Thank you, I will be interested in your thoughts. Be prepared for someone inviting you to dinner. And be prepared. If you go Orthadox and you take your spouse, warn her NOT to touch any of the men. Not because they do not like touching, you will need to read about it; too long to go into here.
bahmer wrote:
As soon as I go I will let you know how my experience was and I am sure that it will be interesting and fun.
More than a few on OPP think of themselves as perfect. I would not be surprised if they do not walk around with holes in their wrist and feet. I am sure that they routinely raise the dead, cure the blind, and walk on water. I have compiled a list, and when the end comes I want to make sure that I am standing next to one of these people who I have paid to vouch for my complete innocence of any wrong doing.
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Thank you for your comment, but my question is about forgiving. Can a person forgive someone without forgetting the issue? Or are we hard wired so that we can not forget but still forgive and not carry a grudge. My view is that in order to truly forgive then forgetting it, letting the grudge go is imperative. My neighbor says that you can forgive and not carry a grudge, but you are incapable of forgetting. I am beginning to think that the average person is not able to forget what they consider an injustice. One person actually told me that if a person is affronted that it is their fault and not that of the other person. I find that to be rather odd. Most people see my neighbor's view as correct and thus far people see mine as an impossibility.
Secret Alchemist wrote:
I find it alot easier to control my mouth than my brain. It's my nature to analyze every detail of life so it's near impossible for me to forget much of anything. I just mentally label memories as "problem" or "not a problem" and let them go where they will in my mind. I only speak about things that are a problem so it doesn't matter what I remember.
You are most welcome, and now that I see that you are new; allow me to welcome you. I will look for your posts and hope that we can find areas to discuss. Even when we will disagree, I will keep my own advice in mind and I will always strive to be civil and respect your ideas.
J Anthony wrote:
Thanks Ginny. I appreciate that alot.
I am not quite sure to whom you are directing your comment. So, allow me to jump right on in. Many people that are overweight is because they are addicted to food additives, and substitutes....instead of eating honey or fruit to satisfy their sweet tooth they go for diet soda and man made syrup. A bad thing happens. Your brain is demanding glucose and it knows exactly how to get that into the system fast is with naturally sweet foods. Humans being scolded and made to feel inadequate due to their size has stopped consuming those supposedly fatting food and consume man made garbage, so the brain demands and we give it artificial, brain is still in need so it sends a more powerful request and this is why people stop at doughnut shops and can not eat just one plain donut. Also, the taste receptors in the mouth stop sensing sugar and that confuses the brain. The artificial garbage also k**ls off enzymes in the gut that would send a turn off signal to the brain, so the brain continues to demand and we are not smart enough to give it what it needs. We fall victim to advertisements. There is a treatment and it works for 100 percent of these people. Remove all artificial sweeteners, preservatives and dyes from the diet. Your body was not designed to process these things. It keeps pharmaceutical companies and big processing plants in business. They are not there for your health but for the coin in the pocket book. That means that most factory made breads, most frozen dinners, canned food...... and go to a complete natural diet. Fruit, vegetables that are raw and you have to cook, and if you eat meat or fish then make it fresh. And to loose weight, do not bother spending money on a gym; simple things like get rid of the remote control and actually get up and change channels, mow your own lawn, when you go to the store park further away from the entrance, stand up when you talk on the phone, if you see trash on your sidewalk bend over and pick it up. Now to address your question, no I am not fat. I am 64 and I weigh the same as when I was 21 and entered the service. In fact I wear the same size clothes. But I am a vegan and never acquired the taste for processed foods. I do however have a niece that is plus size and she struggles with it and my heart goes out to her. On a brighter note, she asked me for help and she is now down 37 pounds in 3 months with just the changes I mentioned above and she says that she is no longer hungry all the time. I honestly think that large people are a product of genes, life style, and big business. When I see someone that is overweight, I do not see them as lazy or inadequate; I see a person that has not learned how business profit from slowly k*****g us with pills and the prepackaged life style we have become dependent upon. To me, it is not funny or amusing to belittle these people.
Kidriculous wrote:
Dude, are you fat? You make an awful lot of fat references, seems like you have an issue that you are trying to work out on this post, fat limburg, New Jersey fats, do you realize that torturing overweight people is one of the last acceptable forms of bigotry. Take a selfie.... if your huge head can fit into one....look at it close... and maybe you can see what's wrong. It may just be you. Why don't you try and stay on a topic? you're not that funny.
Thank you Grace,
It is good to be back! How are you doing? I have from time to time dropped in and have read many of your posts. You always give great thought to your posts. You and I are like minded in this question. I know that people have disagreements, even fights, but I think that realizing that is not the same as holding a grudge and indeed forgiving and forgetting go hand in hand. Not that you can just snap the finger and make it go away, but you can forgive and forget. Thank you!
grace scott wrote:
As I said in another post, I'm glad you are back and doing OK. When I started reading this, my answer would have been "You can forgive, but you can't forget."
I was married for 40 years, and I can't remember anything we fought about. I know we did. I just can't remember what. So you can forgive and forget.
Old_Gringo wrote:
Not always Tom. He is always lurking inside trying to get out. If we are very careful, we can contain him. Once in a great while, in a moment of weakness, he escapes. When that occurs we are shamed to no end, and vow to try and let it never again happen. We are only human, with all the foibles of human beings, and must always be on guard to restrain that evil wolf residing inside us. It has nothing to do with politics. It is a constant battle between good and evil.
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son of witless wrote:
A local radio personality called California the Granola State. Nothing but fruits, flakes, and nuts.
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Can't comment, laughing too hard!
fom wrote:
Well that was the Airforce. In the Army we were in some run down old Baracks and the food was well-- it kept you alive. The Airforce saw a lot of action. I was on a base where the shot up planes from Veit Nam were flown in to be dismanteled.
I do not mean disrespect, but I was in the Air Force and to my knowledge the food was good, the duty was light, and I had a very enjoyable career. So did my husband. And, please refer to it as Air Force. Two words, proper noun. Thank you.
Actually we are Hasidic Jew, very Orthodox. Even the ladies still wear wigs in public.
Duckie will be flattered that you remember her. I would love to take the credit for Duckie being as strong as she is, but it is all her. I can say that I am indeed a very blessed old woman!
When you find a synagogue near you, just keep in mind that service is on Saturday; you will be welcomed with warmth and hospitality. Do not worry about anything, the men will guide you. And do not expect anyone to try to preach to you or convert you. Just enjoy yourself. Most of the Orthodox services are very simple. The temple is not ornate, simple and warm. I wish I were closer to you or you closer to us, we would gladly take you with us! And be proud to introduce you to everyone!
bahmer wrote:
OK so you are Orthodox then.Tell Duckie I am sorry for believing that she was a he and that he/she was your son. Anyway thank her for keeping us informed as to your health and progress through your surgery etc. We are all glad that you are up and about. I will then change the compliment to you have a fine and wonderful daughter and you should be very proud of her. Unfortunately the liberals or progressives you know the ones that are soooo understanding are the ones that scream the loudest if you disagree with them in any way shape or form. I will try to find an Orthodox Synagogue here in my area as soon as the weather warms to above 30 degrees. Again wishing you well and say high to your children your are truly a blessing and a tribute to you.
OK so you are Orthodox then.Tell Duckie I am sorry... (
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sorry....me and my mouse is parting ways. He has a mind of his own and wants to post opinions that are not necessarily what I want to say...we have a confusing relationship.
No really, another duplicate post!
Again, you do not have to prove your "niceness."
fom wrote:
Ok well heres some nice things i do. When my nieghbors are away and tell me they will be gone. I mow their grass. I built two school bus shelters on my street with my own labor and funds. I give payment terms to my poor customers. I donate blood.61 pints so far. I feed a stray cat in my shop. I cook breakfasts at my church. I go to funerals in a tuxedo. I sometimes give money to hungry people.. When people are behaving badly I am subtle as can be but they get my drift.