shit!

E

I didn't read the article, but I'm sure I've seen worse. The issue is that it shouldn't be up to Teen Vogue or any other stupid publicly available magazine directed to kids, to be teaching underage kids about sex, deviant or otherwise. Are they offering this instruction to 10 year olds. If it is in teen sex, then 10 year olds are reading it too. Maybe five year olds. As such, it seems to me that this leaps over into providing pornography to kids and that is illegal the last time I checked.

I believe this article was also promoting anal sex between men/boys, and hence, homosexual sex, and promoting it as good and healthy. Who wrote this article, NAMBLA. It sounds like it is setting young boys up to being used by older men.

If these things are to be shown to your teens and pre teens, it seems to me it should come from parents and material approved sex education classes.
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Anal Sex: What You Need to Know
How to do it the RIGHT way.
Gigi Engle
Jul 7, 2017 9:30AM EDT

When it comes to your body, it’s important that you have the facts. Being in the dark is not doing your sexual health or self-understanding any favors.

With that sentiment in mind, we’re here to lay it all out for you when it comes to anal sex.

It's important that we talk about all kinds of sex because not everyone is having, or wants to have, "penis in the vagina" sex. If you do have "penis in the vagina" sex and are curious about something else, or are finding that that type of sex is not for you and you'd just like to explore other options, it's helpful to know the facts. Even if you do learn more and decide anal sex is not a thing you'd like to try, it doesn't hurt to have the information.

If you're not comfortable reading about anal sex, that's perfectly OK, too. We have plenty of other articles around a variety of issues and wellness. Feel free to click out if you'd like! No pressure at all.

Obviously there is a lot of stuff on the Internet about anal (we don’t suggest you Google it), but most of what you’ll find is either porn or advice for experienced sexual persons looking to try something new. What about the teenagers? What about the LGBTQ young people who need to know about this for their sexual health?

I have got you covered. Without all the run-of-the-mill hoopla, here is the lowdown on everything you need to know about butt stuff, no matter who you are, whom you’re having sex with, or who you want to have sex with.

This is anal 101, for teens, beginners, and all inquisitive folk.

The anus is full of nerve endings that, for some, feel awesome when stimulated.
Why anal?

Anal sex, though often stigmatized, is a perfectly natural way to engage in sexual activity. People have been having anal sex since the dawn of humanity. Seriously, it's been documented back to the ancient Greeks and then some. So if you’re a little worried about trying it or are having trouble understanding the appeal, just know that it isn’t weird or gross.

The anus is full of nerve endings that, for some, feel awesome when stimulated. The opening of the butthole is where the the most nerves are, so you don’t have to put anything that far up there (if you don’t want to) for it to feel good.

That being said, anal (like all sex acts) is not enjoyed by everyone, and that’s totally OK. You should do what you feel comfortable with and what feels pleasurable for you. There is no wrong way to experience sexuality, and no way is better than any other.
The appeal of anal when you have a prostate

For those of you with prostates, being on the receiving end of anal sex can be a great experience.

First of all: What is a prostate? The prostate is a gland near the bladder that produces prostate fluid, one of the main elements of semen. It is located just in front of the rectum and can be stimulated with a toy, fingers, or penis. It feels like a solid, small bulge.

It feels good to have the prostate stimulated. This is one of the reasons receiving anal sex when you have a prostate can be very enjoyable. You can even have a prostate-induced orgasm!

The appeal of anal when you do not have a prostate

Just because you have a vagina does not mean anal is off-limits. Many vagina owners love anal play. You don’t need to have a prostate to enjoy anal sex. For those without a prostate, having your anus stimulated can still be great — remember all those nerve endings are still in the fold here.

It is often described as a feeling of fullness, which can be delightful.

The anus is not as malleable as a vagina, which has the ability to accommodate an infant’s head by design. The anus is very tight, and the feeling of having something in your rectal area is unique. It is often described as a feeling of fullness, which can be delightful.
How to ask your partner if they're ready to try anal

Whether you are planning to give or receive anal sex, a conversation must take place beforehand. Enthusiastic consent is necessary for both parties to enjoy the experience.

Asking for anal can be a bit daunting, no matter who you are. Have a one-on-one with your partner and let them know that this is something you want to try. Be honest about your feelings about it. In a healthy relationship, you should be able to discuss anything openly. Everyone wants to have a good experience. If they are into it, go ahead and get started.
Start slow — seriously

Here is the real deal. You can’t just decide you’re going to start having anal one day and then go for it, anchors away!

Nope. Not a great idea. You need to start slowly. The anus is a muscle that needs to be worked up to having larger objects inserted. Start with finger or a small (I do mean v. small) butt plug and either warm yourself up or have a partner help. To do this, lube up your finger or toy and gently massage the anus. As you feel more aroused and comfortable, work the object inside. Gently move it around to loosen up the area.

Never put any toy up your butt that does not have a flared base. You do not want to lose anything up there — the rectum is expansive. No, you cannot just “poop it out.”

When you do have anal sex, go slowly.

When you do have anal sex, go slowly. Regular communication with your partner will keep things level. If something hurts, say so and stop. Take a breather. Be sure to relax as much as possible. If you tense up, it will make things much more difficult and therefore less fun.
Lube is a must

Lube is essential for comfortable (and safe) anal sex. The anus does not naturally lubricate the way a vagina does. If you want to have a good experience, the more lube the better.

Condoms are also nonnegotiable. There is no risk of pregnancy during anal sex, but STIs are widespread and abundant. Protect yourself and practice safe sex every single time.

When it comes to lube, silicone-based lubes are easier for anal sex, as they are slippier and tend to stay on longer. The problem? Some silicone lubes corrode latex due to a high oil content, which can cause condoms to break. Google the silicone lube you're considering using before trying it with condoms.

Likewise, stay clear of all oil-based lubes, as these too can damage the integrity of a latex condom. When in doubt, go for a water-based, unscented, unflavored lubricant if you're unsure about the lube you're using.
Yes, there might be some poop

Forgive me for waiting until the very end of this piece to get to this burning question, but I wanted you to know the benefits and positives when it comes to anal. Because there are many!

Yes, you will come in contact with some fecal matter.

I want to personally assure you that that you will not poop on anyone during anal sex. Sure, there are horror stories, but aren’t there always?

That being said, yes, you will come in contact with some fecal matter. You are entering a butthole. It is where poop comes out. Expecting to do anal play and see zero poop isn’t particularly realistic. It’s NOT a big deal. Everyone poops. Everyone has a butt.

Anal sex and anal stimulation can be awesome, and if you want to give it a go, you do that. More power to you.

PaulPisces Loc: San Francisco

No.

PaulPisces Loc: San Francisco

What, what, what???

You lead by saying you did not read the article, then proceed to post it!

Which am I to believe? That you truly did not read the article you shared with OPP?Or that you you did and, forgetting that you had, have proceeded to extrapolate all kinds of nefarious things from an article you cannot remember?

I am confused!

archie bunker Loc: Texas

This should not be allowed to be taught to our children. If parents want to teach it in their own home, or the kids reach adulthood, and choose to explore this it is their business. But it shouldn't be put out there like this in my opinion.
Archie 100% disapproves!

eden

Funny how fame and notoriety are so similar. You posted this I suspect because you were offended but you managed to provide the subject a default megaphone that inadvertently expanded its audience. Ah the irony.

E

I'm sure you are confused as usual. At the time I wrote that line of not reading the article, there was no link to it and I had just read commentary. After writing that I decided to look further. Googled: TeenVogue, Anal Sex, or something like that. I then read the post and printed it so we can all see what it is about. I still think that is not the appropriate place or means to advocate any type of sexual activity, especially to young children who will get access to that article. Understand now?

badbobby Loc: texas

badbobby
100% disaproval

PaulPisces Loc: San Francisco

Thanks for clarifying.

PaulPisces Loc: San Francisco

Arch-You might be surprised to find I am not sure that Teen Vogue was the best place to share this information either.

I'm generally in favor of sharing information that will help young people make informed choices about sex (or anything else for that matter). Lord knows our families and culture still do little more than say "Don't do X" with little explanation of why. And you know what happens when kids are told not to do something!

I don't really see how this article advocates FOR anal sex, nor is it the least pornographic.

But I think it fails in its flip treatment of the topic, despite its logical information. And it does not seem to encourage conversation with its target audience's (youth) parents.

My guess is there are few kids really interested in anal sex, but if they are, it seems unlikely they will get much factual information from their parents.

I think this is much ado about nothing.

E

Okay

PeterS

Still scraping the pages of the homo section eh propaganda? Curious obsession you have there buddy. Well scrape away, enjoy....