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DNA Discovery Trauma
Jan 13, 2021 03:08:12   #
Momof2cats
 
I’m new to this forum. Interested in success stories of people that were traumatized when they discovered thru DNA testing that they weren’t who they thought they were. What/how did they eventually accept who they are now?

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Jan 13, 2021 04:10:58   #
debeda
 
Momof2cats wrote:
I’m new to this forum. Interested in success stories of people that were traumatized when they discovered thru DNA testing that they weren’t who they thought they were. What/how did they eventually accept who they are now?


My cousin (age 62) found out her dad was not her dad this past summer. Her mom's first husband was purportedly her dad, he wasn't the best person. Her mom (my aunt) always was putting her down saying she'd be just like her dad, dishonest, and be fat like her dad's sister.
She felt like her whole life was a lie, and she didn't know who she was. Luckily she's married to a terrific guy, and they've got 3 great sons, and everyone supported her through this. But she told me it was an incredible shock and really rocked her.

Welcome to OPP, and great opening post🌞🌞🌞

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Jan 13, 2021 08:45:45   #
lpnmajor Loc: Arkansas
 
Momof2cats wrote:
I’m new to this forum. Interested in success stories of people that were traumatized when they discovered thru DNA testing that they weren’t who they thought they were. What/how did they eventually accept who they are now?


Are you referring to the alien hybrids?

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Jan 13, 2021 10:35:26   #
Canuckus Deploracus Loc: North of the wall
 
lpnmajor wrote:
Are you referring to the alien hybrids?


Lizard people....

(everyone knows aliens aren't real)

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Jan 13, 2021 11:02:30   #
lpnmajor Loc: Arkansas
 
Canuckus Deploracus wrote:
Lizard people....

(everyone knows aliens aren't real)


Oh, right. My bad.

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Jan 13, 2021 12:30:13   #
debeda
 
lpnmajor wrote:
Are you referring to the alien hybrids?



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Jan 13, 2021 12:40:07   #
skyrider
 
Momof2cats wrote:
I’m new to this forum. Interested in success stories of people that were traumatized when they discovered thru DNA testing that they weren’t who they thought they were. What/how did they eventually accept who they are now?


Fortunately , that is a question I don't have to think about. It is nice however to have a poster like you that poses
thought provoking questions.
On the lite side --If you are the Mom of 2 Cats.............................................................

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Jan 13, 2021 21:23:52   #
Canuckus Deploracus Loc: North of the wall
 
Momof2cats wrote:
I’m new to this forum. Interested in success stories of people that were traumatized when they discovered thru DNA testing that they weren’t who they thought they were. What/how did they eventually accept who they are now?


Few years back my mom took a DNA test and learned that her dad wasn't her dad

He was ten years dead, and they weren't close...

Awkward conversation with my grandmother though

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Jan 13, 2021 21:31:32   #
debeda
 
Canuckus Deploracus wrote:
Few years back my mom took a DNA test and learned that her dad wasn't her dad

He was ten years dead, and they weren't close...

Awkward conversation with my grandmother though
Few years back my mom took a DNA test and learned ... (show quote)


Omigosh didnt know that!! Kinda same as my cousin, but my aunt was gone, too.

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Jan 14, 2021 03:07:15   #
Canuckus Deploracus Loc: North of the wall
 
debeda wrote:
Omigosh didnt know that!! Kinda same as my cousin, but my aunt was gone, too.


Nah... It's cool... My mom is fine with it... Except she's named for the guy😂😂😂

When she confronted my grandma she asked who her real father was and my grandma told her that was hard to say... There were a number of options😂😂😂😂

My mom was born after my grandma's first divorce... He was an abusive drunk... And my grandma went through a rough period...

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Jan 14, 2021 06:40:03   #
billy a Loc: South Florida
 
Momof2cats wrote:
I’m new to this forum. Interested in success stories of people that were traumatized when they discovered thru DNA testing that they weren’t who they thought they were. What/how did they eventually accept who they are now?


I'm a recovering alcoholic, and I often wondered if the genetic aspect had any merit. Then my Dad died, and we cremated him. It took three days for that fire to go out...

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Jan 14, 2021 14:00:30   #
Wonttakeitanymore
 
Momof2cats wrote:
I’m new to this forum. Interested in success stories of people that were traumatized when they discovered thru DNA testing that they weren’t who they thought they were. What/how did they eventually accept who they are now?


I have a friend that is a racist ! She found out that she has black in her! Now when she badmouths blacks my brother says hey is that anyways to talk about ur peeps?

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Jan 14, 2021 14:02:16   #
Wonttakeitanymore
 
billy a wrote:
I'm a recovering alcoholic, and I often wondered if the genetic aspect had any merit. Then my Dad died, and we cremated him. It took three days for that fire to go out...


And now u know!!!

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Jan 14, 2021 14:31:32   #
debeda
 
Canuckus Deploracus wrote:
Nah... It's cool... My mom is fine with it... Except she's named for the guy😂😂😂

When she confronted my grandma she asked who her real father was and my grandma told her that was hard to say... There were a number of options😂😂😂😂

My mom was born after my grandma's first divorce... He was an abusive drunk... And my grandma went through a rough period...


Ohhhhhh 🌞

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