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For twenty years, I had always liked our differnet tasks
Oct 22, 2017 18:32:23   #
MtnMamma
 
He had strengths and weaknesses, as had I. We respected and honored those differences. Few seem today to understand that basic principle of relationships. It is not sexist, merely wisely practical

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Oct 22, 2017 19:25:08   #
solarkin
 
MtnMfamma wrote:
He had strengths and weaknesses, as had I. We respected and honored those differences. Few seem today to understand that basic principle of relationships. It is not sexist, merely wisely practical


Yes , I think I know what you're talking about. I am puzzled, sometimes deeply dissappointed by how persons treat one another.There are many moments when I smile,seeing family and friends together. It shouldn't be such a giant leap for each of us to understand,listen,forgive,and care just a bit more. It takes courage, and faith and Love.
I can always use as much of those three things that I can bring to bear in my own life.
We just need to start listening to each other,a little more carefully.

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Oct 22, 2017 21:03:50   #
Bad Bob Loc: Virginia
 
solarkin wrote:
Yes , I think I know what you're talking about. I am puzzled, sometimes deeply dissappointed by how persons treat one another.There are many moments when I smile,seeing family and friends together. It shouldn't be such a giant leap for each of us to understand,listen,forgive,and care just a bit more. It takes courage, and faith and Love.
I can always use as much of those three things that I can bring to bear in my own life.
We just need to start listening to each other,a little more carefully.
Yes , I think I know what you're talking about. I ... (show quote)



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Oct 23, 2017 14:41:28   #
TexaCan Loc: Homeward Bound!
 
MtnMamma wrote:
He had strengths and weaknesses, as had I. We respected and honored those differences. Few seem today to understand that basic principle of relationships. It is not sexist, merely wisely practical


Only when honesty and truthfulness is present in any relationship. Don’t you agree.?

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Oct 23, 2017 23:53:49   #
MtnMamma
 
TexaCan wrote:
Only when honesty and truthfulness is present in any relationship. Don’t you agree.?


No, not exactly. Being honest sometimes obfuscates the truth. Did I kiss so and so? Yes, but.... The "but" often gets lost. The damage is done when no damage existed. An innocent exchange between friends becomes something sinister. In honesty...but not in truthfulness.

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Oct 24, 2017 00:04:21   #
MtnMamma
 
solarkin wrote:
Yes , I think I know what you're talking about. I am puzzled, sometimes deeply dissappointed by how persons treat one another.There are many moments when I smile,seeing family and friends together. It shouldn't be such a giant leap for each of us to understand,listen,forgive,and care just a bit more. It takes courage, and faith and Love.
I can always use as much of those three things that I can bring to bear in my own life.
We just need to start listening to each other,a little more carefully.
Yes , I think I know what you're talking about. I ... (show quote)


Such tenderness you show. Thank you. A good heart, which the world will attack at every opportunity. Know you are a force against evil. Be strong in your decency. Listen, forgive, and care as you said yet with the power of the Holy Spirit. You are a Warrior. The extreme power of your decency and humility is a mighty gift from God.

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Oct 24, 2017 19:31:00   #
MtnMamma
 
Just realized another spelling error: I said "our differnet tasks." Dang. I meant "different." If I post any more titles it will be with dictionary in hand.

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Oct 25, 2017 19:12:38   #
solarkin
 
MtnMamma wrote:
Such tenderness you show. Thank you. A good heart, which the world will attack at every opportunity. Know you are a force against evil. Be strong in your decency. Listen, forgive, and care as you said yet with the power of the Holy Spirit. You are a Warrior. The extreme power of your decency and humility is a mighty gift from God.


Gosh,
That's the nicest , most touching comment I have recieved this year.

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Oct 25, 2017 21:56:33   #
solarkin
 
solarkin wrote:
Gosh,
That's the nicest , most touching comment I have recieved this year.


Thank you.I will do even
better tomorrow

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Oct 30, 2017 19:55:31   #
MtnMamma
 
solarkin wrote:
Gosh,
That's the nicest , most touching comment I have recieved this year.


It is not flattery, just an observation. Flattery is vile, a lie. It puffs us up. For me, by what you said, you are grounded in the Holy Spirit, not your ego. Rock on, as they say now.

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Nov 15, 2017 21:54:19   #
LIto54-60
 
LOVE IT. F

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Nov 15, 2017 22:20:52   #
lindajoy Loc: right here with you....
 
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Men should be men and women, women..
Respecting the differences is what makes it so intriguing..

I’m glad we’re different and I love learning every day just how different we are that makes us live and love even more..

Your attraction and respect comes from their uniqueness, their thoughts and heart..I hope I never stop “learning of and about him “..

Is it a stigmatism to have diverse roles and responsibilities? I think not...
I think it keeps a balance of our acceptance to those things we are actually doing together..

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Nov 15, 2017 22:27:46   #
lindajoy Loc: right here with you....
 
TexaCan wrote:
Only when honesty and truthfulness is present in any relationship. Don’t you agree.?


Where there is no trust, there is no relationship..

One of the mutual traits in the sexes... I believe both hold high standards of the need for truthfulness..

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Nov 17, 2017 03:28:41   #
MtnMamma
 
lindajoy wrote:
Where there is no trust, there is no relationship..

One of the mutual traits in the sexes... I believe both hold high standards of the need for truthfulness..


The question was not about trust. Everyone lies, for a multitude of good and bad reasons. "I love that sweater on you. You look very masculine." Said because of how proudly he struts, a supposed kindness. In other relationships, that would not matter; you would laugh. It's complicated.

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Nov 27, 2017 14:49:11   #
solarkin
 
MtnMamma wrote:
The question was not about trust. Everyone lies, for a multitude of good and bad reasons. "I love that sweater on you. You look very masculine." Said because of how proudly he struts, a supposed kindness. In other relationships, that would not matter; you would laugh. It's complicated.


It's more about heart isn't it?
Things come and go, you cannot offer your soul for sale. It can only be given,and accepted, or not.

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