Self defense for the ladies in our lives
Oct 12, 2014 17:38:18 #
Hi Sweetheart:
Ok, here is the lowdown on how a woman, regardless of size, can physically defend herself from a male attacker.
Please distribute this to all of your female friends and relatives. I do not pretend to be a martial arts expert. Far from it. My martial arts experience comes from 50 years on the streets of Da' Bronx, New York.
My problem with all the "advice" on the Internet about defending yourself is that it actually dangerous. The website you directed me to was well meaning, but dangerous. Here is the basic t***h: a woman cannot fight a man by grabbing and squeezing his arm or his thigh. All you will do is anger him. And you will pay the price. The only way a woman can fight a man is to completely disable him, in other words, "take him out."
Yes, a small woman can "take out" a much larger, stronger man. The trick is to attack his vulnerabilities.
The e-mail you sent me advises you to "Kick him in the groin." This is suicide!!! It is exactly what he is waiting for. He will sidestep your kick, grab your leg, and flip you over on your back, which is exactly where he wants you to be.
Scenario One: A man approaches you from the front and attacks you. Usually, it will be by grabbing your neck and choking you. That is actually good, because both his hands are occupied.
Defense: 1. Form the fingers of your stronger hand into a fork and stab him in the eyes. Fight over!! He is on the ground rolling around in excruciating pain while you walk away. It is usually wise to feint with your other hand first. Simply throw it out away from your body so that, even for an instant, his eyes follow it. That is all the time you need. Then call the Police, when you are safely away from the area.
Defense 2: The man is wearing some type of eyeglasses. Now form the fingers of your stronger hand into a spear shape and drive them into his Adam's Apple. Be aware that, perfectly delivered, this is a k*****g blow. You will crush his windpipe. Do you care? I don't!!! Then just walk away and call the police (or the coroner)!
Scenario two: The man comes up behind you and throws his arms around you.
Defense 1: You are tall enough that your head and his head are on roughly on a par. Lean forward as far as you possibly can, and then, with all your strength, throw your head back. You will break his nose, maybe his jaw, and certainly knock out some teeth. He will be in great pain, but he is not disabled. Now go to the advice above. Spin around in his relaxed grip and go for his eyes or his throat. End of story.
Defense 2: You are much shorter. OK...another point of vulnerability is the instep of the foot. This works best if you are wearing high heels, but even flat shoes can work. With all you strength, tromp down on the instep of his foot. The pain is God-awful. This will break his grip and enable you to spin around and go for his eyes or throat.
Defense 3. This is a last resort, but, if all else fails, it is worth a try. Extend both arms as far as his grip will permit, and with all you strength, bring your elbows back into his ribs. If it works right, it will break his grip and permit you to do your thing.
These are not airhead suggestions, Sweetheart. They can save your life. I strongly suggest that women should practice the moves, just in case. Particularly the "Other Hand" feint. It is an important part of your response to his attack.
I have just pissed of a lot of men, because I have given you control over your own body. Chalk it up to my red headed Irish mother, who had rather strong feelings on this subject.
Love N' Stuff
Gene
Ok, here is the lowdown on how a woman, regardless of size, can physically defend herself from a male attacker.
Please distribute this to all of your female friends and relatives. I do not pretend to be a martial arts expert. Far from it. My martial arts experience comes from 50 years on the streets of Da' Bronx, New York.
My problem with all the "advice" on the Internet about defending yourself is that it actually dangerous. The website you directed me to was well meaning, but dangerous. Here is the basic t***h: a woman cannot fight a man by grabbing and squeezing his arm or his thigh. All you will do is anger him. And you will pay the price. The only way a woman can fight a man is to completely disable him, in other words, "take him out."
Yes, a small woman can "take out" a much larger, stronger man. The trick is to attack his vulnerabilities.
The e-mail you sent me advises you to "Kick him in the groin." This is suicide!!! It is exactly what he is waiting for. He will sidestep your kick, grab your leg, and flip you over on your back, which is exactly where he wants you to be.
Scenario One: A man approaches you from the front and attacks you. Usually, it will be by grabbing your neck and choking you. That is actually good, because both his hands are occupied.
Defense: 1. Form the fingers of your stronger hand into a fork and stab him in the eyes. Fight over!! He is on the ground rolling around in excruciating pain while you walk away. It is usually wise to feint with your other hand first. Simply throw it out away from your body so that, even for an instant, his eyes follow it. That is all the time you need. Then call the Police, when you are safely away from the area.
Defense 2: The man is wearing some type of eyeglasses. Now form the fingers of your stronger hand into a spear shape and drive them into his Adam's Apple. Be aware that, perfectly delivered, this is a k*****g blow. You will crush his windpipe. Do you care? I don't!!! Then just walk away and call the police (or the coroner)!
Scenario two: The man comes up behind you and throws his arms around you.
Defense 1: You are tall enough that your head and his head are on roughly on a par. Lean forward as far as you possibly can, and then, with all your strength, throw your head back. You will break his nose, maybe his jaw, and certainly knock out some teeth. He will be in great pain, but he is not disabled. Now go to the advice above. Spin around in his relaxed grip and go for his eyes or his throat. End of story.
Defense 2: You are much shorter. OK...another point of vulnerability is the instep of the foot. This works best if you are wearing high heels, but even flat shoes can work. With all you strength, tromp down on the instep of his foot. The pain is God-awful. This will break his grip and enable you to spin around and go for his eyes or throat.
Defense 3. This is a last resort, but, if all else fails, it is worth a try. Extend both arms as far as his grip will permit, and with all you strength, bring your elbows back into his ribs. If it works right, it will break his grip and permit you to do your thing.
These are not airhead suggestions, Sweetheart. They can save your life. I strongly suggest that women should practice the moves, just in case. Particularly the "Other Hand" feint. It is an important part of your response to his attack.
I have just pissed of a lot of men, because I have given you control over your own body. Chalk it up to my red headed Irish mother, who had rather strong feelings on this subject.
Love N' Stuff
Gene
Oct 12, 2014 18:08:14 #
wallstreetgypsy wrote:
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Oct 12, 2014 18:11:42 #
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Gene, do you think carrying a can of mace aerosol spray could be sufficient?
Oct 12, 2014 18:40:15 #
Brian Devon wrote:
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Gene, do you think carrying a can of mace aerosol spray could be sufficient?
Gene, do you think carrying a can of mace aerosol spray could be sufficient?
Probably not. Most women would put it in their purse. The first thing they will do is drop their purse. Pepper spray is better. If an individual carries such, it needs to be accessible...as in a pocket.
Oct 12, 2014 19:02:00 #
Actually, I posted this in the hope that I would get additional suggestions. However, suppose the attack occured suddenly in a restricted space like an elevator. The woman would never have time to dig around in her purse for a spray.
Oct 12, 2014 19:18:30 #
AuntiE wrote:
Probably not. Most women would put it in their purse. The first thing they will do is drop their purse. Pepper spray is better. If an individual carries such, it needs to be accessible...as in a pocket.
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Good to know. Thanks, AuntiE.
Oct 12, 2014 20:00:12 #
wallstreetgypsy wrote:
Actually, I posted this in the hope that I would get additional suggestions. However, suppose the attack occured suddenly in a restricted space like an elevator. The woman would never have time to dig around in her purse for a spray.
Nice long old fashioned hair/hat pin...that and get yourself a carry concealed permit and train as much as you can...get used to using your handgun and in different situations. Target practice and do combat course shooting...set up some full scale targets in the home and use an airsoft handgun to train with.
Oct 12, 2014 20:35:04 #
America Only wrote:
Nice long old fashioned hair/hat pin...that and get yourself a carry concealed permit and train as much as you can...get used to using your handgun and in different situations. Target practice and do combat course shooting...set up some full scale targets in the home and use an airsoft handgun to train with.
Good old fashion metal nail file.
Oct 13, 2014 08:13:23 #
wallstreetgypsy wrote:
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so what if you piss off the men, they probably could use the same defensive moves.
Conceal carry would also help, pepper spray and Life Alert. "Life Alert" could also help the damn fool whom messed with you. {Me thinks that he will need it} :lol: :lol: :lol:
Oct 13, 2014 12:16:00 #
The instructions noted also work for Men. It is a fact that the throat and eyes are sure ways to take out a larger man
Oct 13, 2014 13:02:41 #
wallstreetgypsy wrote:
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Great suggestions! Unfortunately, most people, men too, will freeze and not think through their options in these situations. Hence, they're becoming "victims."
Oct 13, 2014 13:16:54 #
AuntiE wrote:
Good old fashion metal nail file.
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"Ah, excuse me, Mister Mugger. Just a moment while I reach into my purse to retrieve my nail file. Okay?" :shock: :shock:
Generally, a mugger has one of two things on their mind, robbery or rape. Generally, a mugger isn't out to k**l.
If it's robbery, your purse is his target. So, your reaching into it to get your file only alerts him to its possible danger toward him. If it's a rape, he's going to try to get you defenseless, first. He'll either knock you out first, or get you where you can't get to any weapons by taking your purse from you.
This is why women should carry their defensive weaponry somewhere other than a purse. A coat pocket or pants pocket is bette; and, if in a fight, both are not where an attacker will expect a weapon to be carried by a woman. :thumbup: :thumbup:
Oct 13, 2014 13:18:08 #
AuntiE wrote:
Good old fashion metal nail file.
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Cute aviator. Sniper Kitty!
Oct 13, 2014 13:48:57 #
alabuck wrote:
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As with my statement concerning pepper spray and your statement, you keep defensive items in your pocket. Actually, it has been said keeping car keys in your hand is an excellent idea. Apparently, held correctly they can be a good defensive weapon. I would be willing to practice on you...okay? :-D :-P
Oct 13, 2014 13:51:40 #
alabuck wrote:
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Cute aviator. Sniper Kitty!
Cute aviator. Sniper Kitty!
Aiming toward TN today. :D
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