Not according to your original post. He cursed, you got mad parked next to him, he tipped his hat......

Sorry, which story is true? The one you told in the original post or this one?

Kitten is now in anger management class, making progress. So glad that you pointed this out. I had just though it was kittens playing, but great observation. I hope his replacement meets with your approval.

Excellent solution. I park far out too, one reason I like my automobile and do not want it pitted with doors being accidently opened into it. And, I love to walk. Of course being retired, I have the extra time. I figure those that are handicap, are in a big hurry, or parents with small children need to be closer to the store. And I can always use the extra exercise.

I agree. In this situation, I would have recognized that I had overparked the line, then thought about the person that was parked near me or the next person that may need to park near me, and I would have backed out and reparked and gone about my business. But, that is just the way I am. I do not believe in revenge, and I do not often become angry. I realize that when a person becomes upset with me, I have to examine myself to see if they are justified. If they are not justified, then I must consider that they may be just having a bad day, or that is their nature. Either way, I do not have to participate or acerbate the issue. I can take the high ground.

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I sure hope that you intended this as a joke for the readers here to enjoy, otherwise you did do a very mean thing. I often think about what motivates people. Let us look at this, you parked over the line and someone said something stupid. Your choice, correct your parking effort, ignore the remarks, or become highly offended and do something rash. You selected to become angry. He "turned around and tipped his (I am assuming) hat. Where I come from, tipping one's hat is friendly. Then you followed this person around "and made sure he knew." That is aggressive behavior. So, you intimidated another person and you feel good about it. I fail to see what you accomplished. Revenge? For what, you reparking your truck? You were over the yellow line.
People do the strangest things.

She has your email address and that of a few others, she promised to write and let you know. Do not worry, I am in good hands! :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :D :D :D

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"True! So let's see i don't own any s***es, I'm not getting rich off of sweat of other's, my family is in the quote biracial category I'm intelligent, have a smart attractive wife, my children are well the and balanced. I can juggle many things at once I'm thinking I'm more like President Obama."

I have no idea to whom they were talking as they did not use the quote reply button, and no one had greeted them, so I welcomed them to OPP.

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I took that trip into my thinking when I was a youngster. I have had to repeat it several times. It does not get easier, but you are better for it.

All I can say, is good for you! :thumbup: :thumbup:

Really?

I am off to bed. I will see you all in two weeks. Keep dancing and smiling. A hug to you all!

I am tall, 5'9" which is tall for a woman. When I was in Africa, I ran into a tribe of people that made me seem real short. Those ladies were close to 7 feet. My niece took a pix, I am in the middle and I am craning my neck to look up to them, otherwise I would be looking directly at their belly buttons. The ladies are all looking down and one actually has her legs bent so she is only a foot taller than me! It is a funny photo!!!

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Oh but I understand, you are a forgiving kind gentle loving person who has found it better to forgive, but never let anyone put the past where it belongs. A person not wanting pity may relay their story once, but they do not keep repeating it embellishing it more and more. People that forgive, remembers the past but only to use as a guidelines or a useful tool so they can see their future. A bitter person, keeps the anger, the h**e, the exact words that were said so alive it is like reliving it everyday. They know the smallest details because they h**e and no one will take that h**e and anger from them because that is all they have. And it shows. The se******n of words, their need to argue a point until their opponent gives up. They crave pity, but they do not want anyone to say it out loud, they want an apology, but have no idea of how to accept one, they simply want revenge but do not know how to exact a justified action, so they complain how awful the white man is/was/and ever shall be, they go into graphic detail of the sins and wrongs that another committed, and then the put the cherry on top by saying "you don't understand." god forbid that someone bring up any bad decisions of your tribe, or race, because then that person has to be a r****t. Never mind that you have just gone on and on of how awful white men are. That is not r****t.

So, I say to you that I was wrong in trying to befriend or encourage you. You are a hostile person and your intent is not discussion but to vent your hatred. I will not be a party to feeding your anger. Good Luck!