The common ground is that it's dirty and must be controlled, but only the women, or the person playing the woman, must be controlled. And the women are the ones who get punished. I think possibly shame about sex and the resulting exertion of control over women underlies Judaic religions.
I agree, Fluffy. Some of the fundies think that sex is a dirty disgraceful thing. I am sure that was engraved in their brains at birth by "The I Only Have Sex to Procreate Brigade."