Oldsailor65 Loc: Iowa

A Winter Friend

This article is so befitting for all of us... take time to ponder... the last statement printed in red cannot be refuted:
READ SLOWLY!

AND THEN IT IS WINTER
You know time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of the passing years. It seems like yesterday that I was young, just married, and embarking on my new life with my mate. Yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all those years went.

I know that I lived them all. I have glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams. But, here it is... the winter of my life, and it catches me by surprise... How did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my youth go? I remember well seeing older people through the years and thinking that those "older people" were years away from me and that winter was so far off that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like.

But, here it is...my friends are retired and getting grey... they move slower and I see an older person in myself now. Some are in better and some worse shape than me... but, I see the great change... Not like the ones that I remember who were young and vibrant...but, like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those older folks that we used to see and never thought we'd be.

Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore... it's mandatory! Cause if I don't on my own free will... I just fall asleep where I sit!

And so... now I enter this new season of my life unprepared for all the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things that I wish I had done but never did!! But, at least I know, that though the winter has come, and I'm not sure how long it will last... this I know, that when it's over on this earth... it's over. A new adventure will begin!

Yes, I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn't done... things I should have done, but indeed, there are also many things I'm happy to have done. It's all in a lifetime.

So, if you're not in your winter yet... let me remind you, that it will be here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in your life, please do it quickly! Don't put things off too long!! Life goes by quickly. So, do what you can TODAY, as you can never be sure whether this is your winter or not!

You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life... so, LIVE FOR TODAY and say all the things that you want your loved ones to remember.. and hope that they appreciate and love you for all the things that you have done for them in all the years past!!

"Life" is a GIFT to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those who come after. Make it a fantastic one.

Remember: "It is Health that is real Wealth and not pieces of gold and silver."

~Your kids are becoming you......but your grandchildren are perfect!

~Going out is good.. coming home is even better!

~You forget names... but it's OK, because other people forgot they even knew you!!!

~You realize you're never going to be perfect at everything.... especially golf.

~The things you used to care to do, you no longer care to do, but you really do care that you don't care to do them anymore.


~You sleep better on a lounge chair with the TV blaring than in bed. It's called "pre-sleep."

~You miss the days when everything worked with just an "ON" and "OFF" switch..

~You tend to use more 4 letter words .. "what?"..."when?"..???

~Now that you can afford expensive jewelry, it's not safe to wear it anywhere.

~You notice everything they sell in stores is "sleeveless?!"

~What used to be freckles are now liver spots.

~Everybody whispers.

~You have 3 sizes of clothes in your closet.... 2 of which you will never wear.

~But "Old" is good in some things: Old Songs, Old movies ..and best of all, our dear ...OLD FRIENDS!!

Stay well, "OLD FRIEND!" Send this on to other "Old Friends" and let them laugh in agreement!

bggamers Loc: georgia

Yes winter is truly here for me as well thanks for the post

no propaganda please Loc: moon orbiting the third rock from the sun

Yes, winter is here for both SWMBO and me too, but it is not the winter of our discontent, but rather a winter of faith and dreams, and, for us, a larger and larger family of "our boys" and their families. After my next visit to the hospital, we will start planning the schedule for a number of our boys and their families to visit us and share the woods, the herds of deer that visit daily, and the amazing family and friends we have amassed over the years. We have been so very blessed.
Tomorrow we go visit our long time friends so we can play with the new litter of Welsh Terrier puppies (related to our Chaos) before the puppies go off to their new homes. Since we have three Corsos, one Welsh and a Staffy Bull, we will play with the puppies but leave them there.

meridianlesilie Loc: mars

i try not to remember winter ..

Tug484

A lot of us are getting snow on the roof.

Lt. Rob Polans ret.

I once asked the doctor who set my ankle about my rotator cuff. According to him, "See your white hair, same reason." I've had salt and pepper hair plus brown all of my adult life. Now it would make sense and now I should have surgery. Will I? I'll ride it out until the shoulder is killing me. However, there's no brown left just grey and white.

Tug484

My husband got knocked off a rig and ruined his rotator cuff.
His ligaments broke and fell down around his elbow.
This required a second surgery.
The Dr. stapled them back up and told him they were like grey hairs.
He couldn't reach up to comb his hair.
I had to stand behind him and fasten his Levi's.
I told my brother a joke about this and his mouth dropped open.
I told him they asked him in court how high can you raise your arm.
I held my arm up as far as my husband could.
Then I said, they asked him how high he could raise it before the accident.
I raised my arm all the way up and his mouth flew open.
I said, it's a joke.
Then I did the zoom motion over my head.
I said you'll go bald at this rate.