This is a good basic list and much appreciated. So thank you. Long ago I stumbled onto an article on Forum Etiquette, it is not just directed at religious people, so I beg your indulgence for expanding this out to be inclusive to non-Christians. This list is lacking and not complete, but I think that it complements your list. I wrote down the important parts of the guide and I keep it close.
The author, sorry I do not know who it was, it is an old article and I do not know the web address, started off "Forum etiquette means maintaining a standard of posting behavior that is acceptable and appropriate. Forum etiquette can be flexible, according to the subject of the forum, but there are certain standards most people expect others to maintain. Some lines must be drawn for the safety of all posting on the forum." He/She went on with a short, but important list:
1. Never post personal information about other people. Even if that poster has all but drawn a map to his house, posting a real name or address could compromise someone's safety
2. Keep it civil.
3. Never practice scrolling. Posting the same thing over and over is scrolling. Even if you change the topic line, but are caught in a loop of posting the same information under the guise of a new topic. It is annoying in the extreme and uses up bandwidth, which someone is paying for. It is entirely unnecessary and makes the poster look immature and childish.
4. Don't become a troll. Trolls tend to scroll, call names, gossip about other posters, inject personal opinions of other posters, post things that are deliberately provocative and usually that violate the forum's rules about posting. Most moderators hasten to get them banned as soon as possible, but they can sometimes do a lot of damage before this happens.
5. Avoid as much as possible use of all caps. This is considered shouting and is very rude, in addition to being hard on the eyes. Something may be in caps for emphasis (e.g. I did NOT want to go!), but no post should be entirely in all caps.
6. Avoid Flaming, or deliberate insults or personal rants. Flaming is often employed by people who are losing arguments on a forum. Their response is to personally insult the poster disagreeing with them.
7. If you are using someone else's work, give them credit. Plagiarism is a strict No No. It is okay to use their work, providing that they are consenting, but to copy it without giving credit to the author is wrong. Wong legally and wrong morally.
8. Follow the golden rule, treat others as you want to be treated.
rumitoid wrote:
Below are listed my new Rules of Engagement not only for OPP but in the real world as well. (When some of you read them you'll think, "It's about time this jerk got some sense.") I have a hard copy pasted to my computer just in case I get carried away in the heat of the moment. Being honest, my answers to the questions below were not pleasing for me. I have at times made comments that were not loving in tone. I have at times been judgmental and arrogant. I have at times said things to a certain few people here that were scandalous and insulting. My comments have not always been "edifying, helpful, or uplifting." This is going to change today, with the help of God. For this I pray.
Rules of Engagement:
Is my tone loving?
Am I judging someone I dont even know? (and if you are, DONT POST THE COMMENT.)
Would I make this comment, and make it the same way, if I were having a face to face conversation with this person?
Does this comment make the message of Jesus more attractive?
("More attractive" does not mean watering down truth but simply treating others as Imago Dei.)
"Is my comment edifying, helpful, or uplifting?
"Finally, read your comment and ask yourself 'Does thi(When some of you read thems sound like something Jesus would say?'
The above questions were taken from this article, something I wish (and others here as well) I had read or thought of a lot sooner:
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/formerlyfundie/dear-fundamentalist-trolls-youre-not-helping-anyone-and-i-say-this-in-love/Below are listed my new Rules of Engagement not on... (
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